Monther In law and Daughther In law - Page 3

Originally posted by: sportskp

yup i want an abcd like me ☺️ yup mayu's mom shilpa is ideal to have as MIL.

i do want family like akshara's they are best, modern yet traditional....but mayu as hubby and shilpa (mayu's mom) is gr8 MIL jodi. she does jugli with nupur too 🤣 now if natik's mom did that akshara i would faint🤣

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
Imagine Rajshri doing jugli
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
Nah man
Mayus mom is Queen of COOL MIL!!!!
Rajshri is sweet while Mayu's one is fun....Which i like
And yeh you might like a family like Aksharas but I wouldn't. They are waay too I dunno..Strict on some things...I mena they get nery even if Akshara gets home a second later then she said
And they get so nervous about this boy girl thing. FOR GOODNESS SAKE! COME TO ENGLAND! You'll find guys kissing girls on the streets!

All MIL's will be of the same character!!

It is very strange that MILs only think about their sons and they donot consider that this female left her home and ppl to come to live with her son and her family and it is her duty to care for this new member more than her son if not more then atleast equally. When both the son and dil r working then she shuld understand that if her son is tired then her dil also would be so she shuldn't interfere at all let the couple decide among themselves that who will do what and what ever help she can give regarding her health and age she shuld give.

Do not mean to scare anyone off marriage and about mother in laws. This is just of way of mentioning of the real life situation. I have seen good mil's, ok ones and really bad ones. I have just learned to not take it queitly and give it back right there and then. It is about balance. You should be respectful to them but should not put them on your head. If you give respect you should be owed some back. It should be give and take. I have issues with mine but she has dinner ready M-F and I never do the dishes unless I am in the mood. I do majority of the cleaning of the house and my own laundry. She just likes to make comments when other people are around and that I will not take. She use to go off about wasting money and us eating out till her son told her off. So now she bickers infront of me but I tell her tell it to your son.

HAHAH charu di ur so funny!im not married yet so i wont know!

Remember!! God can not go everywhere so he made mother and Devil also can not go everywhere so he made mother in law!!!!😆😆 just a pj

Very well said... If its a pj its the best pj Ive ever heard. One of the best quotes I heard in a long long time.....😛

.i am not married yet.still i know because i have seen how my grandma's treat their DIL.
my father's mother always likes to support her daughter.i am staying in qatar and my grandma is also with me.she wants to send everything to her daughter.i am not blaming her.my aunt even uses my father' and uncle' properties like our land because her husband doesnt do anything and sit at home.he is a good worshipper but still he has to take care of his wife and children.my father and uncles gave the money and jewellery for my cousin's wedding and its my father and uncles who pays for my cousins college fees also.they have got a son but he is also without any job.he is sitting at home without doing anything.my father told him to continue his studies but he didnt do it.and after doing all this my grandma blames my father and uncles if we ask about it.she says her brothers didnot find a suitable groom for heir sister.but it was not their fault my grandpa was the one who selected an husband for their daughter.my father and uncles were very young at that time then why should she blame them.and if someone asks her about my aunt using our land she will say the land not that good and its of no use.she just likes to support her daughter &their childre.but she says to everyont that all are equal to me.she is also a person who has diabetes and other deceases but still she wants to eat everything.even if we make something she wont like that.she always complain about the food.
but my mother' mother is just a sweet person.she takes care of herself and everyone.she also helps in the kitchen.she had cancer but now she is fine.even after her operation she never used to bother anyone.

the best thing to do is what my mother does
i will contd afterwards

evryone is having d same prob mine is different but not different dunno how to get rid of all these probs....never ending...

mother in laws are like that only