WHO AND WHAT IS ISHITA? AND EXPECTATIONS...2/6/17 - Page 8

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Thank you Swarna!!

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi Raji

Yet again nailed it..I 've always been your fan..you amaze me with depth, insight and clarity ...

Yes..the one character that accepted whole heartedly and loved her unconditionally with tremendous character growth is Adithya Bhalla...and I remember that scene...it still brings tears to my eyes...and after that assurance he was a happy teen. Yes that would've been THE TRACK ...again misssed. Or should I say arrogantly discarded it. I can see from the pov you mentioned..he's terrified and worried for the new baby makes sense. @ red...we are aren't we!...I remember that many left, as they couldn't see the yhm they loved stoop so low.@ pink..for now they are showing the, mature ..if I stays that way..I say ..wise decision. But all of a sudden bringing this up...makes me think otherwise...reason.. the history.

Your quotes on ishuta and raman..bang on and @ blue...that's the sad part and that she what I'm having trouble with...

Originally posted by: Mdwst

A tie between the titles...choose what you see fit...

At the iyers

So raman brings shagun to the bedroom thinking it's ishita and our shagun fainted due to lack of air ?!.😲.. she survived the worst in her previous pregnancy..she couldn't survive less than 30sec walk to the bedroom?!...anyways..

Raman lifts the quilt, he's shocked to see shagun ..he apologizes to her for the mistake in identity..she faints..

At the parking lot

Adi sees ruhi in ishu's car...and they talk about sohail and Nidhi ..and wonders if they are trying to contact her but ruhi brushed it aside and says she's worried for the family...everybody are separated...all coz of me..I'm guilty ...adi asks her not to feel guilty and it's a temp phase and everything will work out. And not to stress herself

Aaliya calls adi she wants to share the good news.

The doc checks her...mani is also there..the doc says it's not good..as her BP is way too high..raman steps in and says it's due to him that shagun is in this situation..he wanted to talk to ishita, and apologizes

The doc says it's dangerous ..shagun pregnancy is revealed. .all are shocked ...

Ishu is very happy, so is ruhi and they all congratulate them ...

Adi is disturbed..he feels that he's almost getting married, now his mother is pregnant with her third no wait technically chaute pati KE Saath is expecting a baby..people will laugh..

At bhallas

Aadiliya says it's her dad's first child..I'm so happy ..he deserve it

A..he is your uncle but shagun mumma is my mom..at this age? You seriously expect me to carry a baby and play with it?..

He's thoroughly pissed

Aadiliya feels that this baby is very important to them..

So the entire bhallas come to know about the pregnancy

Toshiji and amma want to go to iyers to meet their hubby's

and send neelu away to cook.😆neelu..caught them red handed..why can't you tell me straight that you want to feed your husbands sweets?!...best line

Simmi and Gaurav ...Gaurav is a selfish person he wants to break the news to her parents...but she wants. Time...so garurav decides to take action.

Bhallaji, toshiji, and and Mrs. Iyer and talking..and Bhallaji says not to expect anything from them, in walks Gaurav with marriage proposal the women are happy, the men are shocked ..and Gaurav says simmi has given her consent..

Bhallaji is upset with this but toshiji is stating her case...bhallas says he wants to hear it from simmi herself...for toshiji marriage is the mother of all solutions..but that's not the case with Bhallaji ...in the mean time simmi appears..Bhallaji lol.." keep,your serial mentality to,yourself".. bestest line ...😆

Simmi gains their attention..she's upset with his move...and asks him to leave..

Simmi apologists to Bhallaji..asks her to think about it..but toshiji is nit giving up ..

At iyers ..sharam scene

Shagun asks raman how can he be so childish

Raman says sorry but his fate is not with him..and tells her not to stress herself. Ishita enters with a glass of lemon juice ..says not to stress herself , As Raman would never change and its better to ignore him...mani walks in with some multi vitamins...shagun feels better after having Lemon juice..and asks mani to keep keep an eye on shagun she gives her the dos and the dont's...

She leaves to give them privacy ..raman follows her ..and says his plans went wrong

Ishra scene

Ishu is busy in the kitchen and raman comes there..

I..when I don't want to talk to you what's the reason for him being there

R..fine if you don't want to talk you can atleast listen

I..i have to take milk for shagun ...if you don't leave I will leave..

She is not giving any chance for him to talk and tries to leave

Raman holds her and stops her from leaving by swearing on ruhi

She quietens after that

R..hadd hei , listen to what I have to say..first listen I have to talk and don't interrupt me..whatever I did ..I'm sorry for that..but it was not entirely my fault ...you create situation..so I have to go to the extreme..what can I do..

Ok fine..everything is my faults,,I'm and, I'm an ass, I'm stupid..folds his arms and says sorry ...come back yaar, I can't live without you..don't leave me, please..I will never do this again..I promise..please come back..

Just then someone knocks the door..it's neelu...tells raman that someone has come to meet him..raman says not now..but neelu says it's urgent ..ishu says it's urgent so leave...raman says " what can be more important than this ( them)., please.

So ishu asks neelu to get that person here

Raman tells ishu.." sorry yaar..maanjaonaa yaar", why are you doing this?

And neelu brings in that person..

The person has brought some samples of fliers that raman requested..

So ishu is wondering ..so she starts going Behind

Ishu confronts Raman..

She sees the flier ..it's a publicity flier asking people to visit bhatras clinic for their dental needs and Ishita will treat them. Ishita feels there's no need for the promotion ...she cutely complains..that even her qualifications is incorrect..and leaves

Raman feel whatever he does is a problem...sulking

Miku feeds Romi kheer..to celebrate shagun's pregnancy...she says..she is genuinely happy for them..it's nice to have a baby around...Romi can sense her pain..and Mika didn't get that Romi is hurt...Romi says he's sorry that they can't have a child..miku says...she's happy to see them from afar..she says she's fine and feels they are there for each other and that's more than enough.

Precap..

Toshiji fakes her pain ...asks ishita to come back home

My thoughts

Toshiji..never understood ishita's pain..I feel she has her own agenda...she wants ishta back..and now Bhallaji as stopped the proposal temporarily..if it goes wrong ..blame game starts..

Mrs. Iyer ..more worried and missing her hubby ..than worried for her daughter being disrespected and finger pointed..she's a lost case for me..

Bhallaji...perfect..he was very firm and said he cannot support them and stood up for ishita. As a father to simmi he was right in giving simmi the space and time to make the right decision.

Raman...I saw it as him justifying his words and actions..yes you took me to the extreme..what can I do..so I burst out...so what? so I fingerprinted on your mother hood, dissolved our relationship, but you put me in spot it was you?..sorry everything is my default etc etc...is enough to know he's not understood the severity of his accusations...so basically it's ishita's fault..he held her responsible for his words and actions.got it..

This guy will never understand the pain. Yes he cannot live without her..but atleast talk to her..try to understand what is it that hurt her the most. Just coz he cannot live without her he cannot force her to come..it means only one thing..he has no respect for her and is coming across a selfish person...its all about him..me, me , me me...

so he has not control over his anger and tongue..he has not understood at all..there's no point ..so he promised he will not repeat it. Lets c for how long...

Ishita...its high time she talk to him and make him understand Like you would do,to,a kindergarten kid...she's aware what raman is trying to do ..convince her...she's aware that he's not understood her pain. I'm going to wait to comment on her.

But who and what is ishita to the bhallas and iyers?

I'm beginning to think..do people see Ishita as a caretaker only?!..to run the family on smooth wheels ? A good manager ?

All have high expectations from ishita but none wants/ cares ...what ishita expects and wants...

Even after ishita openly saying still none got her hurt?!

Romika...can we see another surrogacy track in the making ?

Adi ..he was not at all happy that shagun is pregnant...are cvs showing this, is what will happen if ishita gets pregnant?! Are they testing the waters, viewers reaction by giving shagun's pregnancy ?..based on that ishita's pregnancy will be shelved or brought up? Coz viewers will definitely feel..pregnant t this age? Hope you guys got the point...

Neelu...even she could read the senior ladies...

Again ruhi KE kasam...

So all of ishita's hurt and pain and ishra relationship issues will never be addressed..all swept under the rug...ok then ...very big disappointment...

I'm so sorry ..I'm seeing scenes differently ...please do not let my take influence you in any way.

Btw..Raman was looking like a can of orangey soda...no offense...

Please change his wardrobe ...

Overall..ok

Originally posted by: mayasun

Diya,

That always has been the case

For ex: Rinki marriage Toshjii asked Ishita to convince Rinky to see the groom as the groom was Pammi realtion Ishita convinced Rinky to see the groom only but Rinky saw the guy and liked him and everything was decided between the families Ishita was never present in all the arrangement but when they found the groom was a fraud at the altar Toshjii blamed Ishita for everything absolving Pammi saying that she was part of the family and Ishita was not that is why Ishita created a mess in Rinki life. We even we got the famous Dafo ha jo to Ishita from Raman because Rinki was immature to handle her married life with Mihir blaming Ishita for getting Rinky married to Mihir when none opposed the marriage that day.

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Swarna,

😆 This is what I did reading your review😆

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Swarna,

You might be right about Pihu but the trouble is I can never connect to her character because she being a surrogate baby, over attachment to Shagun, disregard for Raman love and ruthless behavior towards Ishita.

Originally posted by: swa6

😉tq Maya,

you know you n Raji n Viji n Sumi pull up wonderful discussions...reading them I feel like a lkg child who is roaming in MBA classes😳 I love your discussions...

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Hi Swarna thank you but you beat us hands down in your analysis of a MOTHER..loved it dear ..😊

Superb..

Originally posted by: zindagi4pyaar

Was d episode a hint dat future mai dey r nit gono show ishitas pregnancy... Coz adis dialogue dat kya iss umar mai apne sibling ko gode mai leker ghumunga... He is is not at all happy...

N abt ishita n raman.. Bas 3 days ka raman sudharoo abhiyan tha ishita ka... Aaftr ishra scene i felt ishita have 50% forviven raman... N if neelu wuld not have disturbed dem den c wuld have said yes 2 return 2 bhalla house...

Cvs again widout ny proper scenes is gono conclude dis chapter... Raman still not getting wats d pain of ishita n d issue... He said u make me take such extrem actions n all... I mean seriously dis tym he said d same thing but wid a softer tone...

I was so happy dat finally ek accha track abt ishitas feeling regarding d harss words sopken by raman tym 2 tym will b addressed... But iy seems ke aisa kuch nahi hai... Still raman is not sry dil se.. N ishita is d path 2 forgive him infact c have crossed half d path...

N toshiji is again in d path of doing blunders... I mean dis women is jst worried abt getting her children married... Have nvr took d responsibility 2 enquire abt d other prsn... C get suoer excited..

Her dialogue dat simmi ke marzi baad mai pooch lenge par abhi jab yeh shagun leker aaya hai isse kaise hum wapas bhej sakte hain

I mean seriously toshiji.. Dey r ur own kids.. U have not got dem on rent dat u dont bothet abt der wishes...

U alwz do d kands n khud ko baach jaati ho n den vry easily u blame ishita 4 everythng...

B it rinki ke tym wala.. U jst noded ur head 2 ur bff pammi n rinki ka rishta final kar diya widout checking abt d boy n d family... But end mai sab blame ishita pe daal diya...

Dis lady nvr learns 4rm her mistake.. No doubt dat raman 8s her son nly

N bravo 2 mister bhalla... I rly liked all d dialogues he said 2day...

Overall... Raman is again not getti g wat d main prblm is, ishita herself is confused abt wat c want, adi clearly dont want a sibling at dis agian b it 4rm shagun or ishimaa...

N shagun ka baby aane wale hai toh bahut saare actiins planning n plotting hogi.. But as v all knw her womb is made of steel toh babay will finally cum into d world...