WHO AND WHAT IS ISHITA? AND EXPECTATIONS...2/6/17

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Maya

@mayasun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Maya loved your take on both episodes..
So you also think that Ruhi is up to no good.. the way Viji wrote when Adi questioned her regarding N&S and the way she brushed and turned the focus to her parents and her being the reason for their separation and her guilt didn't fool me.. since I didn't watch i could be missing the nuances but the tactic she used is the escapist tactic...hope just like her Daadi she is not seeing another stage for her mother to be blamed once again..
The dialog Raman said you push me to extreme made me realize he knows his extreme anger issues and how he dumps all on Ishita.but hadn't realized the amount of crap he dumps on her.. But if you think he is aware of the extent of the hurt he caused her but refused to acknowledge it and not only that by him making it light don't you think it puts Raman in a bad light? He knows he abused her and still not taking the responsibility to it and still blaming her even for that behavior and making it very insensitive by focusing only on his pain of missing her..makes him inhuman/beast in one word.
All your points are valid.. i don't trust gaurav as I haven't watched any of his interaction with Simmi other than him calling her when ishita walked out... But he is not giving any positive vibes...

Raji,

Yes I believe Raman knows what he is saying in anger too. You can say the person did not mean it if he says it once in extreme anger but he says the same things again and again in anger so he very well know what hurt Ishita the most

You question about Raman refusing to acknowledge his mistake the sole credit goes to Ishita whenever he tried to apologize she never let him finish it she says its okay lets move on or doesn't even wait for his apology but comes back home so that gave him confidence that whatever he is doing is right.

Gaurav had a monologue today stating that he needs to get married to Simmi in a specific time frame for the plan to be successful otherwise he would be ruined. He comes out a MCP. He is rude to Anaya. I am still thinking he is one more relative of Nidhi.

Ruhi its just a feeling Raji because of the way she was sitting in the car and changed the topic when Adi questioned her.

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Maya

@mayasun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: Mdwst

So in simple terms ..he's blocked it as per convenience.!.?..that's even worse...to me
Did you add a happy healthy baby..born..alive...we don't want any mishandling there...!
Mmm ..ruhi...makes sense..but can she drive at 17?! In India...

Hi Viji,

I guess you can drive at any age in India even though the law says different😆

OH No 😲Viji I forgot I will edit my post for a healthy baby born alive too

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Maya

@mayasun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: Diya.mukherjee
yes its high time . I really hope raman sticks to his words this time. The CVS r trying hard to show raman guilty but still missing the main point. I don't think they think so deep,like us whenever they write any scene or dialogue .so u have stopped taking the tracks nd show too seriously . btw lovely revw Maya Di. Totally agree with u. But the precape was well confused me .so I will comment on it post tmrws episode

Thanks Diya,

They never think like us nor they are emotionally vested in IshRa as we do because if they had then we would have had a beautiful story like how the forum writer write they are only interested in making money which is not wrong because it is their business but I want them to have some moral responsibility so that they stop mocking sensitive issues in the show.

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Maya

@mayasun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Thank you Maya... Have no stomach to watch another surrogacy as they really violated the rights of a mother and the way they handled it makes me so angry..I rather prefer adoption to surrogacy...no need to spread those vile genes anymore..I would've loved to see Ishita adopting that baby that Saarika pretended to give birth to..atleast that child would've gotten a loving mother...

Yes Raji,

Everything which was beautiful was shown as trash because of Shagun surrogacy.

Romi/Sarika got married and had the child but to make someone in the house to be culprit so that Shagun can be white Sarika was sacrificed

Rohit/Chadda was sacrificed for Nidhi to enter IshRa life so that Shagun can stay in the Bhalla house

IshRA love was thrown into the dustbin so that Shagun can be a mother to IshRa baby.

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

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Posted: 8 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: Mdwst

He Raji..
Wonderful comment as always
@ bold...that Adi's...lines prompted me to think..is this why we are nit seeing ishita's pregnancy track? They are having not a trial run with shagun a 40 plus woman pregnant?not that there is anything written no with it..but since they are showing shagun,,we all are irked. Will adi react differently if ishita is shown pregnant? Idk...but cvs have exhausted almost all of the tracks..only ishita's pregnancy track is left..and fans are patiently waiting ..few have given up...including me..but I pm still holding on to 0.01%. Lets c ..they did have lot of tracks in their hand. But refused to explore them.
As for Raman's apologies didn't look genuine or heartfelt...him not wanting to be away from her is over shadowing everything.
@ italics...now..they are showing romika as an ideal couple ...cvs themselves have discredited Ishra there..(where raman at one point in the restaurant this after ishu coming to know about the weak uterus,manoj,).. Raman to ishuta..we are there for each other...I'm your kid , or think of me as your kid...and manoj said ..you don't need a kid to prove your love ...then out of nowhere surrogacy started..cvs in a way said surrogacy was not needed...the rest I'm going to be quiet. Your comment on the senior women ..was to the point..
@ purple...well said...👏
You are most welcome..and thank you for commenting dear..I like the way you bring forth core issues...

Viji thank you for liking it...

Viji Adi loves his mother Ishita... That says alot. He was the one manipulated by Shagun yo the point that he wants to end his life when he thought no one cares for him. His love and acceptance of Ishita as his mother is not like Ruhi where she was deprived of parental love and gets attached to Ishita as her own. He hated Ishita as the other woman who took his mother's place but he realized her unconditional love for him and accepted by himself without Raman or family intervention. And since that day he was so loyal to her and for him she is the only one that is going to have a status of Mother. This same Aditya Bhalla as a teen got scared to lose her love if she has her own kid and felt ashamed for thinking ill of the baby but got assured by Ishita that the baby is the third child and he and Ruhi are always her children first and promised to take care of that child too. If CVS carried that track it would4been such a golden track.

His love towards her was not conditional or its never wavered.. he valued her more than anything.

His outburst today shows his frustration and embarrassment about Shagun being pregnant is not to reflect his disagreement with her age it's his disdain for her as a mother. He knew what kind of mother she is and what she did to him, Ruhi and pihu.. and to think of it as this marriage and the baby with a 4th person in her life only tells how much hurt he has in his heart for this woman. He is showing civil relationship with her because of ishita's teachings.. else I'm sure he wouldn't even see her face.

If CVS are going to show meherbani and make ishita pregnant I'm sure we will get to see a different Aditya Bhalla that would be very happy to see her mother's wish is finally fulfilled..

And about CVS discrediting ishra relation... You are absolutely correct. The whole premise of Ishita, Raman and Ruhi and their bond got nullified by making Raman utter those abuSes at Ishita and making Shagun a surrogate mother behind ishita's back they ruined a beautiful story and bond... We are still seeing the carnage of their act..

By showing Romi and Mihika mature conversation they also showed how as a couple they grow.. it's them for them... No strings attached... Beautiful.. isn't it?

Raman and Ishita..nothing more to say.. he doesn't respect her and she doesn't assert her self..

"You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce" Ishita failed here.

"Don't take people for granted. No matter how much they love you, people get tired eventually" this is for Raman.

Even after losing Ishita for 7 years he hasn't realized what she means to him... This i call zero character growth..

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

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Posted: 8 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: mayasun

Yes Raji,

Everything which was beautiful was shown as trash because of Shagun surrogacy.

Romi/Sarika got married and had the child but to make someone in the house to be culprit so that Shagun can be white Sarika was sacrificed

Rohit/Chadda was sacrificed for Nidhi to enter IshRa life so that Shagun can stay in the Bhalla house

IshRA love was thrown into the dustbin so that Shagun can be a mother to IshRa baby.

so, so true Maya...the way Shagun is made omnipresent and omnipotent spoiled the beauty of the narrative of YHM..

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Maya

@mayasun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Viji thank you for liking it...
Viji Adi loves his mother Ishita... That says alot. He was the one manipulated by Shagun yo the point that he wants to end his life when he thought no one cares for him. His love and acceptance of Ishita as his mother is not like Ruhi where she was deprived of parental love and gets attached to Ishita as her own. He hated Ishita as the other woman who took his mother's place but he realized her unconditional love for him and accepted by himself without Raman or family intervention. And since that day he was so loyal to her and for him she is the only one that is going to have a status of Mother. This same Aditya Bhalla as a teen got scared to lose her love if she has her own kid and felt ashamed for thinking ill of the baby but got assured by Ishita that the baby is the third child and he and Ruhi are always her children first and promised to take care of that child too. If CVS carried that track it would4been such a golden track.
His love towards her was not conditional or its never wavered.. he valued her more than anything.
His outburst today shows his frustration and embarrassment about Shagun being pregnant is not to reflect his disagreement with her age it's his disdain for her as a mother. He knew what kind of mother she is and what she did to him, Ruhi and pihu.. and to think of it as this marriage and the baby with a 4th person in her life only tells how much hurt he has in his heart for this woman. He is showing civil relationship with her because of ishita's teachings.. else I'm sure he wouldn't even see her face.
If CVS are going to show meherbani and make ishita pregnant I'm sure we will get to see a different Aditya Bhalla that would be very happy to see her mother's wish is finally fulfilled..

And about CVS discrediting ishra relation... You are absolutely correct. The whole premise of Ishita, Raman and Ruhi and their bond got nullified by making Raman utter those abuSes at Ishita and making Shagun a surrogate mother behind ishita's back they ruined a beautiful story and bond... We are still seeing the carnage of their act..
By showing Romi and Mihika mature conversation they also showed how as a couple they grow.. it's them for them... No strings attached... Beautiful.. isn't it?
Raman and Ishita..nothing more to say.. he doesn't respect her and she doesn't assert her self..
"You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce" Ishita failed here.
"Don't take people for granted. No matter how much they love you, people get tired eventually" this is for Raman.
Even after losing Ishita for 7 years he hasn't realized what she means to him... This i call zero character growth..

Beautiful Analysis on Adi Raji👏

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: mayasun

Beautiful Analysis on Adi Raji👏

among all the kids of Raman he is my favorite Maya. The sketch of this character is too simple yet brilliant. I'm in love with this character so much.. his love for his mother surpasses everyone else's love for her... Be it her papa or her sister or both sets of grand parents..loved every raw interaction of him with his mother be it angry or sad or crying...too genuine..

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say86

@say86

Inactive

Posted: 8 years ago

#69

Biggest drawback or say cvs incapabilities the story does not move forward from ruhi ke liye tag.

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Mdwst

@Mdwst

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Posted: 8 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Viji thank you for liking it...
Viji Adi loves his mother Ishita... That says alot. He was the one manipulated by Shagun yo the point that he wants to end his life when he thought no one cares for him. His love and acceptance of Ishita as his mother is not like Ruhi where she was deprived of parental love and gets attached to Ishita as her own. He hated Ishita as the other woman who took his mother's place but he realized her unconditional love for him and accepted by himself without Raman or family intervention. And since that day he was so loyal to her and for him she is the only one that is going to have a status of Mother. This same Aditya Bhalla as a teen got scared to lose her love if she has her own kid and felt ashamed for thinking ill of the baby but got assured by Ishita that the baby is the third child and he and Ruhi are always her children first and promised to take care of that child too. If CVS carried that track it would4been such a golden track.
His love towards her was not conditional or its never wavered.. he valued her more than anything.
His outburst today shows his frustration and embarrassment about Shagun being pregnant is not to reflect his disagreement with her age it's his disdain for her as a mother. He knew what kind of mother she is and what she did to him, Ruhi and pihu.. and to think of it as this marriage and the baby with a 4th person in her life only tells how much hurt he has in his heart for this woman. He is showing civil relationship with her because of ishita's teachings.. else I'm sure he wouldn't even see her face.
If CVS are going to show meherbani and make ishita pregnant I'm sure we will get to see a different Aditya Bhalla that would be very happy to see her mother's wish is finally fulfilled..

And about CVS discrediting ishra relation... You are absolutely correct. The whole premise of Ishita, Raman and Ruhi and their bond got nullified by making Raman utter those abuSes at Ishita and making Shagun a surrogate mother behind ishita's back they ruined a beautiful story and bond... We are still seeing the carnage of their act..
By showing Romi and Mihika mature conversation they also showed how as a couple they grow.. it's them for them... No strings attached... Beautiful.. isn't it?
Raman and Ishita..nothing more to say.. he doesn't respect her and she doesn't assert her self..
"You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce" Ishita failed here.
"Don't take people for granted. No matter how much they love you, people get tired eventually" this is for Raman.
Even after losing Ishita for 7 years he hasn't realized what she means to him... This i call zero character growth..

Hi Raji

Yet again nailed it..I 've always been your fan..you amaze me with depth, insight and clarity ...

Yes..the one character that accepted whole heartedly and loved her unconditionally with tremendous character growth is Adithya Bhalla...and I remember that scene...it still brings tears to my eyes...and after that assurance he was a happy teen. Yes that would've been THE TRACK ...again misssed. Or should I say arrogantly discarded it. I can see from the pov you mentioned..he's terrified and worried for the new baby makes sense. @ red...we are aren't we!...I remember that many left, as they couldn't see the yhm they loved stoop so low.@ pink..for now they are showing the, mature ..if I stays that way..I say ..wise decision. But all of a sudden bringing this up...makes me think otherwise...reason.. the history.

Your quotes on ishuta and raman..bang on and @ blue...that's the sad part and that she what I'm having trouble with...