CHEEEEEE to the thought process of the inventor of this track - Page 7

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..

Has Raman ever expressed his feelings to her so how can you expect Ishu to do the same. Listen, Ishu is not doing this intentially. I know she is wrong by hiding things for him but she is doing all this for him na. No matter what ever Raman says to her or the way treats her. Thats a big thing that she doesn't says anything and act normal with him and on the other way Raman should have a trust factor on Ishu not every women is like Shagun but if he is having a doubt on her he should ask her rather than making his own assumptions!!

Sorry to hurt anyones sentiments that was only my POV.

@My dear Rheash, Raman has also done the same thing. During Adi accident track, he use to hide things from Ishita and Ishu is doing the same during that time Raman was majboor this time Ishu is majboor. And, about Ishu giving importance to other man is not true! She is behaving normal with her bestie just the way any other women do! She is totally not ignoring Raman like Shagun did. She cares for him and cannot deny it.

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Nice post!

All I want to add is a lady who knows about her husbands difficult past relationship will be careful in her deeds and actions as to not to hurt him ... and Ishita was one such sensitive person before the CV's gave her this grotesque transformation..

Does she think Ramu won't come to know later that Mani helped her in retaining his Asia head crown? What is the point of hiding that she is meeting Mani? Can't she tell him she is meeting Mani for coffee etc.. Something closer to the truth rather than all these suspicious goings on?!

Why just Raman, any normal person without a difficult past relationship will become suspicious if his wife does all these things!

For all these months the story is just moving in circles! I feel like a person lost in an haunted jungle reaching the same place in the forest every time. Be it accident track, Permeet track, Mihir's sister kaun track, Mani track or the current one... Every track they could have delt with trust, insecurity etc etc... But they backed out every single time! After every drama we are left at the starting point.. One day Ramu looks in love, the next day Ishu looks in love. Some days both look in love and on other days both don't look in love... One day Ishita is Jealous next day Raman is jealous. One day Raman is hurt, next day Ishita is hurt... One day it's about trust, next day it's about insecurities... It just keeps going on and on, like a black hole!Some of us try to bring out the sense in the story and then some of us find it senseless..

Well written! I was actually willing to give this track a chance but today was the height to stupidity and unnecessary crap.

Started watching this show recently- caught up on some old episodes which were really classy ! The way they have potrayed it seems like Ishita is having an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR with Mani !

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..

@My dear Rheash, Raman has also done the same thing. During Adi accident track, he use to hide things from Ishita and Ishu is doing the same during that time Raman was majboor this time Ishu is majboor. And, about Ishu giving importance to other man is not true! She is behaving normal with her bestie just the way any other women do! She is totally not ignoring Raman like Shagun did. She cares for him and cannot deny it.

@Blue: True. But just because Raman did something wrong, Ishita would repeat the same. It's not a competition for making errors after all. Besides, sensitive Ishita that we knew would never do such things considering her husband's difficult past.Well, Ishu is majboor for what or whom exactly is still a mystery to me.

@Red: There is two versions of it. Firstly, I'm a teenager with lots of male BFFs but I never change my daily routine for them. I don't seek their constant help in my private matter either. Every relationship has its own limit. Secondly, Ishita is a married woman and it does change the perspective in a whole other level. No husband would like the way Ishu is behaving and to be honest, irrespective of the marital status, no woman would chant about her best friend for almost 24/7. To make matter worse, she can't even function properly without Mani these days. From petty household chores to jassoosi work, she seeks Mani's hands. I don't think any woman would go that overboard. My aunt, a sucessful lawyer by profession and a staunch feminist, who watches the show whenever she catches time told me other day what was Ishita doing in the name of friendship would've cost her marriage in real life.

whoa Kodai

thanks for definition of "emotional affair" 😈

Originally posted by: kodai

Started watching this show recently- caught up on some old episodes which were really classy ! The way they have potrayed it seems like Ishita is having an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR with Mani !

- she wakes up with his call

- goes to sleep after calling him

-goes everywhere with him

- lies about him to her husband

- laughs with her bestie at her husband on something serious like her husband checking her phone.

THAT WAS SERIOUS - any married woman invested in her marriage will be jolted that her husband has so little trust that he needs to check her phone. That scene was so tasteless & Ishita came across as self-absorbed & totally mean. I don't think that act and changing the contact can be redeemed.

-bitches about her husband to him

-lets the bestie feed her, hug her, drop in whenever he want

Even if a brother/family does all these things, any husband would get irritated.

All in the name of some BS position. Left a very bad taste, and more fool us for watching :)

Here's the definition from WebMD-

- According to Saltz, these seven red flags suggest you may have entered into an emotional affair:

1. You spend a lot of emotional energy on the person. "You end up sharing stuff that you don't even share with your partner -- hopes and dreams, things that would actually connect you to your partner."
2. You dress up for that person.
3. You make a point to find ways to spend time together, and that time becomes very important to you.
4. You'd feel guilty if your partner saw you together; you are doing things and saying things that you would never do or say in front of your spouse.
5. You share your feelings of marital dissatisfaction.
6. You're keeping secret the amount of time you're spending with the person (including emailing, calling, texting).

Wow...👏 I request you to make an individual topic in this forum and post this content there.

Originally posted by: btalwar

The entire point of my ranting is not this episode ...

I have a problem with the NAHI SOCH approach of Star Plus/YHM creative team

1. Why does marriage need a third wheel to work? How many arranged marriages between two diametrically opposite souls work out brilliantly each and everyday ... I can vouch we will have many people out there in the forum itself who have had a successful arranged marriage ... it is not necessary to bring the cliche jealousy track all the time.

2. What do the creative wants to portray when they show mistrust and lying as the savior to the relationship ... Lying is a big NO in any marrige

3. Why can't a man and woman be best of friends ... correction sensible best friends ... why can't they have platonic relationships without generating stupid MUs between either of their lives ... Good Morning SP .. nayi soch ... this is 2014 ... not 1914 ... what is the use of your tagline if you are stuck to cementing the age old concepts of Indian culture that kuch to hoga in dono me .. BULLSHIT

To me, this track is a mockery to all this ... this serial was mature because it was based on sensitive issues ... custody, infertility, infidelity, second chances in life, anger management, letting go ...

But turns out, as usual as per the (in)famous SICKA** JEE .. we FANS are FOOLS and fooled we have been