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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

Loved everyone's viewpoints; passionate opinionated defense of the characters you like or dislike. I am not sure why everyone thinks that Akshara is being bashed. If you have followed our discussions carefully we here on the forum love taking turns beating up on various characters depending on whoever we think is responsible for a ghatiya track.

Varsha has taken a lot of heat with the Jimmy track & the various Naksh MU's, for being an excellent counselor to Akshara.
Rajsri who everyone loves to hate has been consistently getting bad press starting off with her infamous hormonal imbalance; jasoosi w/Bhola and various invites to Akshara.
G3 was the evil m-i-l in the beginning but became loved when she did the sugar-coated fake ma-beti drama.
DJ who everyone hates was a hero when he had Akshara palla free but all other times we have worried over whether he can keep his eyes in place.
Naitik was blamed for the initial MU, buying house, various nadanias and when Sneha's track went too far.
I almost forgot Nandini, she is not a vamp but she is to us coz she loves to use our pyaari Akshara.

Akshara got a lot of sympathy & love up until she came back after the first MU. We laughed when she was happy and cried when she cried, got upset when the Singhania's were unreasonable. She was portrayed as a normal girl like most of us, she was disappointed about not going on a holiday or going for a movie with her husband.

We could relate to her, however once she got back her character has gone for a toss. She tried to please the dino's before but that wasn't her only maqsad up until this point. Once she returned pleasing G3 (& the dino's) junoon sa bangaya. I am sure the balancing act in a joint family is very hard but Akshara's balancing was lopsided always favored the dino's. Kab tak chalega? Neglecting your husband for something that is not achievable, maa(saas) ka pyaar. This will eventually ruin the relationship with the most important person in your life, your life partner. Being submissive may be one of the solution but to what extent? Shouldn't a person reserve some self respect? Yes, you can all live under one roof by being servile but never happy. If she is not happy her family won't be either (by family I mean her husband & kids).

Our loyalty to Naitik-Akshara(Naksh) jodi is what determines who takes the beating. Yes, Naksh is what drives this forum. Its Akshara's turn now coz Naitik is shown to be a near perfect husband, every woman's dream😍 Akshara is getting there, the day she realizes that she can never be the perfect bahu she will be a near perfect biwi.

Varying opinions make the forum lively & fun; keep it coming guys....

Edited by FLGators - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: FLGators

Loved everyone's viewpoints; passionate opinionated defense of the characters you like or dislike. I am not sure why everyone thinks that Akshara is being bashed. If you have followed our discussions carefully we here on the forum love taking turns beating up on various characters depending on whoever we think is responsible for a ghatiya track.

Varsha has taken a lot of heat with the Jimmy track & the various Naksh MU's, for being an excellent counselor to Akshara.
Rajsri who everyone loves to hate has been consistently getting bad press starting off with her infamous hormonal imbalance; jasoosi w/Bhola and various invites to Akshara.
G3 was the evil m-i-l in the beginning but became loved when she did the sugar-coated fake ma-beti drama.
DJ who everyone hates was a hero when he had Akshara palla free but all other times we have worried over whether he can keep his eyes in place.
Naitik was blamed for the initial MU, buying house, various nadanias and when Sneha's track went too far.
I almost forgot Nandini, she is not a vamp but she is to us coz she loves to use our pyaari Akshara.

Akshara got a lot of sympathy & love up until she came back after the first MU. We laughed when she was happy and cried when she cried, got upset when the Singhania's were unreasonable. She was portrayed as a normal girl like most of us, she was disappointed about not going on a holiday or going for a movie with her husband.
We could relate to her, however once she got back her character has gone for a toss. She tried to please the dino's before but that wasn't her only maqsad up until this point. Once she returned pleasing G3 (& the dino's) junoon sa bangaya. I am sure the balancing act in a joint family is very hard but Akshara's balancing was lopsided always favored the dino's. Kab tak chalega? Neglecting your husband for something that is not achievable, maa(saas) ka pyaar. This will eventually ruin the relationship with the most important person in your life, your life partner. Being submissive may be one of the solution but to what extent? Shouldn't a person reserve some self respect? Yes, you can all live under one roof by being servile but never happy. If she is not happy her family won't be either (by family I mean her husband & kids).

Our loyalty to Naitik-Akshara(Naksh) jodi is what determines who takes the beating. Yes, Naksh is what drives this forum. Its Akshara's turn now coz Naitik is shown to be a near perfect husband, every woman's dream😍 Akshara is getting there, the day she realizes that she can never be the perfect bahu she will be a near perfect biwi.

Varying opinions make the forum lively & fun; keep it coming guys....

well said Sarita..all of us experience diff. problems in day to day basis but the magnitude of the problem differs..our thinking gets moulded according to the environment which we live in...so someone who is living independent cannot know or should i say understand the problems of a DIL living in a joint family...i am doing it and in 2 yrs i posted a lot of varied opinions in this matter....lately i feel that akshara is right...no amount of assertiveness/tact will help her to please gayitri bec. it's an impossible task..and it's not in her nature toh she's never gonna change...i experienced it in reality that it doesn't work..nothing works yaar..no tact, no assertion, no chup rehna, no sacrifices ! go on , ignore yourself, sacrifice your hapiness like akshara does, all u will get is a joint family which will look joint from outside but deep cracks will be visible inside and one fine day it will crumble...it's better to invest our energies in something constructive and positive rather than these never ending MIL DIL issues...this is one msg i got from YRKKH n that is ke bahu chahe akshara jaisi ho, uski kadar phir bhi nahi hai

PS we have given nicknames to everyone..dinos, congress, papita, chandalika etc. but i swear our intention was never to bash them 😆 n why fret over this blame game? the person who's least affected by it is our dear akshara ! 😭

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JAYA_09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

charu ,after naksh patch up only on installment basis v got to see naksh cute moments.

but now after batwaara v thought v thought v vl be able to see naksh scenes more but nothing like that.

akshi trying her level best to make everyone happy in their family including naitik but it end everything in vain.

feeling so bad for her. again she vl taunted or targeted by dj and family sp gay3 if rashmi rishta broken or may be after married they vl come to know reality about nikhil akshi vl be responsible.

but what i want to see naitk with her or should stand by her becoz she stand by naitik when snhea's mum came home don't want to see naitik get embarrassed. she saved him.

after naitik like a true and lovable supported in each and every time he should continue doing that. naitik should be always with akshi they should support each other don't bother about gay3 v cannot change her mentality

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#34

Originally posted by: _charu_

Kamudi ye kya keh rahi hai 😲 Baisa jiske saamne Gayitri, BMA aur Daddaji bhi bheegi billi ban gaye the , unko akshara na jawab diya toh it's normal? and what was more humiliating for her parents? ke baisa commented on them ke beti ke sasural ka paani nahi peete aur ye log gift accept kar rahe hai..YE sunna ya phir Rajshri getting humiliated in front of 100 ladies n apologizing for a mistake which she never did? for whom? for nandini? why didn't akshara tell everyone LATER (in Singhania house) that nandini was lying???? with maayka ppl. i agree everyone is free...unko kuch bhi keh do, that understanding is at a completely different level..to an extent with husband also...

omg.. i completely forgot wat nandini did in varsha's godh bharai..

then yes.. u r rite here di.. but may be she thinks ki ghar ki baat ghar mein reh jaaye to hi better hai..🤢 lame reason.. but.. yahi hoga.. aur kya..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: moonlight08
omg.. i completely forgot wat nandini did in varsha's godh bharai..
then yes.. u r rite here di.. but may be she thinks ki ghar ki baat ghar mein reh jaaye to hi better hai..🤢 lame reason.. but.. yahi hoga.. aur kya..

Kamudi that's why i said na ke singhania house jaakar she cud have told everyone abt nandini's lie..we dislike rajshri but i believe maheshwari's have no respect whatsoever just bec. they r ladki wale...naitik was the only one who spoke against baisa when she insulted nani and rajshri..nandini openly humiliated rajshri without a mark of guilt on her face..she didnt even apologize to rajshri ! 😲 and now the biggest humiliation is coming when gayitri will blame rajshri for getting JEALOUS for rashmi's rishta , only bec. they refused sooraj's rishta 🤢 isse badi insult koi hogi? phir koi bhi yahi sochega na ke jao jo karna hai why should i bother? 😡

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#36

generation gap..

the biggest problem faced by the family members.. no matter how educated n broad minded u r.. one day or the other.. u'l end up thinking.. 'humare zamane mein to aisa nhi hota tha.. ye bacche aaj kal kya kar rhe hai'

same thing is happening in the serial also..

naitik belongs to the present generation.. n being the only boy in the house filled with women.. he's got a lot of pampering from the elders.. be it baisa.. daddaji.. his own mother or bhabhima..

living in small town or a city doesn't change anythng.. boys will be boys.. only difference is ki naitik is more civilised than the city boys.. more cultured and disciplined rather.. otherwise.. the thinking reamins the same.. "to have my say in the house"

daddaji on the other hand.. is a strict and conservative patriarch.. all these years.. no one has ever questioned about his deeds.. everyone worked under him and now.. probably he thinks ki his position is being threatened by naitik's "nayi soch".. he fears ki may be naitik will spoil the decorum of the house.. by cuming in late or anything lyk dat..

but yes.. he too should mould himself a little.. considering the fact that it is naitik who has to shoulder responsibilities after him.. he should give him some degree of freedom so that he can take daddaji's ideas forward with a tinge of his thoughts.. the rigidness.. the ego which they both share just won;t work here..

akshara on the other hand.. is sandwiched between the two.. though she belongs to the present generation.. she cannot bring her 'soch' in the household matters.. she has to abide by wat her elders say. (don;t noe y.. but this is wat i hav seen till now..) n at the same tym.. she has to keep naitik;s wishes in mind.. otherwise naitik will actually fall for a girl lyk sneha.. but since she lives in a joint family.. it does becum a bit more difficult for her.. she put it rite wen she was leaving the house during the mohini drama.. "sabko khush rakhne ki koshish mein main kisi ko khush nhi rakh paayi"

n the best solution here is to be ingnorant of all the problems.. at least now.. coz she has been separated.. at least she shud not do all the chamchagiri n so much coaxing.. it won;t help.. gayitri isn't ready to listen.. n naitik is there with her through thick n thin.. wat's the use of all that now.??

Edited by moonlight08 - 14 years ago

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#37

Originally posted by: _charu_

Kamudi that's why i said na ke singhania house jaakar she cud have told everyone abt nandini's lie..we dislike rajshri but i believe maheshwari's have no respect whatsoever just bec. they r ladki wale...naitik was the only one who spoke against baisa when she insulted nani and rajshri..nandini openly humiliated rajshri without a mark of guilt on her face..she didnt even apologize to rajshri ! 😲 and now the biggest humiliation is coming when gayitri will blame rajshri for getting JEALOUS for rashmi's rishta , only bec. they refused sooraj's rishta 🤢 isse badi insult koi hogi? phir koi bhi yahi sochega na ke jao jo karna hai why should i bother? 😡

oh yes.. absolutely.. this shud be the last warning to akshara to stay away from all these issues.. iske baad bhi agar akshara nhi sunti hai to kuch nhi ho sakta uska..

singhania house se bhi zada.. i was shocked wen akshara forgave nandini so easily.. do chaar magarmacch ke aanu bahaye nandini ne n akshara was lyk.. omg.. didi koi baat nhi..

the fact is ki cv's have closed this matter in a hush.. unhone iss baat ko itna glorify nhi kia jitna karna chahiye tha..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#38

I stopped watching this serial becuz I was getting sick of the whole saas/bahu drama. I just recently started watching again and am shocked that nothing has changed. G3 is still a horrible saas who thinks that just becuz she didn't do anything after marriage other than the typical wifely things that Aksh shouldn't have a mind and think of everything including the house and biz. I think that Aksh has been a wonderful bahu, beti and biwi. The problem is that the elders in the house don't want anyone else to have any say in anything and whatever they say is gold. Dadaji has gone too far in thinking that NaAksh are only thinking about themselves. NaAksh should just go ahead and prove that they are smart enough to run their share of the business with the education and experience of the newer times. If the biz is divided amongst the men of the house then shouldn't all the men have a say in how to handle situations and not just do what Dadaji wants and says. Just my opinion from a new generation outlook.

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JAYA_09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#39

lekin charu y they were going fast for rashmi's marriage.

i t hink something fishy going with nikhil's family.

thilaks rasam did only boy's house. y they do in dj 'splace

during naitik thilaks rasam they told akshi should not come for thilaks rasam itni partiality kyun.

and itni jaldi engagement bhi,they don't even bother about naksh. andf later if naitik vl see nikhil with some other girl if he come and tell gay3 def she vl not believe him and i want this reishta to happen gay3 should suffer and iwant waht mohit did not anyuthing with dj and fhis paagal family nikhil's mum vl or should advantage
firstr day they came and saw the hopuse they r so shocked. y dj did not enquired abo ut the boy properly.

if something happens shankarai tai is to be blamed and rajshri may be gay3 realise that she should listen to rajshri and last humarai akshi akshi waja se naitik

one more thing mohit is not going to become ghar jamai it is nikhil is going to be ghar jamai in pov. reshmi bahut ronewali hai.

do u all think akshi vl tell naitik everything about nikhil.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: moonlight08

though she belongs to the present generation.. she cannot bring her 'soch' in the household matters.. she has to abide by wat her elders say. (don;t noe y.. but this is wat i hav seen till now..)

wohi toh kamudi..she never did that..she always brought her soch in the middle...nandini mohit ke time then lending money from vishambhar and now rashmi's rishta....sabse pehle stop your interference in jurassic park akshara , sab theek ho jayega..inka ilaj hi shock treatment hai..like sarita said, only their jamai's can set them straight....everyone is grown up enuf to understand what they want, let them fight their own battles...

i personally feel bhabhi ko nanad ki shadi ke matter mein and maayke walon ko koi bhi rishta kabhi nahi suggest karna chahiye...God forbid if something goes wrong in future, the blame will come on their girl before it comes to them...rajshri was abs right when she said that she shouldn't have gone there with sooraj's rishta...bhalai karne ke aur 1001 ways hai !

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