Originally posted by: lats55
<br><br>akshara has to take responsibility of changing gaya3's attitude and thinking.. because people are different, and if you can make them realise, and make them know what you are, it will be easy for gaya3 too know about akshara.. a relationship needed to be developed here.. no thru a fight.. <br>
things will go in akshara's favor only when ppl. around her are like her...which is not the case...either she's too good for them or they're too bad for her ! Lata, since every human being is different, it's a different case with everybody...few girls get adjusted with their mIL in no time while for others, it might take years..it depends on the MIL and the DIL we're talking about...1 set of rules is not applicable to all
If today i gift my friend something and she doesn't like it and she tells me directly that i didn't like your gift, won't i feel bad? it's better na if she stays quiet ? when friends can feel bad then here toh it's a family member who you have to deal with everyday ! and hona yahi tha..Gayitri will give this example everyday that you don't like my choice na so do it ur way and Akshara will feel bad..how many times will she justify herself ? idealistically Gayitri should ignore it but in reality it doesn't happen that way, specially with somebody whoz nature is like Gayitri's...females have a infinite capacity to hold a grudge if she wants to...
Edited by _charu_ - 16 years ago