Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 11

Originally posted by: -K.13-

I would've given it back and walked out the very first time - back with dafa ho jao #1 - but this crap has been going on and slowly building and ignored since bring shagun from the dump track

there are real relationships where someone has serious anger issues that don't always end in divorce and i have a relative that's the case. the way my aunt deals with my uncle's temper is she just walks out and tells him to find her when he's cool. She'll tell him she won't tolerate his crap said in anger bc she deserves better. Over time he's calmed down on his own and gained insight.

Idk YHM is just pathetic though and all for the bbeauty tames beast story

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Btw i may be in the minority but i think emotional abuse is a broad term ..

A man abusing a woman calling her unworthy of bring a mother us as much emotional abuse a as woman calling her husband a bad father and a bad influence on his kids in front of the kids themselves and the whole family. ..

Both need to be dealt with the same importance , empathy and vigor if one wants genuinely to resolve issues and change the relationship for the better...

I do understand that motherhood is ishita's achilkes heel and raman can't keep hurting her saying that - but lack of trust, betrayal and fear of losing his kids is raman's weakness...- ishita can't keep hurting him 'doing' those things again too by trusting outsiders. .making a tamaasha of their marriage to unknown people , trusting mani over raman, and then using the kids as pawns ...

Both are emotional abuse and the pain is probably equally severe...only one gets addressed and gets a lot of lip service whike the other pain is shown to us but never gets a acknowledgement by anyone other than the man living it...

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Khair what are we banging our heads about?

in YHM - Raman will never be given a clear perspective.

For me, Ishita and Raman abuse and take advantage of the other in different degrees. Raman's discretions are louder and openly hurtful and cruel...while Ishita's actions are more subtle forms of disrespect. Ultimately one's reaction is because of the other's action - she hides because he yells, he yells because she hides.

And it won't change.

Nor will it be dealt with in a way I see fair because Indian TV generally dimension or justice if you have a Y chromosome

So they are giving Ishita's hurt half justice in this track - then it's good enough because I won't be getting anything else.

And Pb, you joked that they read IF to add scenes - and if they actually did, it seems like it's just to spite people who wanted balance or maturity bc they aren't listening to what general audiences want - which is to see IshRa act mature and work together like in Shanaya track or save Pihu from Shagun Aussie track.

Originally posted by: bscorp13

@bold - don't know about others but in this case the half hurts more coming at the end of a track whice started with Raman being logical and correct and trying to protect one daughter and might end with him bring branded a bad parent and spouse (both of which he isn't by miles)..so that ishita gets to show her pov...the thought itself sucks.🤢..show me some realization from both sides at least since cvs chose such a yucky route to get here. ..else I lose the remaining love i have for the 2 main characters of this show🥱

@red..I have no doubts at all about who they are mocking when they write this track with its so called 'premise' krishy ...but good luck to them since what coukd have been a genuine trp gainer had it followed either 11pm yhm or even the movies premise with more 'balance' is now looking like just another beauty and beast track. .just that the beast gets to hear directly from beauty rather than from a random person as to how much pain he keeps giving her..

Pardon me ..but i cant feel any mohabbatein here for now...unless cvs genuinely have an intention of taking the track to its ideal end. ..😕🥱

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

It could have been an ideal track to revive yhm had this track would be purely focused on Ishra and how Ishita expresses her pain to Gulabo n then Raman realizing what his words did to her n then healing her and even Ishita realizing her mistakes n where she went wrong n both apologizing to each other for their words n actions .Also both having a mature convo discussing about their life and what went wrong and apologizing for their deeds from both sides

Originally posted by: -K.13-

that would be a dream track...or also a dream OS if you catch my gist 😉😆

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

I can totally catch your gist 😉😆

Originally posted by: -K.13-

yayayaya ⭐️😳