It's fundamentally wrong - Page 9

Originally posted by: crazy_bholi

GAN u r absolutely right...This Raman is getting on our nerves now...really he needs to be thrown from top of the mountain or drowned ...what a MORON and COWARD...Main tumhari maa ke saath pooja karunga...WHAT THE F*#$..good ishita has kept herself away from him physically and now mentally...Plz ishu give all ur LOVE to RUHI bcoz ur husband jo muft ka mila hai doesnt deserve Patiwaala haq and respect.😡

RAMAN u r spoiling the actual meaning of ur NAME ...I am BLAMING cv's🤢 not karan

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Krishy love the title, I will apply for the IRB approval and try to get some funding so we can cover our expenses in Mumbai because I can't afford to take anymore student loans, I got my year end summary, as of last week here is how much I owe the Federal government, wait for it, get ready: $245,000. *shudders*. I have been avoiding looking at my loan statement for the sake of my sanity!

Can Karan, Ekta or Divyanka donate some money to my education loan payback.amen - they are making bank off something that is currently not progressing society. let them do something good for society and invest in our education! 🤣

On a serious note, let's get this rolling so we can get some publications and then I can hopefully match somewhere competitive😆 agreed - not too interested in psych but need some legit publications/research under my belt! lolzzz

Okay ladies I need to get a cup of coffee cos I am falling asleep. See you ladies in a little bit.

@Gan def just hijacked today's thread 😳, but thank you for this wonderful and therapeutic little session!...but time has come to re-hit the books!

Thank you ladies for all your humor, light-heartedness, and perspective when it comes to this show we at the moment love to hate! 🤗

@Gan, @Doc, @Krishy, @ Gen (Sam?) I totally agree with the feeling. I too had vowed not get sucked in after a fav. of mine ended abruptly.. (eh Gan? 😉.) and I actually did walk away from a show too last year when it ceased to make sense to me.. but somehow this one got me in.. My bad.. Once bitten not yet shy.. 😕

On the question of the phrase 'haq' this was in my mind for being the post tilte before the precap happened. Today after Adu divulged his plans of trapping Ishita in the room so that Shagun gets to do Pooja with them ... Shagun's dialogue was something in the line ' Mera beta Adi .. Mujhe mera haq dilwayega' .. Kostin is what haq does a divorcee expects from her ex.. I know Raman gives alimony and child support to her.. What other right does she want? Sleeping with a Raman ? 😲

Originally posted by: krishy13

@Gan def just hijacked your thread, but thank you for this wonderful and therapeutic little session! Haha...Now I must go study some more!

Thank you ladies for all your humor, light-heartedness, and perspective when it comes to this show we atm love to hate! 🤗

Originally posted by: nividances

Yes I wholeheartedly agree to that recommendation. I'm so hooked onto that story that I wait eagerly every morning and evening to read the next update. Do check it out if you get a chance. 😊

My current obsession... Can't tell you how much i love this. So smart, so well written. Terrific. Just recommended it to Kiara... who said Payal had recommended same. Read, when you can- you will not regret.😊

Krishy Doc knows I hate the term 'my thread' I call it our thread as I might open it but most of the time you guys keep it vibrant .

Sorry I scooted away abruptly, had to feed my cranky toddler-now that he is satiated, I can breathe-phew!!

@Krishy: I meant amen to Gan's thoughts regarding is coping with the show not running into Puttar:)
@Gan: I love your thought abt Puttar being showered by kisses by the missus-high time-hehe I should go back and read the entire post.
I hope you feel better soon hun-hugs!Rest up.
@Maloo: yes I am Sam:) I just sounded like Dr. Seuss character-hehe

I have no particular pressing reason for wanting this show to reemerge except it's the only show I watch & got into it like a month back-so will be just too sad if it goes down south. Besides the leads chemistry & their love story deserves sooo much more than this crap!!

Gan thanks for opening the thread on a day like today-you can see so many of us value it.

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

On the question of the phrase 'haq' this was in my mind for being the post tilte before the precap happened. Today after Adu divulged his plans of trapping Ishita in the room so that Shagun gets to do Pooja with them ... Shagun's dialogue was something in the line ' Mera beta Adi .. Mujhe mera haq dilwayega' .. Kostin is what haq does a divorcee expects from her ex.. I know Raman gives alimony and child support to her.. What other right does she want? Sleeping with a Raman ? 😲

#airhead #dumbbimbo

Originally posted by: krishy13

The CVs are clearly on something.

Truthfully, I don't even get how Raman is a majboor pita - he's just greedy. We don't have a single dialogue/self thought rationalizing why he's giving into his son and being a silent spectator. All we've gotten is his flip flopping thoughts/actions. I truly understand the dilemma (losing the dream of incoporating Adi into his current family) he is facing but because there has been NO real build up or presentation of his dilemma, his current actions seems ludicrous and incredibly contradictory.

Khair, we've all ranted enough about how horribly they've portrayed Puttar, but it still breaks my heart a little. 🥺

Also - Ishita will burst eventually. Great, but what's the point? Even if she stands up for her rights, it will not negate what has been shown to us over the last 1.5 weeks. Raman can do his best to make everything right and even if she strongly resists, it will be hard to really make up for the actions we've seen thus far. Raman has broken a majority of the promises he made to her, and they say that once you lose your credibility, it's near impossible to get it back complete.

Literally in the span of 1.5 weeks this show has taken such an ugly turn. 😡 As I said earlier towards for the CVs, the ends don't always justify the means.

During the Pooja tomorrow - I will be interested to see if anyone reacts including the Iyers. At least we saw Amma expressing her displeasure during the New Year's party, but now what? I hope it's not shown that it is against societal norms for a mother-in-law to call out her son-in-law. If they show them keeping quiet for the sake of what people will think, then what was the point of her taking a stand against the Bhallas during the Param harassment issue.

Whatever. I'm leaving logic behind at this point my the rant.

To show just how many double standards the Bhallas have, the CVs have again taken it to the extreme with that "Choti Ma" dialog. There was absolutely no need to include that. The point still would have been given that the Bhallas are mollycoddling their grandson, but no, they wanted to make us burn. *sadistic CVs*

I thought the USP of the story was 3 broken people mending each other, but now it seems the USP is Ruhi & Ishita healing each other. Raman currently doesn't fit into that equation - he is no longer mending but he's breaking.

I'll probably come back and edit this when I'm in a happier place because deep (very deep) down a small part of me still has hope for this show.

Thank you, Gan, for creating this thread! I love that you call this show out like you see it without looking at the future/past. Respect, sista'. ❤️