Is Ishita in love with both Subbu and Raman?? - Page 3

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vaibhi.


This the only common feature between love and hatred, love never fades away even if you stay far away from the person you love, even after long gap , in completely different situations, when you both meet, you will bound to remember everything related to that person, same with the anger or hatred , it never fades away until you decide to forgive an d let it go , if you try to hide or cover with passing time or busy life etc, then it never fades away, same happened with Ishita for Subbu...at this point the difference between love and hatred is confusing .


Well, your statement is proving TM's point that Ishita is in love with both Subbu and Raman. In this one and half year, every thing has changed for Ishita (or atleast CVs and Ishita said so) as she's fallen in love with Raman and Ruhi. So shouldn't their love be enough for Ishita to move on and forget her past?

Yes, Raman did take time to move on. But once he's in love with Ishita, Shagun's presence doesn't affect him a bit. Isn't Ishita also in love with Raman? Then why can't she let go of things? The way CVs are portraying Ishita right now, it's either Ishita is not really in love with Raman or she is in love with both Subbu and Raman!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Ishita has no feelings for Subbu. Rather she gives a damn. And the biggest proof of that is when she came to know about the death of his wife she only had a sorry feeling for his loss nothing more than that. If she really loved him she would be hurt and pained for him and would wish to comfort him...atleast for a fleeting second...because when you love someone...how much they hurt you you still cant bear their pain. Just like when Raman got injured on his hand while fighting with Param...though she had been hurt by Raman for supporting Shagun in amma's accident but she still cried for Raman's pain. But here she was NOT hurt like that. She was just sorry.

She cannot forgive Subbu because he not just dumped her but never showed any sign of guilt. Rather he always showed how right he was to not marry her. He insulted her parents and hurt her family. It's obvious she cannot so easily let go of the pain her loved ones received due to him. Just like Raman could not let go of the pain Shagun gave his family and could not forgive her even when Ishu urged him to. It's not about Ishu is not able to let go of Subbu, its about she not being able to let go of the feeling of incapability she was made to go through...its not even 1% abt Subbu...it's about her own self-respect that was butchered by that loser...and she thus has all the rights to forgive or not to forgive him. Its NOT abt Subbu or Raman or anybody or any romantic relation of her life...its solely about her dignity and no woman can easily forgive such a man.



I completely agree.. Her anger and hatred is all because her self respect as a woman was butchered by subbu.. This is certainly not hatred because of love..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Edited by NandzLuv143 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I m a silent reader in this forum and I like both ishita and Raman equally.. But it is disgraceful to call a woman to be loving two men at the same time..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: linga

I m a silent reader in this forum and I like both ishita and Raman equally.. But it is disgraceful to call a woman to be loving two men at the same time..


Calm down! If CVs made Ishita love two men at the same time, what can we do. You know, YHM is famous for breaking barriers.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaya321


Calm down! If CVs made Ishita love two men at the same time, what can we do. You know, YHM is famous for breaking barriers.




As far as yhm is considered, u r correct.. Everything is in the hands of CVS.. 😕 .. Hope they don't bring such barrier breakings in such sensitive issues..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@TM: Hats off for such a detailed analysis. You pointed out some valid contradictions.
I don't think YHM CVs have given much thought on this. They are just hungry for TRPs and for that they can compromise with anything.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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my point wud be that ishita loved subbu more than herself at some point of time and if i keep myself at her place then i feel i wud have reacted the same way if that guy had come year after and tried to enter my life once again
ishita hates subbu becoz she loved him very much then and today's hatred is more becoz he is trying to intrude in her married life after a year and this wud nt go down well wid any girl acc to me.

ishita just loves raman now and thats what i feel.😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shivangi838

my point wud be that ishita loved subbu more than herself at some point of time and if i keep myself at her place then i feel i wud have reacted the same way if that guy had come year after and tried to enter my life once again

ishita hates subbu becoz she loved him very much then and today's hatred is more becoz he is trying to intrude in her married life after a year and this wud nt go down well wid any girl acc to me.

ishita just loves raman now and thats what i feel.😉


@Bold: Tab toh Raman ka koyi chance hi nahi..😛 Raman ko to aise kabhi nahi boli 😆 She said that to Ruhi that she loves her more than anything. Then Ruhi's got a competitor...and that's Subbu. 😉
Jokes apart, I have never heard Ishita saying those words to anyone.

@Blue: If that is the case, as per Ishita's own logic she's still in love with Subbu. Remember Ishita's bench convo with Raman back in June and after that she always assumed Raman still loved Shagun.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is an Interesting thought.

I think the scene between Raman and Ishita outside the court has a lot to do with Ishita's behaviour with her visit to the clinic to meet Subbu. I do feel her expressions was meant to be soft and showing sympathy, and a little hesitant because she plans to speak to him about his family and maybe as Raman said, forgive to move forward. Ishita is in a difficult position where she is kind of being pushed to forgive Subbu whom she loved and was with for so long and in the end of their relationship he deserted her. I think the music played when they met was too much and this leading to confusion. So no matter what, she will feel bad for him that he has lost his family but where forgiveness leads to, only the CVs know.

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