It's fundamentally wrong

I had thought that I'd not rant...but then some things need to be said about today's episode:

1. The grand-son of the house calls the bahu of the house, a neighbor...with the bhallas and Raman present(edit: Autumn pointed out he walked in after the fact.. For me it looked like he heard it) ...looks like something bit their tongue. Raman, who had defended his wife so many times in front of others even when he was NOT in love with her, as 'Biwi ho tum mere" can't object to his son calling his wife an outsider? Parenting is not mollycoddling a kid, but also showing him the right path. So no wonder the child has such a God complex...as he gets WHATEVER he wants...not only from his Mom but also from the otherwise wise family of his father's side.This is fundamentally wrong!
   
   
2. We live in this millennium and the story takes place in New Delhi, India where marriage is monogamous...so "Chhoti Ma" is so fundamentally wrong...and NO ONE in the Bhalla house felt the need to rectify that. and mind you Shagun said this..not their GKC. So why did they keep quiet this time? If Ishita was wrong in celebrating anniversary of Adi's divorced parents and Raman told her that it was mistake to give Adi the false hope. So what happened now. Completely defies Logic.
   
   
3. A 12 year old hatching plan to lock his Step-mom in a room so that his mother can do Pooja with his dad because " that's how he always did" ..ummm. You MORON your parents have been freaking separated for past 6 years and you called Ashok as your Dad...when did your Mom do that? Is he 12 yr old or a toddler..delusion and conniving tween don't go hand in hand..CVs make up your mind what you want Adi to be. Again completely illogical
   
   
4. And Precap? Honestly?! Raman Bhalla can't tell his son that the Puja is done by a couple and he and Shagun are NOT. I get he's majboor baap...but what about your wife's dignity? how can you trample that in front of the whole world and in presence of her family? Again Fundamentally wrong..
   

What are the CVs trying to achieve? Shagun and Adi's presence in the Bhalla house and Ishita's breakpoint so that Kaali ma avatar emerges. But at what cost? the USP of the story is the love story and not kitchen politics. So is this the only way that could have been achieved by butchering RKB from an iconic character to a mute dikra who just says sorry in his mind...and doesn't have the back bone to stand up to his 12 year old's unrealistic demands?!?

If that's all the YHM creatives can think of ...then let's just say the show is no longer Yeh Hai Mohabbatein as frankly love is much more than the phrase "I love you" ..It's also about, at the least, mutual respect, protecting the dignity of your spouse and standing by them at any cost.

Raman's vision of love is fundamentally wrong. I dont blame him...I blame the creatives for failing their hero.

Sorry I was not planning to rant...but unlike Ishita...As a woman I felt we need to protest this line of thinking at this day and time.

So I watched the episode and I am not angry I am just disappointed and saddened. This show had so much potential, it could have been a path breaking show for Indian television but sadly it got reduced to a low class B grade movie.

I get it they need to show friction between the couple because no one wants to see romance 24/7 but is this regressive storyline necessary to bring out friction.

I refuse to rant about this anymore as this is my fault. It is my fault that I got invested in a show and then actually spend time coming online and discussing it because the reality is no one gives crap about what we think. I have been told that the actors, director and the writers visit this forum and I bet they laugh their asses off at our obsession with this show and they probably can't fathom that there are people like me out in the world who spend their precious time discussing a show online and get nothing in return. And they should laugh at this absurdity because while they get rich and make their millions, I come here and give a damn about this show.

In one interview Ms. Ekta Kapoor had said that she kept aside a budget to nurture young writers, she had made this point to highlight how advance the TV industry is compared to the Indian film industry. I frankly fail to see the advancement in TV with such writing, I am a science person far removed from the world of creativity but even I can tell you Ms. Kapoor, that your writers are doing less than stellar job these days.

The moral of the story is, the actors get rich, the producer makes millions, the writers are spread thin working on multiple shows at once and in the middle of this cluster F**k we are the morons giving a crap about a substandard product.

And here is the kicker, can you imagine how much fun all the actors and the makers of the show might be having laughing at us when they find out that the are people out in the world who spent their precious time fighting over Raman vs. Ishita, I mean can you imagine the laugh riot in their offices, make up vans etc when they read our posts and see how much we care and we actually give a shit.

I have learned my lesson, no more ranting! Screw them, gonna watch to enjoy, what I don't like I will forward and when it gets too much I will stop watching. I am not going to be a laughing stock for a bunch of millionaires. Thanks but no thanks.

I had to get it out because it was bothering me, I know I am a nerd. 😆

Word G.

Res. Will edit later. :P

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Gan, seems like you are really angry. Thank God I didnot see today's epi just read the live update. 😛 I do agree at some points of your post. Why doesn't Bhalla family said anything when Adi pointed out Ishita as an outsider? Till when will they keep themselve quiet? Whats so special in Adi? Is he made of Gold? Is he born in a different way? I don't have any expectations from Ishu because cvs totally destroyed her character. She was the one who celebrated ShaRam anniversary and now when Raman is doing the Pooja with Airhead she is shown crying, the problem with me is Raman. Puttar dissapointed me a big time. Why the hell he agreed to do Pooja with Airhead? Just because Adi said? Why is he so blindly in love with Adi? Doesn't he loves Ishu? He was the one who scolded Ishu on new years party that she is giving wrong hopes to Adi . Isn't he doing the same? He has always stood out for Ishu, why can't he stand out now? I use to feel more connected with Puttar because he was real and use to stood by his words but. 😔 His love for Adi really irritates me sometime. Seems like CVS are in a mood to destroy Puttar's character too and about Adi. Yes. I wished Adi was a son of Bala and Vandu. Shravu and Ruhi should have been twin of Raman and Airhead. Puttar's life would have been so easy. 😆 why the hell Adi can't realise that his Parents are no longer? Doesn't a 12 year old kid knows a meaning of Divorced? Raman and Shagun use to celebrate Lohri always? Like really? Where were you my jaan when your Mum use to live with your Ashok Dad? Adi needs a tight slap! That Kid is so irritating! Doesn't he has his own sense to see what is happening around.?

I can understand that today's episode was wrong in many ways from what you've written G Di...didn't get a chance to watch the episode yet...recorded it but now I'm planning to skip this episode... The CVs are making me hate RKB... 😭 😭

Good day G Di! 🤗

I was waiiiting for u G. Every word u just said is exactly how I felt. Specially that choti maaa bit I wanted to go there and slap every Bhalla standing there who took it. This is incredulous.

Disgusting stuff in the name of drama ..completely ekta Mata crappy show..

AGREE TO EVERY POINT OF URS

Adi said aap bhi toh unki wife ho!

The CVs are clearly on something.