It's fundamentally wrong - Page 8

Originally posted by: Ranu1234

hi guys ... i am mostly silent on this thread but i do read
. I have stopped watching the serial and keep reading the post by G with the hope that one day i can resume..
All your questions and opinion resonate with what i feel .. and i go with how could they,why would they - the answer is unlike american serials which run for a few months a year once a week these have to run for 6 days a week and inorder to make money it needs to run for 2 years .
so no matter how big of a genius you are, you decide to go with nonsense and garbage and show the audience and then blame it on trying to get TRP . This is my third serial which is going this way .
I honestly want to know more about the TRP audience too my inlaws are 65+ and use to watch this show,they watch tv from 6-10 so i would think the constitute the TRP audience and they said they stopped watching cause they couldnt understand what the heck was going on.
Sorry for the rant.
I guess unless G comes back one day and has those gushing collages i dont think i am ever going to resume.
If you honestly want to read something which is really cool that has a confident hero and heroine i would recommend Nishas story ,

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4277365

she has written a lot of parts but based on what I read here this would match your temperament I think :)

Originally posted by: FantasiaNarnia

G,please read the last bit of my post.I've edited it,as I accidentally hit "Post Reply',without completing it.It's me in my most optimistic mode about this entire puke-fest 😆

Originally posted by: FantasiaNarnia

Or is this part of your game plan after all,to back Ishita into a corner,to make her stake her claim on you,once and for all?"Pati hoon na main tumhara,meri beti ki ma ho na? Toh fir jataa patni hone ka haque,jo tum kar nahi paogi".That night when you crossed all borders of decency to claim Ishita physically,I did not despise you.I pitied you,do you know why?Because molesters don't cry.Are you pulling the same stunt that you did with Mihir,to get him to confess his love for Mihika?You always were such a drama king,and perhaps you're doing this to bring out Ishita's passionate side?

Originally posted by: geno0309

Hmmm now that you put it that way Gan-running into Puttar might not be a bad idea atall-maybe I should seriously think abt this project-lol
Amen to the last thought!

Krishy I love the title-I can tell you are a doctor:)

Originally posted by: geno0309

Hmmm now that you put it that way Gan-running into Puttar might not be a bad idea atall-maybe I should seriously think abt this project-lol
Amen to the last thought!

Krishy I love the title-I can tell you are a doctor:)

Originally posted by: Ranu1234

hi guys ... i am mostly silent on this thread but i do read
. I have stopped watching the serial and keep reading the post by G with the hope that one day i can resume..
All your questions and opinion resonate with what i feel .. and i go with how could they,why would they - the answer is unlike american serials which run for a few months a year once a week these have to run for 6 days a week and inorder to make money it needs to run for 2 years .
so no matter how big of a genius you are, you decide to go with nonsense and garbage and show the audience and then blame it on trying to get TRP . This is my third serial which is going this way .
I honestly want to know more about the TRP audience too my inlaws are 65+ and use to watch this show,they watch tv from 6-10 so i would think the constitute the TRP audience and they said they stopped watching cause they couldnt understand what the heck was going on.
Sorry for the rant.
I guess unless G comes back one day and has those gushing collages i dont think i am ever going to resume.
If you honestly want to read something which is really cool that has a confident hero and heroine i would recommend Nishas story ,

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4277365

she has written a lot of parts but based on what I read here this would match your temperament I think :)

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I had thought that I'd not rant...but then some things need to be said about today's episode:

1. The grand-son of the house calls the bahu of the house, a neighbor...with the bhallas and Raman present(edit: Autumn pointed out he walked in after the fact.. For me it looked like he heard it) ...looks like something bit their tongue. Raman, who had defended his wife so many times in front of others even when he was NOT in love with her, as 'Biwi ho tum mere" can't object to his son calling his wife an outsider? Parenting is not mollycoddling a kid, but also showing him the right path. So no wonder the child has such a God complex...as he gets WHATEVER he wants...not only from his Mom but also from the otherwise wise family of his father's side.This is fundamentally wrong! Of RKB's character, I had always thought, he would make mistakes, many of them... but he would never ever blatantly overlook a fact that is dancing Naked in front of him. Also coz he seemed to be the most thought out character from all others in the show. Alas, in the race for TRP's he was just destroyed today. Failed as a parent, as a husband, failed in every damn relation- and the CV's achieved what they wanted- destroy their show by going back on their very own original premise- that heart ties are stronger than blood ties. Tha Bhallas and Raman just proved today- Shagun is always , always above Ishita coz she gave birth to the damn GKC. Who the heck even cares about Ruhi or the Woman she consideres mother. After all, uska dil toh kitna bada hai, sab samajhti, sab sambhal legi, right CV's?
   
   
2. We live in this millennium and the story takes place in New Delhi, India where marriage is monogamous...so "Chhoti Ma" is so fundamentally wrong...and NO ONE in the Bhalla house felt the need to rectify that. and mind you Shagun said this..not their GKC. So why did they keep quiet this time? If Ishita was wrong in celebrating anniversary of Adi's divorced parents and Raman told her that it was mistake to give Adi the false hope. So what happened now. Completely defies Logic. We talk about tunnel vision always right? Raman seems to have come down with a case of "Tunnel Blindness"- in this disease anything/anyone that does not constitute the happiness of the GKC will be ripped apart, and insulted.
   
   
3. A 12 year old hatching plan to lock his Step-mom in a room so that his mother can do Pooja with his dad because " that's how he always did" ..ummm. You MORON your parents have been freaking separated for past 6 years and you called Ashok as your Dad...when did your Mom do that? Is he 12 yr old or a toddler..delusion and conniving tween don't go hand in hand..CVs make up your mind what you want Adi to be. Again completely illogical. Convenient Partial amnesia by the evil due- Seriously considering adding the entire bhalla parivaar apart from Ruhi into this list.
   
   
4. And Precap? Honestly?! Raman Bhalla can't tell his son that the Puja is done by a couple and he and Shagun are NOT. I get he's majboor baap...but what about your wife's dignity? how can you trample that in front of the whole world and in presence of her family? Again Fundamentally wrong.. Read many posts where people said the Lohri Pooja can even be done with your kid. The whole couple thing is jsut a case of Dramatic liberty. So my Kostin, why could they not show Raman saying, i will do it with you Son, if you want, but not with your mother coz I have no relation to her? Adi would still be pissed, yet make a show- There you go CV's- you would have drama there too! But no, a 6 yr old HAS to come to make 30+ olds understand the rights of her mother. Well done CV's!😡
   

What are the CVs trying to achieve? Shagun and Adi's presence in the Bhalla house and Ishita's breakpoint so that Kaali ma avatar emerges. But at what cost? the USP of the story is the love story and not kitchen politics. So is this the only way that could have been achieved by butchering RKB from an iconic character to a mute dikra who just says sorry in his mind...and doesn't have the back bone to stand up to his 12 year old's unrealistic demands?!?

If that's all the YHM creatives can think of ...then let's just say the show is no longer Yeh Hai Mohabbatein as frankly love is much more than the phrase "I love you" ..It's also about, at the least, mutual respect, protecting the dignity of your spouse and standing by them at any cost.

Raman's vision of love is fundamentally wrong. I dont blame him...I blame the creatives for failing their hero.

Sorry I was not planning to rant...but unlike Ishita...As a woman I felt we need to protest this line of thinking at this day and time. WORD!

Originally posted by: krishy13

I'll join you! Haha I already have a wordy working title "An objective study assessing how the psychosocial traumas, unresolved conflicts, and psychological disorders faced by the Indian television show writing fraternity are projected onto the masses in the guise of entertainment".

Open to more suggestions though! 😉

In reality though, we could probably get a bunch of case study publications based off that lot of people!