Akshara ka dukh with 0 guilt - Page 3

Originally posted by: Veesam

That medical procedure is called d n c... which is not required in all the cases in earlier pregnancy...

I said physically fyn because she walked all the way from home to unknown bus stop..so she seems very fyn...but emotionally hurt

She couldn't have been physically fine though. Miscarriage is painful regardless.

Originally posted by: neenzz

Sure they were hurt, but being hurt doesn't give one the right to hurt others. If they couldn't think clearly, they could have asked Akshara to leave calmly or asked one of the Goenkas to take her away if she was adamant on not leaving instead of pushing her (Manjari) or divorcing her (Abhimanyu) without ever giving her a chance to explain.

I'll ask you the same question Akshara asked Abhimanyu. Would they have treated Neil the same had Akshara died? Would Manjari have pushed Neil or stopped him from putting flowers near Akshara (IDK what that is or it's significance)? Would Abhimanyu have thrown him out of the house and broken all ties with him?

sequence of steps were like this on that day...

everyone asked Akshara to go to her room..she didn't listen

Manjari pleaded her to go upstairs ...she dint listen

then manjari pushed her...

about Akshara dying...she didn't really die...so I don't wanna imagine what they didn't show in the serial and comment on it 😂..its not real life to stress that much about it

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

A) it is not D and C(curettage). For abortion the procedure done dilatation and Evacuation (d and e).

B)That is not the only procedure there is. Have you ever heard about other procedures like suction/vacuum aspiration?

C) I am a doctor myself. So, I am well aware of the protocols that need to be follwed in cases in hers. And Abhimanyu, being a "bloody good" doctor couldn't fulfill the basic responsibilities of a doctor? So not only is he a bad husband and a bad father, he is bad doctor as well.

Masha'Allah, that's good to know. I had no idea you were a doctor. OB/GYN?

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

A) it is not D and C(curettage). For abortion the procedure done dilatation and Evacuation (d and e).

B)That is not the only procedure there is. Have you ever heard about other procedures like suction/vacuum aspiration?

C) I am a doctor myself. So, I am well aware of the protocols that need to be follwed in cases in hers. And Abhimanyu, being a "bloody good" doctor couldn't fulfill the basic responsibilities of a doctor? So not only is he a bad husband and a bad father, he is bad doctor as well.

d n e is done at 15-20 weeks

and curettage is to remove tissue ... if there is any tissue left after natural abortion..

how do you explain natural abortion? Educate me..

Originally posted by: Veesam

d n e is done at 15-20 weeks

and curettage is to remove tissue ... if there is any tissue left after natural abortion..

how do you explain natural abortion? Educate me..

Not a doctor, but there is no thing as natural abortion. It's called a miscarriage... as far as I am aware.

Originally posted by: neenzz

Not a doctor, but there is no thing as natural abortion. It's called a miscarriage... as far as I am aware.

Hmm... my point is some people does not aware of their pregnancy and have miscarriage also...there are many such cases and there is no need of medical intervention in every abortion ...except antibiotics..in reality

Natural abortion is spontaneous abortion /misscarriage which happens without pills/medical intervention.

After abortion radiologist check for residues through scan..if there is nothing they will prescribe some antibiotics..

When I was 20 ..so ..I used to think abortion means surgery..Here ppl are thinking same..

Now I am experienced to know about these things..😂

I might be wrong though...but,With 3 radiologists in my immediate small family..I think I know little things

Originally posted by: Veesam

Hmm... my point is some people does not aware of their pregnancy and have miscarriage also...there are many such cases and there is no need of medical intervention in every abortion ...except antibiotics..in reality

Natural abortion is spontaneous abortion /misscarriage which happens without pills/medical intervention.

After abortion radiologist check for residues through scan..if there is nothing they will prescribe some antibiotics..

When I was 20 ..so ..I used to think abortion means surgery..Here ppl are thinking same..

Now I am experienced to know about these things..😂

But that is very early on in the pregnant where they don't realize. I'm not sure of the number of weeks, but 4-6, I believe. Akshara was way past that stage. They could hear the heartbeat before she miscarried.

Originally posted by: neenzz

But that is very early on in the pregnant where they don't realize. I'm not sure of the number of weeks, but 4-6, I believe. Akshara was way past that stage. They could hear the heartbeat before she miscarried.

first scan only they will detect heartbeat na...5-6 weeks

Originally posted by: Vanavil25

so if someone die because of her no need to feel guilty should take it easy and move on...no need to say sorry nothing...I have seen in funeral because of pain people crying like if I should have not allow him to go accident wouldn't happen 😢 like that...Here she was almost responsible still no regret .she should have atleast once said that word galti hogayi ...sorry but no ...She is not in same pain like Manjiri like Arohi ...She very well knows she got miscarriage because of her act but she was not ready to accept instead everyone wants to accept her as she was also in pain ....The fact is she can't took the blame and don't want anyone to point it out ...That's it...

Really..after reading this , I think manjari is a very realistic character..

Anyways..I was talking abt the cases where a person dies due to another person's negligence/become the cause of death directly or indirectly .

What's the expiry date of "guilt" ? N what diff really does it make to hear "galti " ho gayi? Was she gleefully celebrating her children's death ? Have you seen those episodes ? She was a walking dead body . If she didn't get the news of abhir , she may not have survived what she went through .

Basically all this "akshu must feel guilty" stems from the fact that abhimanyu is correct to throw her out right ? That her mistake was this big that any husband will do what abhimanyu did..so she must feel guilty of saving those girls from trafficking , she must feel guilty of helping them ..she must feel guilty of stepping out when she had cramps.

Originally posted by: Neha5785

Now that they butchered abhi and making him repenting (rightfully so) people forgot how annoying Akshara was😂😂

Dude didn't have a single moment of peace in the starting days when he married her. She never listened to him and always interfered in others lives even after abhi warning her his family is not like hers and not to indulge. She always pushes his buttons.

Truth is Aksharas over mahaanta made everyone look bad around her.

While we are arguing how Abhi's character isn't likeable in real life and emphasizing sooo much on reality here, how is Akshara realistic in any way?

These 2 should really be together and leave other good ones alone.

Yeah that's what it is 😆 abhimanyu also said this.. she never listens..she never obeys his orders...

Ab akshu woh wohi rahegi na..why does he want her back then? Like..so desperate.

Akshu is unrealistic and arohi is realistic. That's the truth.. I'm not being sarcastic..this is what it is. 🤷 people like you and me will choose to spend 2 days in hospital if they experience cramps in complicated pregnancy.