The public jilting of Arohi - POLL CLOSED - Page 8

See feeling sympathetic towards aarohi is completely fine afterall she's a jilted bride who's going to get humiliated publicly..

But let's not victimize arohi please..she is NOT a victim..

Yes abhimanyu proposed arohi a loveless marriage claiming his eternal love for her sister but the question is why did she accept it...nobody forced arohi to accept this proposal infact she was the one who forced goenkas to agree to this marriage..even during the marriage rituals abhimanyu did not show any interest in her except that mehendi dance..but still arohi could not see the red flags...she's so delusional that she refuses to accept the reality or even doesn't listen to her own conscious..

Both abhimanyu and akshara are also at fault but they didn't do anything intentionally..but aarohi's every move was intentional ..she went back to birla hospital as an intern after her first Tilak humiliation only to win over abhimanyu..she even fooled goenkas and akshara that she's only going there for work..

Whatever is happening is her own doing..all three are at fault but aarohi is the biggest culprit out of all hence her punishment is also the biggest

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

See feeling sympathetic towards aarohi is completely fine afterall she's a jilted bride who's going to get humiliated publicly..

But let's not victimize arohi please..she is NOT a victim..

Yes abhimanyu proposed arohi a loveless marriage claiming his eternal love for her sister but the question is why did she accept it...nobody forced arohi to accept this proposal infact she was the one who forced goenkas to agree to this marriage..even during the marriage rituals abhimanyu did not show any interest in her except that mehendi dance..but still arohi could not see the red flags...she's so delusional that she refuses to accept the reality or even doesn't listen to her own conscious..

Both abhimanyu and akshara are also at fault but they didn't do anything intentionally..but aarohi's every move was intentional ..she went back to birla hospital as an intern after her first Tilak humiliation only to win over abhimanyu..she even fooled goenkas and akshara that she's only going there for work..

Whatever is happening is her own doing..all three are at fault but aarohi is the biggest culprit out of all hence her punishment is also the biggest

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

arohi never called him abhi openly on his face she always said..abhi-manyu hesitantly..he never gave her the right and that's why she was always afraid to call him abhi on his face..

In case of akshara..he was pissed off with her and was being mean to her and ignoring her before accident..he even told her she doesn't exist for him but we all know its not true..he didn't take away any rights from her or stopped loving her ..he was just angry with her that's all

Arohi and akshara were never the same for abhimanyu..he ignored akshara once because he was angry with her whereas he always ignores aarohi becoz she doesn't matter to him at all

Both the situations can't be compared.

Ofcourse we know this. Nobody is under the impression that abhi cared anything for aarohi even when he mistakenly assumes her to be his saviour. And we know he always loved akshu in his selfish, slimy way.

What we object to is his using the two sisters to serve his own interests.

"But let's not victimize arohi please..she is NOT a victim.."

"Both abhimanyu and akshara are also at fault but they didn't do anything intentionally..but aarohi's every move was intentional ..she went back to birla hospital as an intern after her first Tilak humiliation only to win over abhimanyu..she even fooled goenkas and akshara that she's only going there for work..

Whatever is happening is her own doing..all three are at fault but aarohi is the biggest culprit out of all hence her punishment is also the biggest"

We do not consider aarohi a victim. She has done wrong things, lied, manipulated to get what she wants.

But so have abhimanyu and akshu lied and manipulated, INTENTIONALLY. You do not sympathize with aarohi. We don sympathize with Abhimanyu. Difference of opinion.

The sticking point, however is that Abhimanyu and akshu are heroes and have everyone rooting for their revolting love and aarohi is villain who everyone wants burnt at the stake. Why? When as you said, and I couldn't agree more, every single person from both tbe families is blameworthy. Especially mahima who started the entire fiasco by not clearing the name when they first took the rishta.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Ofcourse we know this. Nobody is under the impression that abhi cared anything for aarohi even when he mistakenly assumes her to be his saviour. And we know he always loved akshu in his selfish, slimy way.

What we object to is his using the two sisters to serve his own interests.

Both the sisters played with abhimanyu and took his feelings for granted...lying to the poor man about who was his actual savior from fire is a big time treachery..

So the 2 sisters are no saints

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

well the goenka sisters weren't honest to abhimanyu either..both of them played with him like a toy..abhimanyu loved akshara since the beginning but she kept on rejecting and hurting him for her selfish sister. She herself wanted arohi to have abhimanyu so that her guilt of sirat's accident goes away and arohi accepts her..and on the other hand aarohi wanted to snatch abhimanyu from akshara even after knowing that he doesn't love her..

Both the sisters played with abhimanyu and took his feelings for granted...lying to the poor man about who was his actual savior from fire is a big time treachery..

So the 2 sisters are no saints

This...

If abhimanyu used the sisters , didn't arohi use abhimanyu to become the best #1 ? Didn't akshu use him as a toy to pass on to her sis to lessen her guilt ? Hell arohi was ready to marry a guy who loves her sister ..why is she giving such shocked expressions in the precap and show herself a victim? If the families convince abhimanyu and he is ready, she will again marry him. What could be more preposterous 🤪

The biggest culprit is jija ji without a doubt. There was no calamity and life on Earth was not coming to an end that jija ji absolutely had to propose marriage to Aarohi. But he did in his full hosh-o-hawaas. Loveless marriage is not unheard of. Arranged marriage anyone? Goenkas and Aarohi accepted the rishta because they considered it an arranged marriage and there's nothing wrong with that. The only odd thing? Abhimanyu's declaration that he'll always love Akshu. Now Aarohi is a practical person. She doesn't believe in eternal, janmo janmo wala love. She thought he'll get over it and she had confidence in her own abilities to help him get over it. Now did she have an inkling that jija ji is two timing? Absolutely not!

Would Goenkas and Aarohi be okay with Abhi romancing Akshu behind their backs? No! Which is why jija ji was doing it secretly when no one was around. switching off the lights, sneaking into the kitchen, secretly dancing in his cabin etc.

Abhimanyu knew fully well what he's doing. normal, abnormal, moving on..everything was about romancing his saali or hurting her. His mehendi wala dance was aimed to hurt Akshu, his engagement was aimed to hurt Akshu, his taunts, his dhamkis, his nautanki everything was done with the sole intention of pushing Akshu to her limit without a care in the world for Aarohi who is flawed but a jeeta jaagta insaan which jija ji seemed to forget.

If Aarohi tried to win over Abhimanyu then what's wrong in that? For her it's a competition and she wanted to win it. Yes, she is delusional and couldn't see that right under her nose her sister and fiance are playing bole chudiyaan. But how can you blame her? Akshu ji who claimed at every point that jija ji is Aarohi's and the righteous jija ji who claims to do seedhi baat no bakwas..saaf saaf blah blah blah who will even doubt these two?

Sabse zyada delusional is jija ji who seems to think that he can continue to ignore Aarohi after shaadi also and bring in maa in between if Aarohi gets too close Aarohi was just a pawn for him and the way he treated her is so wrong. But is jija ji going to get punished for his kartoot? I doubt it. Akshu and Arohi will bear the brunt of jija ji's actions.

Originally posted by: bakwaspolice

AAROHI has always been consistent when JIJA proposed to her she said EK DIN I am sure HUM EK HO JAYENGE

AAROHI said the same to AKSHU

this is the first time AAROHI has liked a guy right

so when JIJA proposes to her and dances with her means she is winning right because he started to pay attention to her 🤪

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

"But let's not victimize arohi please..she is NOT a victim.."

"Both abhimanyu and akshara are also at fault but they didn't do anything intentionally..but aarohi's every move was intentional ..she went back to birla hospital as an intern after her first Tilak humiliation only to win over abhimanyu..she even fooled goenkas and akshara that she's only going there for work..

Whatever is happening is her own doing..all three are at fault but aarohi is the biggest culprit out of all hence her punishment is also the biggest"

We do not consider aarohi a victim. She has done wrong things, lied, manipulated to get what she wants.

But so have abhimanyu and akshu lied and manipulated, INTENTIONALLY. You do not sympathize with aarohi. We don sympathize with Abhimanyu. Difference of opinion.

The sticking point, however is that Abhimanyu and akshu are heroes and have everyone rooting for their revolting love and aarohi is villain who everyone wants burnt at the stake. Why? When as you said, and I couldn't agree more, every single person from both tbe families is blameworthy. Especially mahima who started the entire fiasco by not clearing the name when they first took the rishta.

Why??? ..what has he done so wrong..he loved akshara and wanted to marry her..brought an Alliance for her and a confusion happened which was everyones fault..still the guy kept on shouting that he loved only akshara but akshara let him down and didn't utter a single word in front of families..

Even after all this she kept on rejecting him brutally..and the psycho arohi kept on pursuing him..

He finally agreed to marry arohi for his mother..but he was dying every single day and crying buckets..he was never happy with this Alliance..he told arohi that he'll never love her but she had no shame and accepted it..akshara was also in full support of this marriage until she found out that abhimanyu was just a trophy for arohi and arohi doesn't love him..as far as abhimanyu's advances towards akshara are concerned he did all those until his official engagement to arohi after that akshara asked him to respect his new relationship and he obeyed and started ignoring her..

Abhimanyu found out the truth about fire incident on the wedding day..if he wanted he would have screwed both the goenka sisters for lying to him and cheating him..but he didn't he just confronted akshara and then she confessed

The fact is abhimanyu is a victim of sister rivalry..one sister sacrificed him to pacifiy the other sister so that the sisters relationship improves ..poor guy had nothing to do with sirat's accident or akshara arohi's rivalry but he paid the price for it..

Please cut him some slack..infact out of akshara abhimanyu arohi trio abhimanyu has suffered the most with no fault of his.

Originally posted by: _charu_

This...

If abhimanyu used the sisters , didn't arohi use abhimanyu to become the best #1 ? Didn't akshu use him as a toy to pass on to her sis to lessen her guilt ? Hell arohi was ready to marry a guy who loves her sister ..why is she giving such shocked expressions in the precap and show herself a victim? If the families convince abhimanyu and he is ready, she will again marry him. What could be more preposterous 🤪