Naitik's sorry-o-thon continues.... - Page 51

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>charu after all MIL are also human being.. what is creating fight is that if i put myself as a DIL, that i cannot understand my saas, and i am bringing my ego, pride, attitude etc infront of her.. may be her actions towards me can be hurtful, but what i needed to do is understand her more, understand her feelings more, may be putting myself into her position.. why to hurt her, allow her to be herself, and can make her realise her own mistake, through my own good nature towards her.. i dont loose anything here, but i will make a big gain in the bargaining.. anyway my hubby's mum, if i love my hubby why i cannot love other things related to him.. i will definitely work on myself more than thinking of MIL and loose my peace of mind..<br>

i understand what ur trying to say dear...and we ALL do this..we HAVE to do it whether the desired results are achieved or not..may be we achieve 50% but even tht is a big achievement 👏

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sonu, you know na this is the reality of married life...everybody has to deal with it , u have no choice...it's not any big issue that's there in all families..these small small things make/break relations..

i know yaar these small small things do matter...and they also crop up the next time u make a mistake....they are never completly purged from one's system.....that's life....
pata nahin mera dimaag aaj bad kharab hai......just feeling a super urge to go to Vaishno devi after reading and watching so much about coming navratre........and helpless in that...and i guess that's showing up here....better log off now and will come up once the show is on air...

Originally posted by: _charu_

things will go in akshara's favor only when ppl. around her are like her...which is not the case...either she's too good for them or they're too bad for her ! Lata, since every human being is different, it's a different case with everybody...few girls get adjusted with their mIL in no time while for others, it might take years..it depends on the MIL and the DIL we're talking about...1 set of rules is not applicable to all

If today i gift my friend something and she doesn't like it and she tells me directly that i didn't like your gift, won't i feel bad? it's better na if she stays quiet ? when friends can feel bad then here toh it's a family member who you have to deal with everyday ! and hona yahi tha..Gayitri will give this example everyday that you don't like my choice na so do it ur way and Akshara will feel bad..how many times will she justify herself ? idealistically Gayitri should ignore it but in reality it doesn't happen that way, specially with somebody whoz nature is like Gayitri's...females have a infinite capacity to hold a grudge if she wants to...

i am like that charu, i say things straight, and unknowingly hurt people, it is not my nature that i wanted to hurt people, but it happens that way.. it is not something i can control, that is my nature.. so solution existing for myself is after realising what i did and then try to tackle the issue.. but can be resolved as long as the other person know you and understands you..

that is why i am all the way defending akshara here, as i am reading her as myself.. now you all are feeling here for naitik, my friends used to feel for me typical sort of situation created by myself and till the time i come out of it..

Originally posted by: sang_hari

u can change a person when a person wants to change,gayatri will change only when she gracefully accepts that her son is married and he needs to give equal imp to her relationship with aks .that is an ideal situation but gayatri being gaytri needs special handling because like rajshri👏 she is not able to accept another woman in her son's life.gayatri is "FRAGILE-HANDLE WITH CARE"written all over her and aks is not a mature enough person to do that.so aks has to tread carefully

if that is the case let akhara change herself.. no harm to anyone.

Originally posted by: _charu_

things will go in akshara's favor only when ppl. around her are like her...which is not the case...either she's too good for them or they're too bad for her ! Lata, since every human being is different, it's a different case with everybody...few girls get adjusted with their mIL in no time while for others, it might take years..it depends on the MIL and the DIL we're talking about...1 set of rules is not applicable to all

If today i gift my friend something and she doesn't like it and she tells me directly that i didn't like your gift, won't i feel bad? it's better na if she stays quiet ? when friends can feel bad then here toh it's a family member who you have to deal with everyday ! and hona yahi tha..Gayitri will give this example everyday that you don't like my choice na so do it ur way and Akshara will feel bad..how many times will she justify herself ? idealistically Gayitri should ignore it but in reality it doesn't happen that way, specially with somebody whoz nature is like Gayitri's...females have a infinite capacity to hold a grudge if she wants to...

if she hold grudge on akshara then akshara will nachegee jindhagee bar............

Originally posted by: sks7

But as a viewer do we really need to be shown all these rough patches of life......we have enough of them in reality......why take the pain of watching it on TV......i sincerely hope and wish that now they show some good happy light moments of a newly married couple and in this i dont mean just Naitik -Akshara moments but her moments with the other family members tooo.....and same goes for Naitik and Akshara's family bonding with each other.....

not eveyone sonu, for eg myself, infact i am learning many thing watching the serial and thru the discussion forums many things.. if they don't show we won't discuss it..

Originally posted by: lats55

not eveyone sonu, for eg myself, infact i am learning many thing watching the serial and thru the discussion forums many things.. if they don't show we won't discuss it..

yes lata forum is informative and educational to me too.....
i guess just need to eat whatever is served on the platter as YRKKH has become gale main phasi hui haddi now for me....🤣

Originally posted by: sks7

yes lata forum is informative and educational to me too.....
i guess just need to eat whatever is served on the platter as YRKKH has become gale main phasi hui haddi now for me....🤣

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Originally posted by: lats55

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Sirf difficult situations face karna hi kyon sikhe? 😉 Romance, cuteness, naughtiness, acceptance in family etc. bhi learn karne mein koi buraai hai kya?

Originally posted by: sks7

i do the same Charu...i wear it once or twice and then not.....but my dear saas has now realized that are tastes don't match so now she just takes me to the mall's to buy it myself...
These saas also mellow down after a while i think....mine has ......