Where is Akshara's deep love for Arohi coming from? - Page 8

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Of course circumstances and all led Arohi to dislike Akshara and hate her in childhood.

But what does she do after becoming a highly educated, grown up woman after 15 years? That too a doctor? She still spews venom unnecessary on Akshara, bullies and harasses her every opportunity she gets, abuses, insults and demeans her, and treats Akshara like an object that's only meant to keep her happy.

The moment Akshara does anything that slightly displeases Arohi, she starts bullying and gaslighting Akshara. She has now reached a point where she doesn't care one bit about Akshara and doesn't have any empathy about Akshara's emotions and feelings. If she cared at all, she wouldn't have manipulated, blackmailed and cunningly forced Akshara to give up on her love. Right now, she's become apathetic and cares only about herself, unless Akshara is on the death bed.

Well said!! Makes me so angry!!! Regardless of personal grief and loss, not that she was the only one, Arohi has no right whatsoever to be this nasty!!!

This basically shows that she simply hates Akshu and doesn't care if she lives or dies!!

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Well said!! Makes me so angry!!! Regardless of personal grief and loss, not that she was the only one, Arohi has no right whatsoever to be this nasty!!!

This basically shows that she simply hates Akshu and doesn't care if she lives or dies!!

Exactly! And her continued harassment is both direct and implicit. Nobody calls her out as well. If anyone tries to point out her mistakes, she starts gaslighting and bullying them as well, like she did with Kairav in the mandir scene. She just can't see her own mistakes or realize that other people are facing injustices too. It's not just her who had an unfair life.

She just wants Akshara to be bound to her for eternity, keep her happy, boost her ego, hide her lies, and make her feel that she's the best. The problem is Akshara has become so spineless, doesn't stop "loving" Arohi, and keeps falling at her feet after every harassment session. Both the girls faced trauma in childhood but that's no justification for Arohi becoming an abuser now and Akshara becoming an insufferable doormat. 🤢

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Whatever the sisters had or not between them, Abhimanyu is definitely guilty of pouring oil. His way of handling akshara is insensitive and selfish in the extreme, that's why I said his love is sadak chaap. And aarohi running after this guy is beyond disgusting but the way abhi and akshu have been carrying on is even more so. What the great dr did with aarohi is the nastiest piece of unmanliness and it doesn't matter if aarohi deserved it. Abhi being celebrated for his greatness, his tameez, his sanskaar, his respect for women and how enlightened he is about pyaar shouldn't have done what all he did. The fact that he did do all that proves that he is worthless.

What abhianyu did will forever be a black spot on him. But the fact can't be ignored that sisters also played him...both were desperate in their own right.

If akshara wanted , this tamasha would have ended long ago. If she confessed to abhimanyu post tilak #1 things wouldn't come to this .

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

And just to remind you, Akshara was also involved equally in what happened to Arohi. Please also don't keep saying "what the sisters had or not between them". That's normalizing abuse and brushing aside the harassment Arohi has been systematically meting out to Akshara. I've clearly explained what the girls actually have between them, which is Stockholm syndrome.

Yes..blaming abhimanyu is so pointless.. that way sirat also poured oil and she is equally to be blamed. For all the things, this is something he is not responsible for. In the hatred for the ml, arohi is also being white washed , it's very sad. He unknowingly became the reason for another rift but that's not his fault. Like I said earlier , the sisters were also desperate , one wanted to sacrifice to get sisters love , one wanted to supress sisters love to get abhimanyu . Abhimanyu chose the worst girl to marry , harsh ki baat maankar , I hope he tells this someday.

I don't deny akshu is pushy and over clingy and sometimes it irritates the hell out of me .. that's my problem bec I am that way . I need my space ..but I also have the brains to understand that this is pure love. Akshu isn't acting out of any selfish interest. My grandmother is like that..over caring over loving. I love her too but sometimes get irritated, not show her of course.

Here aaru is plain selfish obnoxious nasty , a bully who loves to harrass akshu and can't see her happy . Love is never conditional, that aaru keeps putting demands like today . This is now akshus battle to fight and I am glad they got to this..akshu needs to shut her up big time and also the badtameez ghatiya goenkas. They were never good parents to kartik naira or any of their children and the legacy continues 🤢

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yes..blaming abhimanyu is so pointless.. that way sirat also poured oil and she is equally to be blamed. For all the things, this is something he is not responsible for. He unknowingly became the reason for another rift but that's not his fault. Like I said earlier , the sisters were also desperate , one wanted to sacrifice to get sisters love , one wanted to supress sisters love to get abhimanyu . Abhimanyu chose the worst girl to marry , harsh ki baat maankar , I hope he tells this someday.

I don't deny akshu is pushy and over clingy and sometimes it irritates the hell out of me .. that's my problem bec I am that way . I need my space ..but I also have the brains to understand that this is pure love. Akshu isn't acting out of any selfish interest. My grandmother is like that..over caring over loving. I love her too but sometimes get irritated, not show her of course.

Here aaru is plain selfish obnoxious nasty , a bully who loves to harrass akshu and can't see her happy . Love is never conditional, that aaru keeps putting demands like today . This is now akshus battle to fight and I am glad they got to this..aaru needs to shut her up big time and also the badtameez ghatiya goenkas. They were never good parents to kartik naira or any of their children and the legacy continues 🤢

Spot on! 🤗

Thanks for all these valid points!! 😳

Please understand that I am not defending or justifying aarohi's behaviour towards Akshu and Akshu's clinging to aarohi or their lies in this whole fiasco. I am not talking about their equation generally, only in this matter of Abhimanyu's.. Bcz regarding aarohi's behaviour we have different povs, even going back to her mother and whether whatever she did was right or wrong.. But in this matter with Abhimanyu, keeping aside the sisters' behaviours, his is very very disgusting.. And just as you cannot digest that people are trying to explain aarohi's behaviour I can't digest that Abhimanyu is being proclaimed as the best man on earth despite the crappy way he has behaved with his love interest, her family and his own family..

However I understand that we have very different views.,so

🙏🙏🙏

This thread has gone so far off the rails that I can't even muster the energy to look for any nuggets of insight hiding among the flames...

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Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Please understand that I am not defending or justifying aarohi's behaviour towards Akshu and Akshu's clinging to aarohi or their lies in this whole fiasco. I am not talking about their equation generally, only in this matter of Abhimanyu's.. Bcz regarding aarohi's behaviour we have different povs, even going back to her mother and whether whatever she did was right or wrong.. But in this matter with Abhimanyu, keeping aside the sisters' behaviours, his is very very disgusting.. And just as you cannot digest that people are trying to explain aarohi's behaviour I can't digest that Abhimanyu is being proclaimed as the best man on earth despite the crappy way he has behaved with his love interest, her family and his own family..

However I understand that we have very different views.,so

🙏🙏🙏

Yeah of course, each one is entitled to their own opinion. Nobody is saying Abhimanyu is the best man on earth. He has accepted that he's gone wrong, pointed out his own mistakes and apologized readily in front of everyone. When he goes wrong in the future, he'll again be wrong then.

But if he's very very disgusting and crappy, some others and I think that there are no respectful words to describe Arohi.

The problem is when his actions as a man in love (which people may find problematic, and it's their opinion), are compared to the actions of an abuser who saps the life and happiness out of Akshara. He pursued Akshara only because she made it so obvious with her actions, eyes, body language and behaviour that she was also in love with him.

I also don't understand why we should keep away the sisters' behaviours. If we talk about one character, it's inevitable that other characters will also be judged/talked about. They're all together in this mess. Can't clap with one hand. And can't go guns blazing on one person alone when every character has been made to act idiotic here.

Anyway, to each, his/her own.

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

This thread has gone so far off the rails that I can't even muster the energy to look for any nuggets of insight hiding among the flames...

https://tenor.com/view/harshad-chopda-harshad-bepannaah-aditya-hooda-finally-done-gif-20967652

When I declared my love for this thread, it was the funniest one. Now it has gone off the rails to some war zone. But I won't be removing the link because the gems are still hidden in some of the previous pages. 😍