Is Ishita in love with both Subbu and Raman?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: -DivyanKaran-

I am so confused regarding Ishu and so Subbu😆. Because, Ishita's shy look could have two reasons, whether she is really in love or her look would create some suspense though. But I agree, she shouldn't have blushed look at all. But we can't predict anything now.

Not only that blushing look but entire behavior of Ishita is very fishy since subbu's come back.

I think this behavior will force Raman to leave ishita so that she can remain happy!!!

If ishita behaved that way this track will be over in a day then how will KP wedding leave happen? For Ishita it was just not about her being hurt but also her family and then consistent tauting by Subbu's mon at any given oppty, worse Devyani creates oppty herself, such a proactive person when it comes to Ishita. The very fact that she does not know about Subbu's with and kid being dead is a big joke! Subbu's mom not only wanted her son to be happy but Ishita to be unhappy. She will be normal after a couple of meetings... Maybe she will also watch a DVD and have dinners with Subbu "Raman ke liye"😆

Just like how Raman is in love with both Shagun and Ishita ..after all till now we have seen Raman's hatredness for Shagun only and going by the logic that you hate only those people you love the most. .Raman is in love with Shagun ...made for each other ...both husband and wife in love with their ex now it became equal till now we had only aeen husband's love for another wpmen ...

Originally posted by: rpatz

I think this behavior will force Raman to leave ishita so that she can remain happy!!!

Originally posted by: yyy

Just like how Raman is in love with both Shagun and Ishita ..after all till now we have seen Raman's hatredness for Shagun only and going by the logic that you hate only those people you love the most. .Raman is in love with Shagun ...made for each other ...both husband and wife in love with their ex now it became equal till now we had only aeen husband's love for another wpmen ...

Spending money on ex wife without wife's knowledge ..having dinner at ex wife's place ,picking /dropping ex wife from airport..dancing in ex wife's wedding...celebrating anniversary with ex wife ..only when you do all the above it is considered as not in love with ex wife..anything u do other than that is known as still in love with your ex

Going by forum's logic Raman is not bothered about Ishita as he is not feeling possesive about his wife ...I wonder why such posts are not made when for Raman..it's only reserved for female. .men can have n no of wife ...

The dialogs given to Ishita are sometimes very confusing... but what I feel is that hatred itself is a strong emotion or feelings...so we can't say Ishita has nothing in her heart for Subbu , she has anger and hatred there for him ,she is not able to ignore Subbu completely , she gets hurt at his presence, when Shagun left Raman, he also faced the same stage, but later with Ishita's love and support he discovered himself again and now he does not care for Shagun or her whereabouts, but he did not recover in a day , it took a lot of time and patience from Ishita's side.

Originally posted by: Vaibhi.

The dialogs given to Ishita are sometimes very confusing... but what I feel is that hatred itself is a strong emotion or feelings...so we can't say Ishita has nothing in her heart for Subbu , she has anger and hatred there for him ,she is not able to ignore Subbu completely , she gets hurt at his presence, when Shagun left Raman, he also faced the same stage, but later with Ishita's love and support he discovered himself again and now he does not care for Shagun or her whereabouts, but he did not recover in a day , it took a lot of time and patience from Ishita's side.

Ishita was not in touch with Subbu since he broke the engagement , so that part of wound in her heart was not given enough space time or care to get healed, it was just covered with others incidents of her life but never "recovered", because it is a very common sense, until you face the person again and again ,how can you learn to fight with the wounds given by him , you remain in a fantasy that if I am not thinking about my wounds , it is getting healed on its own...but this never happens..

Subbu returned all of a sudden, reopening all the wounds in Ishita's heart once again as the wound the pain remained the same as it was when he left, Ishita never got the opportunity to think about her past or heal what is hurting in those years when subbu was not here, Both were busy in their own life..now subbu making a come back only to make Ishita remember that the pain can not get vanished with other works of life...

This the only common feature between love and hatred, love never fades away even if you stay far away from the person you love, even after long gap , in completely different situations, when you both meet, you will bound to remember everything related to that person, same with the anger or hatred , it never fades away until you decide to forgive an d let it go , if you try to hide or cover with passing time or busy life etc, then it never fades away, same happened with Ishita for Subbu...at this point the difference between love and hatred is confusing , but the fact is , Ishita does not love subbu now, she had pure anger and hatred for him that remained unchanged over the years as Ishita never faced Subbu for long time... now when she accepted the process of forgiving and moving on , then hope in near future she will be able to ignore Subbu completely and move on with her own life :)

Your reasoning definitely has some points. But Raman and Ishita's moving on were very different. It was stated that Ishita had moved on while Raman hadn't. Later Raman moved on as he's fallen in love with Ishita. Then it should be same with Ishita, no? She also has fallen in love with Raman and Ruhi, right? If that is the case, why would her past bother her so much NOW? I would agree with your logic, had Ishita NOT fallen in love with Raman. Yes, Ishita-Subbe broke up and the didn't meet except once. But during this time lots of things happened to Ishita. Unfortunately Ishita is behaving like she broke up with Subbu just yesterday!

Even it contradicts with the early portrayal of Ishita Iyer. When she met him at Sharvu's occasion, she was sad but she didn't feel hatred towards him. Nor she had any thought why he left her and why he's happy with his wife and son. And now her behavior has turned to 180 degree despite Ruhi and Raman's love.

Ishita has no feelings for Subbu. Rather she gives a damn. And the biggest proof of that is when she came to know about the death of his wife she only had a sorry feeling for his loss nothing more than that. If she really loved him she would be hurt and pained for him and would wish to comfort him...atleast for a fleeting second...because when you love someone...how much they hurt you you still cant bear their pain. Just like when Raman got injured on his hand while fighting with Param...though she had been hurt by Raman for supporting Shagun in amma's accident but she still cried for Raman's pain. But here she was NOT hurt like that. She was just sorry.

I don't think she was shy she was a little guilty and had a sympathetic look for subbu coz he has had a bigger loss dan ishita