Zinda bacche ki maut ka maatam- Why akshara? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

🤗Thank you probably the mother in me jumps in the moment, I find incorrect portrayal of motherhood😆

Ah yes the fandoms maybe fighting for either chemistry, right and wrongs and feminism and all but fact is the storyline sucks, there is no logic, the portrayal is wrong.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hey I think situations back then weren't conducive for a peaceful talk. See, if I am angry with my partner, why would I listen to some stranger calling me from their phone it'd trigger me even more.

But, she could have told abhi during his Kasauli visit, Agar Mann mein chor nahi tho sach bolne mein Darr kis baat ki. It'd have been an amazing progress in her character had she told abhi that abhir is their child he has deserted them on the roads, that'd have been a silent slap to abhi for his ignorance.

Nobody is expecting Akshara to gift her child Abhir in a platter to birla family. My complaint is her lack of honesty and moral integrity.

Sadly due to her compulsion to hide the truth she's shying her son to get treated by the best possible doctor for a life threatening condition. I'm not saying abhi is less stupid, but akshu shouldn't continue her stupidity when there's no need for it. In any relationship, honesty outshines everything, akshu has been an incorrigible foolish liar through and through for her own stupid reasons and silly assumptions.

I agree that she should be honest but I also recognize ptsd. No sane mother would hesitate to get the best for their kid especially if it concerns their heath. The reason she hesitated is because she is dealing with ptsd. It does not help that she has no family. The goenkas can pretend to love Akshu but they are indifferent to everything she has been through. Manish despite knowing that Abhir could die was more concerned about Arohi and Rooh. She may not want to tell them because seeing their priorities there is a very real chance of them blackmailing Akshara into giving up Abhir to the Birlas so their precious Arohi and roohi can get their happiness. If Naira was alive she would have skinned all the goenkas alive for putting Akshara what she went through. The reason she is still with Abhinav us because for the first time in her life someone put her and her interests first. The goenkas put Arohi first Arohi put herself first and the man she married put his mommy first. Akshara is not perfect but honestly every person in her life failed her and she had no one to guide her.

I think akshara should have revealed abhir paternity truth to abhi in kasauli itself, telling he was unwilling back then to listen her, while she tried conveying this message to him. CVs deliberately dragged it for TRP, while dragging they killed the moral integrity of akshara. Any sane mother will fight tooth and nail rightfully with the world but she will neither change the biological father name nor hide his birth from her EX. Because the former has been done when the child was conceived, which was done with consent and the later is the testament to the honesty of the FL.

Leaving akshu on the roads is Abhi ka galti, but panicking unnecessarily now afraid of her deception by akshu that too at the most opportune moment.

It's plain and simple when the intentions are good people live and act confidently, akshu(I don't like calling Akshara because OG akshara was such a kind, honest and ideal FL with her own flaws) fears constantly due to her habit of hiding and lying which I think is wrong irrespective of reasons.

See my complaint is only with the CVs. They never paid any attention to akshu character development, maturity in her decision making etc.

Finally abhinav is a collateral, advantage or damage to him are secondary in this context. Whatever he did is out of kindness without expecting anything in return. I'm only talking about revelation of truth here not about child custody.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

To know if your partner is alive or not? To know how the f*k did a stranger know about the babies.

Or maybe call back once in 7 months k kuch kehna chahti thi aj keh lo par yeh mat sochna k humara ab kuch ho skta hai.

Par ab bacha hogya hai bta dete hain papa deserve to know. Abhir k baare mein obviously Abhi ko pta hona chahiye and obviously writers are dragging it up for god knows what trp but agar ap compare karo toh don't you think Nav ne seed plantation ki apne zameen par, usko andhi toofan se bacha k ek din paudha bdha hoga chaw dega sukoon dega and achanak se ek aadmi aata hai kahe bhai suno seed mera tha yaar isliye pedh par haq mera hai

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

I think akshara should have revealed abhir paternity truth to abhi in kasauli itself, telling he was unwilling back then to listen her, while she tried conveying this message to him. CVs deliberately dragged it for TRP, while dragging they killed the moral integrity of akshara. Any sane mother will fight tooth and nail rightfully with the world but she will neither change the biological father name nor hide his birth from her EX. Because the former has been done when the child was conceived, which was done with consent and the later is the testament to the honesty of the FL.

Leaving akshu on the roads is Abhi ka galti, but panicking unnecessarily now afraid of her deception by akshu that too at the most opportune moment.

It's plain and simple when the intentions are good people live and act confidently, akshu(I don't like calling Akshara because OG akshara was such a kind, honest and ideal FL with her own flaws) fears constantly due to her habit of hiding and lying which I think is wrong irrespective of reasons.

See my complaint is only with the CVs. They never paid any attention to akshu character development, maturity in her decision making etc.

Finally abhinav is a collateral, advantage or damage to him are secondary in this context. Whatever he did is out of kindness without expecting anything in return. I'm only talking about revelation of truth here not about child custody.

Yeah i kinda agree with your point. a little bit of my anger was directed towards others who are blaming her a lot more than needed.

Well obviously the better thing was to inform her family and get good conditions for the surviving child or maybe have a conversation with Abhi when he apologized but dragged for the trp and now we are here.

You have no idea how much i am craving for a strong mother who can stand there and say that's our baby one of the twins and his father be Abhinav jo krna hai krlo 🤣

Akshu shows the symptoms of borderline personality disorder(BPD) not PTSD. She thinks everything in extremes and fears for everything in extreme. The reaction she imagines as a response to her revelation is always extreme often times it may not be true.

Sadly if we watch too much ITV we might suffer from BPD as well🤣🤣. Because everything is exaggerated and we start imagining the unknowns in huge proportions in comparision to the reality.

The only cure for that is KISS(Keep It SIMPLY Straight) meaning if she has to reveal some important fact reveal it consequences be damned, that's one of the quality we see in the strong ITV FL characters. Remember there's no reason for being dishonest or lie other than a natural tendency.

Originally posted by: Bedardiya27

I agree that she should be honest but I also recognize ptsd. No sane mother would hesitate to get the best for their kid especially if it concerns their heath. The reason she hesitated is because she is dealing with ptsd. It does not help that she has no family. The goenkas can pretend to love Akshu but they are indifferent to everything she has been through. Manish despite knowing that Abhir could die was more concerned about Arohi and Rooh. She may not want to tell them because seeing their priorities there is a very real chance of them blackmailing Akshara into giving up Abhir to the Birlas so their precious Arohi and roohi can get their happiness. If Naira was alive she would have skinned all the goenkas alive for putting Akshara what she went through. The reason she is still with Abhinav us because for the first time in her life someone put her and her interests first. The goenkas put Arohi first Arohi put herself first and the man she married put his mommy first. Akshara is not perfect but honestly every person in her life failed her and she had no one to guide her.

My funda is the CVs need ikkis worn out chappal pooja for writing kachra🤢track which is divisive and unfortunately they are thriving on the fandom wars. The lazy writers never put up a strong FL in YRKKH S3 whereas if you see Katha in KA she's very strong so far, I admire her strength to confront her boss and not putting up with his tantrums despite having a ONS with him for money.

People might disagree with me, but the strength of a woman is beyond her body, and her virginity isn't proof of her moral integrity.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Yeah i kinda agree with your point. a little bit of my anger was directed towards others who are blaming her a lot more than needed.

Well obviously the better thing was to inform her family and get good conditions for the surviving child or maybe have a conversation with Abhi when he apologized but dragged for the trp and now we are here.

You have no idea how much i am craving for a strong mother who can stand there and say that's our baby one of the twins and his father be Abhinav jo krna hai krlo 🤣

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I want to know your definition of Feminism?

And why should someone not hate Abhi? How hating Abhi or not liking him is pseudo feminism?

Obviously we all here know it's ITV and the script sucks. Everything exaggerated. But let's on the basis of the way you commented discuss the possibility of a husband like Abhi.

Who would you choose a husband like Abhi or Nav?

Abhi failed as a husband, as a human being.

Aru is a vile person.

And even if as per the script Akhsara's stupidity till now and by till now i am including her tearing away the birth certificate she didn't deserve to be blamed as a murderer, thrown out of house by someone whom she trust with her life right after she miscarriaged his children.

Ahe didn't deserve the childhood trauma by Aru that made her doubt everything she do.

She is stupid, emotional, irrational but yet what Abhi did she didn't deserve that.

In the circumstances she gave birth the only person other than her have rights on her baby is Nav.

The only thing your precious Abhi gave her is probably great orgasm considering their hot chemistry the result Abhir.

Your this comment is a slap on the community. Maybe grow up

Don't bother dear you're talking to the walls.

Problem is not with abhimanyus toxicity or akshus dumbness ,, the main problem is why is nav a good person 🤣