Zinda bacche ki maut ka maatam- Why akshara? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Aur maatam nahi mana rahe the. Us situation ko soch kar ro rahe the. Or us situation ka gam tab tak rahega jub tak ye log apni life main aage nahi badhte.

Can you explain maatam aur kaise manaya jata hai

Why would Akshara have told him in the past? She tried not once but several times. He behaved like a jerk!! He refused to even listen to a stranger. If I called my loved one and a stranger picked the phone I would not just talk to them but make sure I go and get them out of whatever crap they are stuck in. He made in very very clear in no uncertain terms that he wanted to have nothing to do with Akshara or her kid/ kids. So why should Akshara have contacted him when Abhir was born since she was under the impression that Abhimanyu did not want anything to do with her or Abhir. Was she supposed to have delivered Abhir and then given him to the Birlas as a gift. As far as her telling him right now is concerned why would she come out and tell him and risk losing the one reason that kept her alive at the lowest point in her life. Also even if Abhi would have been willing to share custody at that point how is Akshara supposed to have assume that because she has only seen the unreasonable side of Abhi. Plus at that time it Manjari had demanded that she get Abhir as a replacement for Neil, Abhi would have moved heaven and earth to gift Abhir to his mother. He has always given more priority to his mother than his wife.

Originally posted by: Bedardiya27

Why would Akshara have told him in the past? She tried not once but several times. He behaved like a jerk!! He refused to even listen to a stranger. If I called my loved one and a stranger picked the phone I would not just talk to them but make sure I go and get them out of whatever crap they are stuck in. He made in very very clear in no uncertain terms that he wanted to have nothing to do with Akshara or her kid/ kids. So why should Akshara have contacted him when Abhir was born since she was under the impression that Abhimanyu did not want anything to do with her or Abhir. Was she supposed to have delivered Abhir and then given him to the Birlas as a gift. As far as her telling him right now is concerned why would she come out and tell him and risk losing the one reason that kept her alive at the lowest point in her life. Also even if Abhi would have been willing to share custody at that point how is Akshara supposed to have assume that because she has only seen the unreasonable side of Abhi. Plus at that time it Manjari had demanded that she get Abhir as a replacement for Neil, Abhi would have moved heaven and earth to gift Abhir to his mother. He has always given more priority to his mother than his wife.

Okay fine if akshu don't want to inform abhi or could not call him the point here is there is alot of different ways to infrom everyone that my one of the kid is alive do not treat it as dead. She could have informed kairav or bp. She could have left a chat. Etc. As no mother can let anyone think that her child is dead when her kid is happy and alive.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Sorry to jump in, but only a mother can understand the OP, she's is absolutely true. Agar do babies mein ek baby Bach jaye tho that child can erase all the sadness caused by the loss of the other child. Sadness can't be quantified by percentages, fractions, ratios, or proportions.

My mom lost her baby boy(1.5yrs old)just before I was born, and my mom always felt my touch to be relieving her grief, as a mum I could never understand the crap of a mother character they're sketching for akshara, highlighting how abhinav did everything including providing warmth to the child.

I know as a mum it's the mom's right to provide the skin to skin contact to assure the child that all is well in the transition from the comfort of mother's womb to this strange world.

I actually had a miscarriage before my daughter and had difficulty conceiving my daughter for a short while(about 2 months) I know how hard that was. The minute my daughter was born I had severe blood loss and still I couldn't control my tears till I held my daughter, I know how it feels. Let me tell you the CVs are serving us crap, I think they are smoking some cheap maal, while writing this script.

They made Akshara seem too drowned in her own grief, she behaved callously when her own child was struggling with heart related ailment and she's well aware her ex-husband is one of the best heart surgeons. Yet, she wasn't willing for her child to be seen by him, only because she's scared to face one timid woman called Manjari. The most powerful and fierce avatar of any woman is the mother and a mom neither gets tired protecting her child nor worries about consequences while protecting her child. A mother can go to any length to take care of her child. But sadly to highlight and justify their stupid plot, the CVs are destroying the very essence of motherhood and undermining the power of a mother.

NOTE:I am not for or against abhira, navra, abrohi etc I do not approve belittling the role of a mother or undermining pure values like love, kindness, humanity etc.

The only sensible comment in this thread to be honest

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

the point posted here is not about if akshu should inform abhi or not it's about akshu is letting ppl to think that her kids are dead. Some family's even perform some ritual every year to give peace to the dead souls.

Okay fine if akshu don't want to inform abhi or could not call him the point here is there is alot of different ways to infrom everyone that my one of the kid is alive do not treat it as dead. She could have informed kairav or bp. She could have left a chat. Etc. As no mother can let anyone think that her child is dead when her kid is happy and alive.

And this is where I am confused. Manish implied that he visited the Sharma’s when Abhir was little. So he shoulhave figured it out right. Abhir is only six so a long time back would be 4 or so years back. Also if Akshara was willing to tell Manish that she got married why would she hide her pregnancy. Also how pathetic is her own family that despite knowing the trauma that she went through or hearing that their usually timid and conservative daughter got married to someone within 6 months of getting a divorce from the supposed love of her life and losing her twins that too she got married to a taxi driver they never bothered to follow up. It is mind boggling how stupid and dense the goenkas are. Not defending all the nonsense Akshara has done. She should not have risked it or Neil’s life. But anything after that day is firmly on Abhi Manjari and the goenkas head. Post partum issues and PTSD are no jokes which is what I am sure Akshara was dealing with. As a doctor at least Abhi should recognize that

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

there's no need to tell anyone dear

Abhi haters or pseudo-feminists will find a way to justify akshara even if she's wrong at every point

the fun part is their selective feminism comes out only to defend their favorites 🤣

I want to know your definition of Feminism?

And why should someone not hate Abhi? How hating Abhi or not liking him is pseudo feminism?

Obviously we all here know it's ITV and the script sucks. Everything exaggerated. But let's on the basis of the way you commented discuss the possibility of a husband like Abhi.

Who would you choose a husband like Abhi or Nav?

Abhi failed as a husband, as a human being.

Aru is a vile person.

And even if as per the script Akhsara's stupidity till now and by till now i am including her tearing away the birth certificate she didn't deserve to be blamed as a murderer, thrown out of house by someone whom she trust with her life right after she miscarriaged his children.

Ahe didn't deserve the childhood trauma by Aru that made her doubt everything she do.

She is stupid, emotional, irrational but yet what Abhi did she didn't deserve that.

In the circumstances she gave birth the only person other than her have rights on her baby is Nav.

The only thing your precious Abhi gave her is probably great orgasm considering their hot chemistry the result Abhir.

Your this comment is a slap on the community. Maybe grow up

Hey I think situations back then weren't conducive for a peaceful talk. See, if I am angry with my partner, why would I listen to some stranger calling me from their phone it'd trigger me even more.

But, she could have told abhi during his Kasauli visit, Agar Mann mein chor nahi tho sach bolne mein Darr kis baat ki. It'd have been an amazing progress in her character had she told abhi that abhir is their child he has deserted them on the roads, that'd have been a silent slap to abhi for his ignorance.

Nobody is expecting Akshara to gift her child Abhir in a platter to birla family. My complaint is her lack of honesty and moral integrity.

Sadly due to her compulsion to hide the truth she's shying her son to get treated by the best possible doctor for a life threatening condition. I'm not saying abhi is less stupid, but akshu shouldn't continue her stupidity when there's no need for it. In any relationship, honesty outshines everything, akshu has been an incorrigible foolish liar through and through for her own stupid reasons and silly assumptions.

Originally posted by: Bedardiya27

Why would Akshara have told him in the past? She tried not once but several times. He behaved like a jerk!! He refused to even listen to a stranger. If I called my loved one and a stranger picked the phone I would not just talk to them but make sure I go and get them out of whatever crap they are stuck in. He made in very very clear in no uncertain terms that he wanted to have nothing to do with Akshara or her kid/ kids. So why should Akshara have contacted him when Abhir was born since she was under the impression that Abhimanyu did not want anything to do with her or Abhir. Was she supposed to have delivered Abhir and then given him to the Birlas as a gift. As far as her telling him right now is concerned why would she come out and tell him and risk losing the one reason that kept her alive at the lowest point in her life. Also even if Abhi would have been willing to share custody at that point how is Akshara supposed to have assume that because she has only seen the unreasonable side of Abhi. Plus at that time it Manjari had demanded that she get Abhir as a replacement for Neil, Abhi would have moved heaven and earth to gift Abhir to his mother. He has always given more priority to his mother than his wife.

Originally posted by: Bedardiya27

And this is where I am confused. Manish implied that he visited the Sharma’s when Abhir was little. So he shoulhave figured it out right. Abhir is only six so a long time back would be 4 or so years back. Also if Akshara was willing to tell Manish that she got married why would she hide her pregnancy. Also how pathetic is her own family that despite knowing the trauma that she went through or hearing that their usually timid and conservative daughter got married to someone within 6 months of getting a divorce from the supposed love of her life and losing her twins that too she got married to a taxi driver they never bothered to follow up. It is mind boggling how stupid and dense the goenkas are. Not defending all the nonsense Akshara has done. She should not have risked it or Neil’s life. But anything after that day is firmly on Abhi Manjari and the goenkas head. Post partum issues and PTSD are no jokes which is what I am sure Akshara was dealing with. As a doctor at least Abhi should recognize that

Goenka's are stupid and useless. Birla's too. Nobody bothered to find reason why she married some one so randomly.

And the problem with itv is there is no flow or continuity.

When akshu was pregnant goenka's treated her like queen and fed her with all nutricious food and even abhi took care of her.

But same goenka and abhi turned into heartless monster on that day. That's more heart breaking to see. I so wish itv should stop caring about trp and start serving limited episode series with good story than giving us random junk story.

🤗Thank you probably the mother in me jumps in the moment, I find incorrect portrayal of motherhood😆

Originally posted by: chaipaani

The only sensible comment in this thread to be honest

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hey I think situations back then weren't conducive for a peaceful talk. See, if I am angry with my partner, why would I listen to some stranger calling me from their phone it'd trigger me even more.

But, she could have told abhi during his Kasauli visit, Agar Mann mein chor nahi tho sach bolne mein Darr kis baat ki. It'd have been an amazing progress in her character had she told abhi that abhir is their child he has deserted them on the roads, that'd have been a silent slap to abhi for his ignorance.

Nobody is expecting Akshara to gift her child Abhir in a platter to birla family. My complaint is her lack of honesty and moral integrity.

Sadly due to her compulsion to hide the truth she's shying her son to get treated by the best possible doctor for a life threatening condition. I'm not saying abhi is less stupid, but akshu shouldn't continue her stupidity when there's no need for it. In any relationship, honesty outshines everything, akshu has been an incorrigible foolish liar through and through for her own stupid reasons and silly assumptions.

To know if your partner is alive or not? To know how the f*k did a stranger know about the babies.

Or maybe call back once in 7 months k kuch kehna chahti thi aj keh lo par yeh mat sochna k humara ab kuch ho skta hai.

Par ab bacha hogya hai bta dete hain papa deserve to know. Abhir k baare mein obviously Abhi ko pta hona chahiye and obviously writers are dragging it up for god knows what trp but agar ap compare karo toh don't you think Nav ne seed plantation ki apne zameen par, usko andhi toofan se bacha k ek din paudha bdha hoga chaw dega sukoon dega and achanak se ek aadmi aata hai kahe bhai suno seed mera tha yaar isliye pedh par haq mera hai