It's fundamentally wrong - Page 11

Originally posted by: RomComFan

This is it right? It can't get much worse then this? The end of this ridiculous 🤬 crapfest of a track in almost at the climax?


Because this is completely intolerable... forget everything else- how are we supposed to even root for ISHRA or the Bhallas at this point because ... I don't even know.

I never thought I could be this disappointed in RKB!

On to the GIFs because... sometimes they do it better.

For Adhi...


Perfect GIF for the Bhallas 🤬 crown prince!😡

Yesterday his slug of a mother and today her son. Today I have officially crossed over. Can't even try to like this kid anymore. I give up. I hate myself for hating a child, but this is no child.

Ishita to the Bhallas:


Ishita to RKB:


Viewers to Ishita:



Viewers to RKB:


Me watching today's episode:




Hope this track won't be dragged much longer. I know we will learn to love RKB & the Bhallas again... but they'll never be the same to me after this. Even his assault after Mani track didn't alter my perception of him this much... but these last couple of episodes...



# 20 days til ISHRAnniversary... and I don't even care anymore.

Originally posted by: avni_19

I agree with you 100% . I was waiting for u to post so that I can vent out my anger here!

Hayeee Rabbaaa.. What has Raman turned into? As u mentioned he kept MUM when Ishita was been ridiculed and addresses her as Neighbour and ChotiMaa.. W*F Raman! Nothing will help u, no oneliners, no masak polishing, no confession and not one Tandon whos gonna make a re-entry and repair IshRa's love story!

Raman has to sort it out itself!

Raman is just a spineless man!

Yesterday I thought this banda must be confused of the things happening but TODAY NO, I WAS WRONG YESTERDAY. AS U SAID DI, MAJBOOR BAAP!

He should have corrected Adi. Shagun upar se didn't correct adi when adi says ap bhi unke wife ho na? ABEYYY WIFE NAHI..EX-WIFE! ARGHHH!

HAAD HAI BAATMEEZ KA AUR BEWAKUFI KI!

Sorry Di with my language.

Precappp!!!! Someone kill me.. Did I just hear that from our own RKB! 🤢

CVs are spoiling the whole essence of Yeh Hai Mohabbatein. No mature and no realistic tracks!!!
I was holding myself from not hating RKB but today I just HATE him!

Agreed with Ishita... regarding her hurt when he lashed her out. Sahi hai. Gusse mei kuch bhi bol dete, phir baad mei bul jaate aur phir maanate. Ufff!

Chalo ab mei chali... Can't rant more. Just fedup with this Shitty track...



I was even surprised jab Adi Moron Zidd kar raha tha for the puja, NOT EVEN ONE MEMBER OF BHALLA PARIVAR CAME FORWARD AND STOPPED ADI. I expected Romi or Mihir to come forward.. BULLSHITT!

P.S Sorry for the language people!

Originally posted by: AraBearxx

Stop giving a f**k.

Gan. Hug for you. Hugs make everything better.

Redirected here by Anu. She's awesome.

Originally posted by: Veeann

So, I have found a way to deal with the Friday episode - since we are hours ahead of India, and the Friday night episode airs Saturday morning our time, and since it's been a shitty week work and health wise, I intend to get drunk tonight ( Friday) so that by the time the episode airs on Saturday morning, I will have a terrible hangover and not really give a shit. Not that I give a shit now, but then I really will not give a single flying you know what. 😃

Hey Gan..

I had moved away from this show and for all the right reasons! In the last week of December I was forced to take a break thanks to my travelling.. Then, I had not known that this break would end up being a blessing for it would help me bring in the necessary detachment. Cos since then, this show has only plummeted down and further down! Everything - just about EVERYTHING this show stood for has been compromised.. And it is beyond sad that a show which in many ways was redefining has been reduced to a joke in just 3 weeks!!!

Sirf Ruhi ke liye was the premise of the wedding of these two flawed characters!! And that's exactly why this show was fresh - Its leads were flawed.. Both had their share of problems, both were imperfect, the other a little more and they both came together to save n nurture a third individual thus completing and complementing each other. There were times when Ishita had to stand up and there were times when Raman had to stand up and deliver... They may have not been right always but they always believed each other enough to know they would do the right thing! And Ruhi - a child of 6 had her insecurities which were taken care of by love, care and proper nurturing. Raman did scream at Ruhi when she insisted on something. Ishita refused Ruhi something as small as a video game. Raman and Ishita fought in front of Ruhi and later decided not to! But they behaved as parents if not husband-wife most time!

The problem with sirf Adi ke liye' though is that there is either logic, nor sense and not even enough need. Yes Adi is also a troubled child - probably more troubled than Ruhi was. Yes Adi is insecure - of losing the only family he has known - his mother. Yes Adi is misguided - something Ruhi wasn't ever. Yes Adi is in need of love, care and proper nurture - exactly like Ruhi.

So what changed now??? Adi is another kid who needed exactly same things that Ruhi did, probably a bit more and probably a little differently cos he's a 12 year old. So yeah, you give him love and you all obviously care for him. But nurture????? Doesn't it involve correcting the wrong and encouraging the right? He was a rebel when he came and he was bound to be. No one expected him to behave all nice and civilised. So he comes and you all forget the basic rules of parenting? And worse, you take objection to the only one trying to be a parent here?

I was very angry at Ishita for the whole anniversary fiasco. It was wrong on many levels but what upset me most was that she was allowing an already troubled kid to live in a delusion and encouraging his unrealistic fantasies. And boy was I glad when Raman stood up as a parent to correct Ishita that night. I felt a little of my lost hope resurfacing. Ishita hasn't been a parent for long so she might have made mistakes by getting carried away, but Raman rose to the occasion to tell her that Adi needed to know and accept the truth cos the delusion would only harm him more in the long run. It was a scene that made me happy as a viewer of this show. And then again, when Raman stood up for Ishita and said she could never knowingly harm a child even as his very predictable mother went about her now-intolerable and highly annoying Ghar ka chirag rant, I felt maybe all is not lost in the show.

Even when they made a complete mockery of tamil traditions by showing some lame non-existent mannat crap, I thought something to show the leads have moved ahead. The promises made by Raman were heart-warming. But followed after was horrifying to say the least. Raman has been impulsive forever. So him screaming at Ishita was no big deal. He always did. But his choice of words was cruel, rude, mean, obnoxious and appalling. Yeah so you wanna scream and get out your frustration go right ahead. But hold on a second. This woman here - you know very well - cannot conceive and you also know how much that hurts and affects her. She has found happiness and a sense of security and completeness in the one thing she is proud of - being Ishima to Ruhi. And in case you have forgotten YOU were the one who kept hoping and praying and wondering why she's not Ishima to Adi too. And in just one second, you hurt her so badly? You hit her where it hurts most? And you don't even realise it??? And you do it again??

Oh but wait!! It's not over yet, is it? You are yet to fall lower!!! You don't tell Adi Ishita will not apologise! You don't tell Ishita you don't need to apologise, you are wondering and asking your dad why Ishita should apologise!!! And to top it all, when you see Ishita ready to apologise, all yoy do is hesitate cos somewhere deep down you are thankful she is doing what is needed to keep your GKC at home!! And then as an afterthought you wonder if what happened was wrong!!!

Oh no wait, there is more!!! You don't apologise to her and then when you try - you do so by getting her earrings???? Like really??? And wow for once I was glad she told him straight what she needed from him. And then the best part - YOU WONDER WHY SHE'S SO ANGRY!!!!!!!!! Yeah like maybe cos you were an insensitive prick!!!

Oh but this is never ending crap isn't it!! After a lame and mundane apology (its upsetting to see a good actor like KP being so disinterested in the scenes - can't blame him, can we? Someone just shoot the damn writers), she says upfront again what upset her and you do nothing and still wonder!!!! Your awesome GKC son calls your wife a neighbour and your parents stand mum. You may not have heard what he said - but you did hear what Shagun said which means you atleast have deducing capabilities and would've known what ur adorable son would have said? Or maybe along with your b***s, your brains have gone on vacation too!!!! Cos nothing else explains why you would allow your wife's self-respect be trampled over again and over!!

Oh but by the looks of it we will have to endure more of your nincompoop-ness some more!!!! What The F***ing Hell is the precap!!!!! Just how low are u willing to fall Raman Bhalla??? And to think you were the one who drew me to this show!!! You were the most realistic of all characters!! You were the one who could make me relate to a TV show after very long!!!! Urrgghhh I'm going on ranting and I can go on and on but really!!!! What are the creatives thinking???

Such a lovely track could have been handled beautifully!!! It started off well with Adi's bed-wetting issues but soon went haywire when they decided Adi was better off scheming than bed wetting.. Aarrgghhh!!!!

But who should I blame? For I continue to watch this and continue to be hopeful of things getting better! Even now the hope is they would atleast salvage some of this nonsense b showing how in trying to handle Adi albeit the wrong way, they have sidelined Ruhi. And they show how Ruhi begins to feel insecure and bring out the original flavour of this show!!! Sigh!!! If only wishes were horses!!!

But then! Umeed pe duniya kaayam hai! So why not!!!!

PS: Sorry Gan, had to vent! Thank you for giving me the space here!! And hope you and Doc are doing good!! 🤗Missed being here!!

Originally posted by: nb.neha

Hi G (I hope I can call u by this name)

afterwatching the episode I wanted to write a post mentioning exactly the same points as mentioned by you. I was so disappointed that I didn't feel like writing anything at all.

Raman has been my fav character. I would hate to hate him or dislike him. My fav character has been damaged beyond repair now. Nothing can justify his actions now. It's difficult to hate him bcoz he is the one who has given ishita so much happiness in many ways. The same man is a total opposite now :(

He is not the same man who had no qualms with his display of affection infront of aditya, who was so clear that aditya needs to know what ishita means to him. He is not the same person who wanted adi to know that ishita is his priority now. He is not the same person who took marriage vows with ishita to heal her pain.

Where is that Raman? He is going against all his words, vows n promises. today he is a man who had no issues with his wife apologising to shagun ( yes he didn't ask her but he didnt stop her either) but has a problem with uttering the word sorry to his wife. He is the man who once reprimanded ishita for giving a wrong pic to adi n now is committing the same mistake in the name of his son. He is the same man who vowed to respect ishita n now is ready to degrade her by agreeing to do the puja with shagun bcoz Adi asked him. What kind of magic does this boy has on raman that my fav raman has been completely changed that too for worst. Adi sheds tears n all his demands are fulfilled. Yes raman craved for his son's love. He wants him be with him. But at wat cost? At the cost of his wife's dignity? At the cost of the love his wife has for him? At the cost of his daughter. This is so unfair on ishita :( this is so disappointing. He actually agreed to do the puja? can it be worse than this? He is fine with yelling at her, blaming her, insulting apology, his wife being called a neighbour n now he's fine with sabotaging his wife's respect. For whom? For adi? For how long? Why is he so blind? Why?

Just bcoz he was away from him fr 6 yrs so Raman would agree to all his demands bcoz he fears loosing him again? Only person he fears loosing is Adi. Doesn't he fears loosing ishita n ruhi? This is so sad :(

Second thing that annoys me is that Raman always remembers to get something or other for Adi -- mango ice cream , veshti , lohri attire. What about ruhi? Does that lil girl e evem crosses his mind?

Thirdly the entire bhalla family has turned into a hypocrite. They have been wrong beyond justification.

A single boy is making so many adults dance on his tunes. The lady who gave love n affection to a man who forgot the meaning of love is now being treated like a nobody.

Disappointed!

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Hi Bhuvana 🤗 how are you girl? Haven't seen you in ages .. Hope you're doing well