The public jilting of Arohi - POLL CLOSED - Page 10

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yrkkh has always been about family problems and how every couple suffers due to the family while having their best interest in mind.. On their own, they are just fine . Pick any one track from yrkkh from 2009 to 2022 in which the family was not involved , where problem was not due to them or they didn't influence the couple. Such tracks can be counted on fingers. Mostly it was between akshara naitik in the initial years bec theirs was an arranged marriage and his family was very conservative. Again..family...if abhira have problems it will only be bec of akshu keeping secrets

Originally posted by: Indira1211

he proposed to Arohi because he needed a wife..the fire story was not the reason he proposed..so whether Arohi saved him or not from the fire didn’t matter to him,.that’s why he was not even upset that she lied..because all that mattered to him was that akshara saved him and that implied to him that she cares about him. Abhimanyu is no Angel..he’s just as manipulative as Arohi..he also goes after what he wants…people have blinkers on because they like harshad so they can’t see how faulty abhimanyu is. He manipulated akshara so she blurted out she loves him and almost got her to marry him via elopement and thereby cause distress to her family. Sorry I see him as selfish and manipulative and that’s my opinion..you can have yours and I’ll have mine 💁🏻‍♀️ And the marriage was arranged in my opinion as many arranged marriages take on that route…there’s no set about way of arranged marriages as people marry for many different reasons ..unlike love marriages,.that is based on just love for the person,.and wanting to spend the rest of your life with that person,.l🤷🏻‍♀️

Some great debates going on this poll. I can see things from both sides as to why one would sympathize Arohi's public humiliation and ones who do not.

I hope those that had been afraid to speak on the forum can see we are open to opinions. We may not agree and there can be some heated back and forth but at the end of the day we can still agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: sidnilove

The biggest culprit is jija ji without a doubt. There was no calamity and life on Earth was not coming to an end that jija ji absolutely had to propose marriage to Aarohi. But he did in his full hosh-o-hawaas. Loveless marriage is not unheard of. Arranged marriage anyone? Goenkas and Aarohi accepted the rishta because they considered it an arranged marriage and there's nothing wrong with that. The only odd thing? Abhimanyu's declaration that he'll always love Akshu. Now Aarohi is a practical person. She doesn't believe in eternal, janmo janmo wala love. She thought he'll get over it and she had confidence in her own abilities to help him get over it. Now did she have an inkling that jija ji is two timing? Absolutely not!

Would Goenkas and Aarohi be okay with Abhi romancing Akshu behind their backs? No! Which is why jija ji was doing it secretly when no one was around. switching off the lights, sneaking into the kitchen, secretly dancing in his cabin etc.

Abhimanyu knew fully well what he's doing. normal, abnormal, moving on..everything was about romancing his saali or hurting her. His mehendi wala dance was aimed to hurt Akshu, his engagement was aimed to hurt Akshu, his taunts, his dhamkis, his nautanki everything was done with the sole intention of pushing Akshu to her limit without a care in the world for Aarohi who is flawed but a jeeta jaagta insaan which jija ji seemed to forget.

If Aarohi tried to win over Abhimanyu then what's wrong in that? For her it's a competition and she wanted to win it. Yes, she is delusional and couldn't see that right under her nose her sister and fiance are playing bole chudiyaan. But how can you blame her? Akshu ji who claimed at every point that jija ji is Aarohi's and the righteous jija ji who claims to do seedhi baat no bakwas..saaf saaf blah blah blah who will even doubt these two?

Sabse zyada delusional is jija ji who seems to think that he can continue to ignore Aarohi after shaadi also and bring in maa in between if Aarohi gets too close Aarohi was just a pawn for him and the way he treated her is so wrong. But is jija ji going to get punished for his kartoot? I doubt it. Akshu and Arohi will bear the brunt of jija ji's actions.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

exactly, but anyway they are setting up his character for after marriage..because there is going to be no smooth sailing with Abhira.. after all this is yrkkh which thrives on marital problems of the couple..so let’s see how this manchild handles the issues that crop up in his marriage,..is he going to run to manjeri and cry ma ma then,,,😂.. I must be honest my favourite characters in this third generation story are the supporting cast,..I love Harsh..he’s faulty but he shows the whole world what he is and he doesn’t care, Arohi ..she goes after what she wants.., mahima is an older version of Arohi .. these characters actually make the episodes fun to watch..they are all strong characters who go after what they want instead of cowering under a blanket crying or eating up the person you want with your eyes…😂 I prefer watching them rather than Abhimanyus constant crying and aksharas puppy dog eyes looking at abhimanyu adoringly,, her eyes used to be yearning and dying for abhimanyu so I don’t know why she just didn’t go take him before all this fiasco 😂..and anyway would she have looked at her brother in law like that should the wedding have taken place 🤔

humari soch kitni milti hai 🤪

i totally agree with you especially about the other characters in the show they are far more interesting and they make this show worth watching

the actor playing HARSH is fab

Aarohi ko apni shaddi ki koi padi nahi thi isiliye shaddi ke din plane mai baith kar dusre city mai exam dene gai and yeh alag baat hai ki exam etc fraud hua otherwise exam aka MD tag ke liye woh Abhimanyu ko mandap mai akele bhi chod he sakti thi !

No sympathy for such bride jo apne groom ko bina bataye shaddi ke din plane mai baith kar dusre city mai exam dene ka risky decision at the cost of marriage leti ho ! 🤢

Agar Aarohi ko Abhimanyu ka 1% bhi fikar hota toh communicate kar k actions leti !

Abhimanyu toh usme interested he nahi tha day 1 so he never acted like he is dying to marry Aarohi but Aarohi ne toh hamesha aisa he project kiya ki woh Abhimanyu se shaddi karne k liye mariiii ja rahi hai fir bhi trophy husband ke pith piche plane mai baith kar gayi exam dene ! 🤢

Originally posted by: Indira1211

exactly….but more importantly Is that he has a relationship with Arohi that is public. She is his fiancée and future wife according to the whole world…he put the ring on her finger in front of the whole family…goenkas and birlas..everyone he works with etc…know he’s marrying Arohi..whole Udaipur knows…now suddenly that he has a girl who says she loves him..he can just forget about his fiancée. So the people accepting and cheering abhimanyu for this behaviour..would they still say this if Abhimanyu married Arohi and two Days after the wedding..he and akshara confess love and then run away,.would that still be ok..because Arohi is a manipulator and she lies ..so it’s alright for abhimanyu her husband to take another girl and run away…would it still be ok for them if the marriage happened,,because now arohis fiancé and future husband took her sister and ran away and they are all celebrating this and hailing it as the correct punishment for Arohi..it’s really very sad..that people can’t see the immorality of this situation.. Sadly fans obsessive adoration of abhira and harshad and pranali and their hatred of Arohi have put blinkers on them so they are cheering and applauding the disrespect of a woman by ab highly educated man who’s so respected by men and women in his society.. 🤷🏻‍♀️.. anyway I hope some women social groups hear about this and come question dr. Abhimanyu in his hospital 😂…that will be fun to watch..and harsh running around to do damage control…😂

THIS! in short the good looking HERO who shouts TAMEEZ and compares himself to MAHADEV can do whatever he wants whenever he wants because he is in "LOVE" 🤪

as long as HERO says so it becomes okay and everything happens on his TERMS because everything he says and does is MORALLY CORRECT

as JIJA says ANTH BHALA TO SAB BHALA so doesn't matter if you use and throw people to get what you want in the end

and because AAROHI is a GREY CHARACTER she no longer deserves to be treated with any sort of basic TAMEEZ by the HERO and the HEROINE

i hope JIJA uses the same ULTI PULTI logic to ditch AKSHARA one day for another woman🤪

i love BAAAAAD WALA JIJA

It's not anth bhala toh sab bhala. The end doesn't justify the means. Jija ji did not have to do all this to reach the end goal of getting Akshu.

His family did not have to stand with folded hands, Aarohi did not have to get stranded in dulhan ka joda..and in the promo the audacity of this guy to shout at Aarohi saying you can't talk to Akshu like that 😆..dude..Aarohi is asking Akshu what she's doing with her fiance..what's wrong in that?

I hope jija ji understands that he is Aarohi's fiance and Akshu is the other woman here 😈

Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

You've disrupted the entire causal relationship of the events here to form your opinion I mean... Arohi saves him from fire ---> his mom forms the opinion that is true love and it's better to marry the person who wouldn't wait a second to jump into a fire for you --> Abhimanyu, for his mom, based on this very premise and to make her happy proposes Arohi but makes it clear that this will be a marriage devoid of love or any emotional intimacy -->Arohi puts forth no question and accepts. So where exactly is the manipulation? Your inferences on what routes arranged marriages take, Arohi's inferences are just that -- assumptions based on how these things go. Abhimanyu isn't at fault for these assumptions when he's made his stance extremely clear. As far as what opinions you or anyone constructs regarding him as a person goes that's really not my concern. To me the expectation of emotional fidelity when none was offered is ridiculous.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

no I didn’t disrupt any timeline of events.. manjeri got sick…and harsh told abhimanyu that he needs to marry to reduce manjeris stress…and abhimanyu said I’m ready to marry any girl you choose,..and harsh said Arohi is the right girl and abhimanyu said that’s fine…that was what happened..and that was when the decision to marry Arohi took place..and abhimanyu went to Arohi at the hospital and and asked her to marry him…that’s when the proposal to her happened. The fire story and manjeri praising Arohi was just support of the relationship..abhimanyu made his decision when harsh said marry Arohi and he said fine ,.that’s it..hope I’ve been clear enough.. it’s quite sickening how abhimanyu is being praised for using Arohi and then discarding her 🤨

Are we back to this again? I make an entire argument about how I think he neither manipulated nor used her given the agreement he clearly presented to her but you make the same argument again...why even bother going in circles with me?😳 I think at this point I've said everything I had to say regarding the argument I made. Kind of funny how it's so important to scapegoat one person to vindicate another when literally every single character in this show lead to this fiasco and every one of them including Abhimanyu/Akshara/Arohi 'created' this mess and 'invited' the upcoming consequences. The word deserving is misplaced here but whatever I'm out of this conversation now.