Define DT Note Pg11 - Page 4

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

I have not given u a right to call me Noor.

I have called out his behaviour and called out Akshara too.

I have said he was wrong in the cabin incident and the engagement bike scene.

But you guys bashed him for moving on, for not remembering the confession of Akshara even when she confessed when he was unconscious and does not remember anything, bashed him for believing something that was the most reasonable to.

But just when we call out Akshara behaviour, it's us who are immature, should be ashamed to call ourselves woman... Way to go people!

We call out Abhimanyu all the time but what we don't do is bash Akshara. We see things from two perspectives. If they are watching for other characters in the show they never make posts about them.

Hahaha no words people have problem if I called from their name it's so funny 🤣also this is just a tv show why reacting personally god god bless u🤣

Originally posted by: Amss123

Agree well said 👏 ishqnoor ..sorry I don't know how to post quoting ur post..new to forum

In last you will see a quote option beside my reply, click on that.

Thank you... Bohot kuch sun liya .. ye sun kar acha laga 🤗🤗

Originally posted by: apacs

okay but this is YOUR opinion why should everyone else have the SAME opinion 👍🏼

Thanks again, exactly my point, why should everyone behave, act and feel according to someone else appropriation.

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

We call out Abhimanyu all the time but what we don't do is bash Akshara. We see things from two perspectives. If they are watching for other characters in the show they never make posts about them.

everyone has the right to criticize or defend AAROHI MANJARI KAIRAV AKSHARA HARSH ABHIMANYU MAHIMA and so on whenever they feel like it

today i can say i didn't like KAIRAV's santara wala suit

it's a free forum to discuss the characters

Originally posted by: Waidehi

Hahaha no words people have problem if I called from their name it's so funny 🤣also this is just a tv show why reacting personally god god bless u🤣

It's not my real name and my virtual name and people whom I love calls me this... My name and I am very much possesive of it ... Poore time personal attack aap karo aur reacting personally ka gyaan bhi mujhe... Thank you

I have been quietly reading this word toxic every now and then but.. I stay quiet as never wanted an argument at a place where I come to unwind. Thanks for raising this topic.

I know am gonna be harsh here so I apologise here first, but the truth is many of us find word toxic very fancy to use. We forget that nobody's perfect but WE WANT THEM PERFECT !! WHY ? Don't we all know a person around us who's a loner like abhimanyu. We want him or her to express or mingle but won't try to understand why they don't. Maybe they're not arrogant but plain shy, don't feel comfortable when someone reaches out to them. When they feel someone's intruding, they protest and we label them as brute and arrogant. Why trouble them and give them labels later ?

Abhimanyu is not toxic. Yes overtly possessive, he is harsh on many occasions, but still he is not a stalker. He is a confused soul who stayed troubled with his parent's reality throughout his childhood, couldn't protect his mother initially. Lost faith in relations so remained in his shell with studies and music. He is complex. When he met akshara, the most easy, goofy, happy, singing,caring and soft like his ma, he was besotted the very moment. Strikingly different from him. She fills in gaps in his life. Only person he smiles to, listens and chases. That's the reason he was in denial even after repeated rejection. Hard for him to let his only solace go. He comes to his usual self with words at times but never with his voice.

So with akshara....

HIS EYES, ATTITUDE AND VOICE ALL GOES DOWN

The girl who's rejected him multiple times goes against her family to save him from false charges, arranges a party to bring smile on his face, romances his shirt, catches him when he falls down, only person who cares about his physical wounds, cries to hear about his engagement and many other things which he is unaware of, won't he be hopeful for a future together with her?? Moreover she's yet to answer if he is a perfect match for her sister, why not for her?

He becomes the same abhimanyu as he is with others only when, despite of all the signs coming from her, akshara blatantly denies any connection between them. Rude,harsh and mad with flickering hope. Who doesn't? Who wouldn't? Isn't it part of being human?

... But here he becomes a toxic guy for us and Irony.. in our hearts we all long for a guy like him who is madly in love with us😏

I understand consent is important, but akshara's eyes tell him a different story. He is not delusional when he hopes akshu loves him equally.

Harshwardhan is not toxic, plain ambitious.. and never pretends to be otherwise. Straightforward like abhimanyu.

Pls reserve this word toxic for Arohi. She knows what abhimanyu and akshara are going thru still she wouldn't budge from her resolution. She doesn't mind who suffers, she'll continue with her manipulations, narcissism and wild obsession to get what she wants.She is half human, half ambition.

I hope we are kinder on people around us instead of calling them names.

I am not good with words, but I know as a Psychologist what a toxic personality is..and trust me you wouldn't like to see them in face..

I rest my case here. You can abuse me for the day for my plain words. I won't mind as am busy with period cramps already 😊

U have problem with your name calling so pointing ur fav abhimanyu is a big thing oh sorry I called by the name which i shouldn't personal attack kabhi nhi kiya he bas abhi par point Kiya aapko toh personal attack hi lagenge abhimanyu Bhagwan Jo hain

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Thank you apacs for pointing out that there are other characters in the show.

The blame is on other characters too. Akshara had ever right to say no. Her actions should also say no as her words. She should have never come back for that birthday party.

They are both at fault and responsibility lies with both of them.

What happens in forum is just pure gate and bashing. Just calling a spade a spade. Apparently toxicity is being faught with more toxicity.

Just on the bull's eye...bang on!! Completely agree ..we became toxic by commenting the characters toxic again and again, it's just a fiction, fictional characters...enjoy guys, for 20 minutes episode,we spend the whole day on the forum....no bashing ..please!! Chill !! Enjoy the performances of the actors...