A guy perspective - Page 10

Originally posted by: Radhika03

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I am quite surprised wid ishita's behavior...there must be one specific boundary for every relation...

Husband is a husband and a friend whether best or casual is only a friend...

We should have certain priority for everything...whether it is relation or your profession...😳

Very well said radhika

Once I read in this forum, Ishita's love for Raman is conditional. When he behaves according to her likings, she showers her love to him. Otherwise, she's indifferent. I wasn't fully agreeing to it at that time but Ishia's recent behavior (I'm not just talking about hospital scene only) made me think differently now. I wouldn't say it about Raman though as he yet to realize his love for Ishita. But from the looks of it, he too had some issues about how she behaves usually, i.e. interfering, sacrifical, social service attitudes. But he never tried to press on changing those attitudes. He accepted her the way she was.

It was very interesting to read from a guys point of view. Tfs for this post. Enjoyed reading all the comments and to see the difference in the opinions and the way we all look at the same situation differently. I guess its just a difference in opinions. There is no right way or wrong way of thinking about something.

Originally posted by: RheaSh

Once I read in this forum, Ishita's love for Raman is conditional. When he behaves according to her likings, she showers her love to him. Otherwise, she's indifferent. I wasn't fully agreeing to it at that time but Ishia's recent behavior (I'm not just talking about hospital scene only) made me think differently now. I wouldn't say it about Raman though as he yet to realize his love for Ishita. But from the looks of it, he too had some issues about how she behaves usually, i.e. interfering, sacrifical, social service attitudes. But he never tried to press on changing those attitudes. He accepted her the way she was.

Aha interesting perspective rhea

She has made her own assumptions and working forward on that theories

Same way mani is working forward

Being a man I can understand Raman's situation, and I am very much obsessed of this soap. So I know its from beginning.Ishita likes Raman when he does thing like what she want otherwise she behave weird.

Generally man are doing two things either they avoid everything and starts a newly with his wife and make her comfortable or they affected too much start tit for tat and looking for new relationship (extra marital affair). When everything damage already happened wife strike her Mind and want to get back her hubby.but husband alredy fallen deep in his new relationship.at that time coming back Is very difficult.

I want Raman should talk her calmly and starts fresh with Ishita.and Ishita should realise Raman's jealousy and make safe distance with Mani and she also go ahead with Raman.otherwise they will face so many problem in their life.may be separation too.

Thanks for letting us know how a guy would think given the situation. But irrespective of gender, I think a sane person would react just like you mentioned it in your post.

Originally posted by: Ppramod

Being a man I can understand Raman's situation, and I am very much obsessed of this soap. So I know its from beginning.Ishita likes Raman when he does thing like what she want otherwise she behave weird.

Generally man are doing two things either they avoid everything and starts a newly with his wife and make her comfortable or they affected too much start tit for tat and looking for new relationship (extra marital affair). When everything damage already happened wife strike her Mind and want to get back her hubby.but husband alredy fallen deep in his new relationship.at that time coming back Is very difficult.

I want Raman should talk her calmly and starts fresh with Ishita.and Ishita should realise Raman's jealousy and make safe distance with Mani and she also go ahead with Raman.otherwise they will face so many problem in their life.may be separation too.

Well

I don't completely agree with you

doesnt mani understand this behaviour pattern, which is quite normal in a guy...being a guy, he shudve realized, right ? that his flirting n proclaimation of love, for ishita, maynot be well-received by her husband, who is a stranger for him...

Originally posted by: anjs

doesnt mani understand this behaviour pattern, which is quite normal in a guy...being a guy, he shudve realized, right ? that his flirting n proclaimation of love, for ishita, maynot be well-received by her husband, who is a stranger for him...

even before knowing that their marriage was a compromise...mani was going on n on bt the flirting...his behaviour with Ishita before meeting raman was much more mature n decent, then after meeting raman, that too in-front of raman

ofcourse my question is valid, only if u consider mani as an innocent friend...if we consider mani is still holding a torch for her, n was waiting for a chance...then it doesnt matter what mani thinks, cause he is then doing it deliberately

This is perfect post

Can't mani see how Raman is reacting

Is he blind

So he is deliberately provoking

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