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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

Post updated...hope I made sense...the 1st two mins grabbed my heart and I go with my feelings...so the review is based on that.

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Sunita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#32

ooo forgot to mention... Gan Di... Loved the collage! Beautiful captures of emotions of father-son. The GIF, Aru.. simply superb! I cant keep my eyes off that slap.. So much in love with that slap! Yoo Kaali Maa jaag gayi!

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: arunabhi
The second RT , Congrats G 👏👏👏

Aru thank you so much! Yes got a nice surprise when I woke up this morning and I woke Payal and Doc up after that😆 ...but truly I just appreciated his work and him acknowledging it meant a lot.

Thanks again

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dilshath

@dilshath

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Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Ur second part of update is so perfect and cute. Also I like Rinki Mihir. Now no ISHRA. They will beat Raman and Ishita.

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-K.13-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#35

Sorta wordy, possibly incoherent, semi senti, pretty positive post updated on pg 1!

But again...for Shagun finally seeing the door & getting a well deserved slap...

#Transcontinental celebration

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mar_21

@mar_21

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Posted: 10 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: maaloo
Congrats again Gan... jst now saw that RSA has retweeted your collages of his. Wonderful.. they are so beautiful that it deserves such recognition. Congo shongo dah'ling..👏

Coming to the episode, but for the first scene when Adi was being dragged away, nothing connected with me. Brilliantly enacted and the pain was really heart-wrenching. Great job Gautam. The pain a child faces thanks to his parents separation was beautifully portrayed.. I cried with you.

Actually I felt a kind of deja-vu at the end of it all. Cant even bring myself to comment on Shagun's banshee screeching... and that must be a new low for me. 😕

I felt that there was such a total disconnect in the flow of the episode ..some bad editing to give more screen time for shagun, perhaps?

My comments are usually based on what I feel when I watch the show, may be anger towards a character or total gushing love towards one, or an intense reaction to a situation but today I, as a woman, feel sad, abused and disgraced..

Before I sign off, one last comment on the last scene and precap. I am with Ishita in this. It is very selfish to want to marry sareeka just to ensure that the lineage is continued, it is wrong on so many levels. When that girl asked for help, nobody spared a stone in thrashing her and everybody was eager to kick her out. Now that Romi has issues, they are out looking for her? And what if after the marriage she gives birth to a girl or even worse after marriage has a miscarriage then what? Will they kick her out? because these things do happen .. and all are part of the reality that is called life..
Raman is shown in the precap explaining to Ishita about why the need of the hour is to find sareeka 'cos of Romi's condition. Does that mean that Raman too thinks that a certain value is attached to a man or woman's ability to procreate? Does he really understand and accept Ishita's condition? Would he have married Ishita with her medical condition if he was also a childless divorcee?

Note to self: Chill Malu, repeat 1000000 times.. "dont get so attached to someone's figment of imagination.. it is written with TRPs in mind.. "

Sorry Gan, and everybody else on this thread for coming up with a totally negative take. I apologize.

I am so looking forward to reading the uplifting comments by my friends here in the thread.

Your not the only one who was unable to connect with the episodes.

The valid points which u hv raised were the exact points which were running over my mind but I was unable to pen it down. Somewhere in the last 2 episodes I feel I hv lost that connect with Ishra too,

In all this Shagun-Rinky wedding fiasco, not once Raman stood up for Ishita whether it was in front of his ex-wife or his mother! He was jus a mere spectator but when that same Shagun raised fingers on his sister he was the one to reach instantly. I don't know why but Raman's silence over here has hurted me a lot. And to add to that he would be blaming Ishita for all that happend with Rinky-Nikhil. Isn't that a little to unfair towards Ishita when all that she has been doing till now is only for Raman & his families welfare. Doesn't he understand that she loves him unconditionally to the extent that she can tolerate and take shit on herself too for her undying love for HIM.

Yes, I'm too amongst the few here in support of Ishita as far as Sarika-Romi kaand is concerned. In all this one thing is confirmed that a MALE Child is very imp for the Bhalla Clan. I'm not 100% sure abt Raman though but yes to keep his mother happy he can go to any extent.

With the spoilers doing a round abt the kids getting swapped, I have only one questions here

1. Are the Bhallas willing to let go of Ruhi to get Adi back in their life?

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-K.13-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: arunabhi
The flashback made me cry and I just longed for one thing. Editors you could have really played this. They deserve it.

Shaam jab dhalti hain subah muskurati hain
Khushbuye lutati hain sun
Udaasi ke lamho mein hamein muskurana hain
Tere dil ka mere dil se rishta purana hain

Aruna - thank you for this GIF! It made me tear up again! And your use of "Tere dil ka mere dil se" was heart-touching! ⭐️

I totally agree with you - the CVs reduced the depth of Adi & Raman's relationship to very 1D and superficial. They could've included the scene where after being found outside in the cold, Adi puts his leg and hugs Raman in his sleep. But unfortunately, the CVs a majority of the emotional Adi moments moments between Ishita & Adi and very few between Raman & Adi.

This just further reinforces how heart breaking it is to see the overall use of Raman's character these days. Up until the Shagun shaadi track, he always such dimension to him and in all his relationships, but now we just see emotional moments between him and Ishita. We get a few between Raman and other characters but they are brief and don't have much substance to them.

Yes Raman is still light years ahead of other male soap leads, but this still isn't the same Raman as before. Raman used to make mistakes but you could feel the depth and emotional toll of the mistake. Now we viewers have to stretch the emotional depth behind some of his errors (i.e. yelling at Ishita during the moving out fiasco). It's really unfortunate, but I'm slowly coming to terms with the change...

Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: dilshath
I have a doubt about YHM. Ruhi is the heart of YHM. But for so many months full of ADI...ADI. what about her. Also so many confusions for
opening so many tracks at a time. Toshiji full of overreact. She never
cry like this for Raman Ishita. So partiality. YHM essence is missing
nowadays. It is hard to see Raman Ruhi Ishita. One thing I like is MIHIR - RINKY.

I disagree slightly with you. Yes IshRaRu are heart of YHM...but Adi and his dysfunctional relationship with his dad is also as important to the story. They took months to build and create beautiful relationship that Ruhi shares with her Ishima and Papa...and Adi's equation with Raman is much more complicated than that of Ruhi and Raman...and yes the CVs messed up in the middle but they cleaned it up to where the time is prime to explore the Adi-Raman changed equation. I for one is pretty psyched up...yes Shagun will be there with all her theatrics..but the core of the story involves Raman and Adi this time..so it will be a nice ride, unless theCVs mess it up again.

If I have to choose some track in lieu of Romance, this would be it.

No offense meant...just expressing my POV 😳

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-kri-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: maaloo
Congrats again Gan... jst now saw that RSA has retweeted your collages of his. Wonderful.. they are so beautiful that it deserves such recognition. Congo shongo dah'ling..👏

Coming to the episode, but for the first scene when Adi was being dragged away, nothing connected with me. Brilliantly enacted and the pain was really heart-wrenching. Great job Gautam. The pain a child faces thanks to his parents separation was beautifully portrayed.. I cried with you.

Actually I felt a kind of deja-vu at the end of it all. Cant even bring myself to comment on Shagun's banshee screeching... and that must be a new low for me. 😕

I felt that there was such a total disconnect in the flow of the episode ..some bad editing to give more screen time for shagun, perhaps?

My comments are usually based on what I feel when I watch the show, may be anger towards a character or total gushing love towards one, or an intense reaction to a situation but today I, as a woman, feel sad, abused and disgraced..

Before I sign off, one last comment on the last scene and precap. I am with Ishita in this. It is very selfish to want to marry sareeka just to ensure that the lineage is continued, it is wrong on so many levels. When that girl asked for help, nobody spared a stone in thrashing her and everybody was eager to kick her out. Now that Romi has issues, they are out looking for her? And what if after the marriage she gives birth to a girl or even worse after marriage has a miscarriage then what? Will they kick her out? because these things do happen .. and all are part of the reality that is called life..
Raman is shown in the precap explaining to Ishita about why the need of the hour is to find sareeka 'cos of Romi's condition. Does that mean that Raman too thinks that a certain value is attached to a man or woman's ability to procreate? Does he really understand and accept Ishita's condition? Would he have married Ishita with her medical condition if he was also a childless divorcee?

Note to self: Chill Malu, repeat 1000000 times.. "dont get so attached to someone's figment of imagination.. it is written with TRPs in mind.. "

Sorry Gan, and everybody else on this thread for coming up with a totally negative take. I apologize.

I am so looking forward to reading the uplifting comments by my friends here in the thread.

I enjoyed reading your take... One of my LU thread frnd, Ishani was intrigued by your question regarding Raman... I'll try to answer it here...

Your question:

Raman is shown in the precap explaining to Ishita about why the need of the hour is to find sareeka 'cos of Romi's condition. Does that mean that Raman too thinks that a certain value is attached to a man or woman's ability to procreate? Does he really understand and accept Ishita's condition? Would he have married Ishita with her medical condition if he was also a childless divorcee?

Its a hypothetical question in this situation. So, i am ready to face contradictions too... However, my answer for this question will be

Had Raman fallen in love with Ishu or had this complication entered after their marriage (see it as a normal marriage), he would have definitely accepted Ishita like that... He would have stood against his mother... RKB has that guts in him...

Here, the situation is different. He has one ailing mother, depressed brother and a biter divorce which is following him everywhere. In this situation, this man is becoming selfish yaar... As i quoted earlier, had he tried to convince Ishita to go for therapy, i would have called him a sadist... He's happy with her decision even when he knows that she has an option and in some corner of his heart, he wants it too... Its about his little bro not about him yaar...

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Paru

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Posted: 10 years ago

#40

I have some genuine kostins on today's episode/ current track. No snark just plain kos-pinting the CV's:

1. Can someone please slap some sense into Toshi ji. She's getting on my nerves. My BP is rising with all her ranting.

2. They are looking for Sarika now ??? Errr, what if she has a girl child. What then happens to the vansh?

3. Shags is a sophisticated elite woman? Yeah right !!! If the prerequisite for that is screeching at the top of your lungs like a gali ki aurat *ugghh*.

4. Were those expressions (good ones at that) I saw on Adi's face? Well then kiddo, why don't you teach some to your Momma?

Kostin of the Day:
What in the world is so effing important in Toshi ji's "vansh" that it has to be carried forward? Does it carry Alexander's genes? Are the Bhalla's blue blooded? Can we trace them back to the Mayflower families? What the f**k is it?

Pint of the Day:
First night and Minki already made it to the bed together. Can Bhai-Bhabhi be a little less daft & learn something from the newly weds.

PS -- What is that "Pita" song they keep playing. I honestly don't know how to react whenever they play it 😕