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anjs

@anjs

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+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: Megher_Palok

and how come ishu didn't say anything to mani for bringing their daughter to hospital??

everything is maaf for apna NM cause he is 'the genius' 😉

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Lucky

@alwaysaTVFan

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#72

Res :)

Office jaana hai, will reply in detail in a couple of hours Leo

*** EDITED

Leo...

The following may sound like 'gyaan' but I cannot seem to just say agreed/disagreed to this post 😆

I have 2 answers to this post... so please read both (if after reading this, you don't want to talk to me, its ok 😆)

Answer 1 : If this were a post about a hypothetical man and woman, my views are:

Boundaries are present in every society, and every relationship defined by the society.

BUT, I personally believe (and l practise this too), that the limit of that boundary is defined ONLY by the 2 people in it. Be it friends or partners or siblings or parent-child.

So, if the woman is intentionally or unintentionally stretching that boundary, so much so that its making the man uncomfortable, I'd also expect the man to speak up about it.

If its too sensitive a subject, by all means give hints, but the man should not cower down and indirectly blame the woman (or even that third person) for breaking the rules. Because in his own way, he's just piling up the mistakes. 2 wrongs don't make it right

Of course, this being an hypothetical couple, I am assuming that they have an understanding (spoken or unspoken) about how far they can go without stretching their boundaries.

My answer may seem vague and too preachy, but it comes from personal experience.

Answer 2 : If this is about Raman & Ishita:

The Ishita I knew wouldn't do so much Mani jaap without even having an inkling of how it may seem to Raman (or for that matter her in-laws). She is a person who knows her boundaries, and she is by no means naive. and I think it's quite interesting that her Mother in Law is not around to witness this. I wonder how Toshiji would react, let alone Raman. I know Toshiji is on holiday and all, but the timing is very interesting to me

The Raman I knew wouldn't really think that his wife is better off without him. Yes, he would be extremely sensitive to the relationship between Ishita & Mani, but by now he would have shouted and screamed at the top of his lungs to get a straight answer from her.

But, like I said in your inconsistency-waala post the other day, I think the lack of depth in Mani's role (and to be fair the speed of Mani's entry into the track) is making Ishita's action and Raman's inaction both unrelatable to me

Done Leo...

aur agli baar se aise post banaao jiska one-word mein answer de sakoon. Please Leo 😆

Edited by always_a_TV_fan - 10 years ago

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: Nichuss
mi i like to see a post on mani perspective too...
if u r mani... wt will b ur reaction

on seeing short tempered raman...

romi's saying abt raman...

ashok false story(which mani nt sure whtr to believe or not)

it will be gud if u make in this same post :) or different one...

bcz having a boy as best friend... i dnt feel any wrong in it

Nichu

I guess someone already answered

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: Lata_ishra
👍🏼

thanks

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: anjs
ur post does make sense...no matter how good mani is, he has no right to butt-in between a husband and wife...
and y is ishita behaving like this despite knowing how jealous raman is of mani...

thats y two days back i opened a thread named...ishita, ur husband is raman n not mani (unfortunately nobody replied to my thread😭)

cause in that episode (the one before she fainted) it seemed as if she is mani's wife n raman is a guest in her house

Agree with you

Awesome post

Sorry did not see your thread

You make good points

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Asclepius
Awesome! 👏
Much needed post!
Outsider interference in family is what I'm not liking.!!
Bringing ruhi n making it look like raman is incapable father is something very unnatural..then what was use track shown for last 9mths!!

Yes

That is the worst part

Making it seem to Raman he is pathetic as dad

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: Ananya05
Hey, nice post. Agree with you.
Raman's way of treating Ishita might be harsh, But that doesn't make Ishita any less guilty of the way she is treating him around Mani, especially since she is supposedly the one who has already realized her feelings for Raman,

That is true

As if Raman is suddenly invisible

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Radhika

@Radhika03

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#78

Vyas..bang on... 👍🏼

I am quite surprised wid ishita's behavior...there must be one specific boundary for every relation...

Husband is a husband and a friend whether best or casual is only a friend...

We should have certain priority for everything...whether it is relation or your profession...😳

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Autumnn

@Autumnn

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: Nichuss

this i too thgt...

y ws mani with raman in doc cabin...

this is all just to show mani to realise abt raman love.. n raman to realise his love for ishu

In the LU it was explained that as Mani had arranged for the doctor. He had called the trustee to arrange for the doctor cos of the strike hence continuation of that scene he was in the cabin with Raman when doctor was giving diagnosis. Find this logical.