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Hi Bhanu,
I kinda agree with parts of what you say but i also somewhere agree with Aani.. TRUST!! is so important and related to love!! I have tried to write about this in Ruby's post..
Im married and i have a very very close male friend i talk to more than once everyday.. And sometimes if circumstances require even at odd hours! You cant see time/place etc when ur friend needs you! (not getting into Mani's weirdness though).And your partner will be the first one to understand that! However having said that he would understand that only if you give him to confidence to do so..
Here my problem has been in the fact that while Ishita has been sincere in her thoughts her actions seem inversely proportional.. This same ishita who even at the heights of their trouble n issues - would stay up and ensure that atleast Ruhi feeds him his dinner is shown to happily go to sleep after making a couple of phone calls to check his whereabouts... And this when she knows he is troubled (though she has got the reason of trouble wrong) This same ishita who told raman he neednt hide his tears and could sense his pain a few days ago now doesnt know the difference between his tears and ac ka leaked water!!!
One positive i have liked is that she actualy has been very open about picking his calls in front of raman.. I wouldnt have liked her to do it discreetly like she has started doing now.. Also, the bigger weird thing here is she knows he has a genuine problem with Mani... by now she even knows it isnt just the funny jealousy.. i mean they have just had a misunderstanding where she got angry n hurt cos he felt she lied!!! But despite that she is now behaving like its ok to lie just cos she has a good intention! I actually am ok with her lies as long as she atleast feels sorry saying them! But yesterday that was a big negative!
But then again, would the hurt of Raman's past ever have come up if they have normally spoken? Yes she would have known more details than she does but would anyone just for the sake of opening up talk about every wound of the past? I dont think so.. It had to come out either this way or via Shagun.. And im also very hopeful it wont drag for long...
My only hope is Ishita should know even though unknowingly - she has made Raman go through the fear he has already lived once!! This shouldnt end with Raman feeling guilty for having doubted her - cos here she did everything to create doubt! I would like to really really see Ishita understanding his pain and understanding that she needs to start trusting Raman to do the right thing (ive never understood why she thinks raman would give up his post for Sarika-Romi problem- he did it in the past for her cos it meant giving her her future but that doesnt mean he would do it all the time)!
But frankly minus the whole car convo where Ishita knowingly and willingly and casually laughs off the lying it, this track is really building up to a big tearjerker.. And i hope in the end trust wins! Cos without trust there can be no love! And trust always has to be two way! Cant expect Raman to trust Ishita if she doesnt trust Raman to do the right thing!! And cant expect Ishita to trust Raman if Raman cant give her the confidence and trust that he can be spoken to about anything and he would make the right decision!
Ghum Hai Kisikey Pyaar Meiin
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