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Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

But I have no time
Just hope my busy schedule n my kids give me some time in order to pen this one down 😆

no rush - i know you are busy so anytime you can 😃

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zohakhan7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#112

Originally posted by: -K.13-

no rush - i know you are busy so anytime you can 😃

Okkiess n I have just gotten the idea about this one so maybe in one of my late late night when I m free I will pen this one .

Have you read my new TS on the custody battle of Pihu ?

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-K.13-

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Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#113

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

Okkiess n I have just gotten the idea about this one so maybe in one of my late late night when I m free I will pen this one .
Have you read my new TS on the custody battle of Pihu ?

I haven't read that one yet and need to comment on your SS update still but I'm behind on like commenting on 6 stories ...goal is to catch up tonight! 😳

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zohakhan7

@zohakhan7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: -K.13-

I haven't read that one yet and need to comment on your SS update still but I'm behind on like commenting on 6 stories ...goal is to catch up tonight! 😳

Its ok n catch up when ever u r free

waiting for ur response 😳

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Priya

@priyadarshini.r

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#115

Originally posted by: --QUEEN--
How will Raman prove that he had changed?
What all he can do is just say that he is sorry and never repeat it again. It is genuine, we know and even ishita knew.
Then why still she's not agreeing to come back?
If put aside the stupid reason of serving shagun ( clear nepotism) , what I could see is, first time Raman insulted ishita calling her sauteli maa of adi, during adi-vinni case, then they made it comedy with vandu delivery, so no proper confrontation.
Second time, during leap, even after that, no proper confrontation about raman's words.
Third time, same words regarding pihu, they danced in rain, and again no proper confrontation.
Every time he utter those words, she knew it is all because of his anger but he doesn't mean anything, so every time she let go of it except during leap.
Maybe be this time she wants to make clear that she's not okay if he utters those words again and again. She wants him to never forget this situation, that's the reason she took a drastic step of moving out from the house. She would have stayed in the house itself and must have given silent treatment by not talking to him, but she want to make him see this issue big and not like a casual tiff that they often face in their lives.
If I'm not clear with my point, me and my sister have fought, argued many times. Sometimes we patch up within minutes, sometimes seconds, sometimes within hours or one whole day. Now I don't even remember properly what were the exact reasons of our fights, but once we didn't talk for a week, some ten years back I guess, I still clearly remember the reason why we had a fight😆. I can never forget that.
So ishita is also making Raman not to forget the reason why she left the house.
It's not been shown that she's being guilty of doing things behind his back, but even if Raman says now that not only me but you too are wrong by doing things behind me, so I lost my cool,then she can say that, so this is the way you'll blame me if I do wrong. He cannot speak anymore, if she asks this question. It's better he expresses his pain later. Situation is complex, too much talk will spoil the relation.
Sorry for the long rant😆

Hmm, Fair enough. Can be looked at that way as well Reena. But please don't take offence, in my opinion, this is not a fight or an argument, where one of them choose to remain silent and let the other one alone do the talking and let out their feelings, so that the situation is not complicated further. It is the first mature conversation, they are having as a couple, in a private space, after the first leap and when it comes to conversations and discussions, it has to be two-sided. I liked the fact that he let her talk and listened to her patiently and accepted his fault. Had he expressed his opinion, she listened to it and accepted her fault, that would have been a true mature conversation, that would strengthen their relationship and provide a stable environment to kids. In this situation, I feel it is only fair, both of them had the patience and maturity to talk, hear, accept and work on mistakes from each side ,to make life better for them and people around them. If he has the patience to listen and she can tell him her expectations from him, why is that he has to keep silent now and look for another situation or opportunity, to express how he is hurt by her actions?😕 Is that how we have conversations in real life, be it in any relationship? Don't both of them talk, express their anguish and expectations and promise to make things better? or Do we allow only one of them to talk and wait for another similar opportunity, for the other to express their frank opinions and feelings?😕. For me , it was the ideal situation, the private moment for both of them to have expressed their concerns. That is where my disappointment in the whole scene was.

Edited by priyadarshini.r - 8 years ago

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Priya

@priyadarshini.r

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#116

Originally posted by: Bulleya
There's always a beginning. It's not like IshRa won't talk after today. Why such impatience? 😆
Ishu opened up today, Raman might another time ...

Raman's also gonna get into an accident. Maybe it'll jolt Ishita. Clearly, there's a reason for the accident!

No offence to your point, it is definitely not impatience like your term it. It is disappointment. Because all said and done, we have seen Ishita opening up many a times to people like - Amma, Appa, Bala, Vandu, Mihika, Mani, Simmi and now even Shagun🥱 and express how Raman's actions and words hurt her and how Raman never rectifies his mistakes. But yeah, she opened up to the man himself in private for the first time yesterday and that is appreciable. Butthe point is, she has let out her emotions and feelings with her well-wishers many a times and we have got to see that in this 3 year of YHM.

Is there atleast a couple of instances in YHM, in this 3 years , where Raman has expressed how much of Ishita' actions hurt him and make him feel useless & worthless as a father and husband, to anyone?😕. My memory might be mad, but as far as I recollect, not even one good talk he has had with anyone. There was one soul called Mihir who understood this man in and out and used to stand by him at any cost and respected his emotions. Now he is also absconding😕. Even with Mihir, I have never heard Raman have a heartfelt conversation and expressing his hurt of Ishita not respecting his words. It was all a conversation, where Mihir finally tells him to apologize to Ishita and set things right at the end, because bhabhi would only think good for others😕. So we are disappointed, rather fed up that, in the rarest mature conversation we ge to see among these two, we see only the concerns of one side getting addressed. Nothing wrong I think in this disappointment or impatience as you term it.😊

@blue - Hope so... Let us see if she gets a jolt and we get to see a slightest of introspection from her side and realization of her part in all the mess so far. If it happens, well and good and if does not , well there is no surprise there.😊

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UmeraT

@UmeraT

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#117

I know that Ishita does commit mistakes and I would like for her to have realisation of her mistakes. Having said that, I won't crib about what's not shown because I know how much it'll affect me to talk about the inequality between IshRa. I'm FIERCELY sensitive when it comes to them and that's why it's tough for me to discuss what all you others can so easily.

I love spreading positivity no matter how much something may be hurting my heart from within! I'm unapologetic about that :)

Edited by Bulleya - 8 years ago

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UmeraT

@UmeraT

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#118

Perhaps this forum isn't the place for me.

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Priya

@priyadarshini.r

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#119

I guess people react in different ways to a show and its contents. Not necessary that people have to write their opinion abiding by how a specific person is sensitive to the show and actors. I don't think any of us owe an explanation to anyone over here about why we crib or rant or feel in a specific way about the show. None of us own the forum. All of us are entitled to our own views and I felt bad when the comments were generalized and mocked as "impatience" and laughed at and hence decided to have a healthy discussion. My bad and I realize my mistake. Nope, having an alternate opinion and expectation does not qualify as spreading negativity. Definitely not. Anyways, Peace out. I think I have to be extremely careful in the future, not to react to and discuss certain comments at all. Lesson learnt. 😊.

Edited by priyadarshini.r - 8 years ago

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UmeraT

@UmeraT

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#120

There's definitely some miscommunication that's happened! I didn't say this forum is a negative place. Don't blame me unnecessarily, please I request. I merely said I like to stay positive cos thinking too much causes me anxiety.

If you don't know someone personally, don't judge them as having intentions of ridiculing you. I said what I had to, I don't owe an explanation for my thoughts 🤔 or do I?

Edited by Bulleya - 8 years ago

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