m not comparing divorce of pramad-kumud wid meethi vishnu
point is kumud wen got married to pramad , who is misfit n when she truly loved saras who was there to support her , never felt weak n day dream about him , never melted down , took caution that by mistake also she does not come close to him. she gave chance to pramad not just make saras go even if she wanted him to go but she really wanted to give chance,
in case of meeshu wen u have no abusive hubby , meethi never showed sign of moving on
inspite of akash hovering around , never hated him in the end said i love u still repeatedly
day dream about him on sr night
lost in his eyes , wen she fell in his arm
felt herself weak infront of him , infact that is y she had planned drama , i feel weak n i can bend down in 23 days so vishnu lets do drama so akash can go , this is wat she said exactly. not because of anni.
same applies for vishnu , i never saw signs of moving on in meeshu
if they really wanted to give chance to mrg , mukta/akash/rapr nautanki would have least affected them
meeshu themseleves were not compatible.
kesar i will now tell u what i saw . Kumud was lying to herself all along . Meethi was NOT lying to herself . She admitted she had feelings for Akash but was gonna try a new marraige for the sake of her grandma who got a heart attack . She even accepted Vishnu's feelings for his ex and offered to release him . Meethi had no illusions .
Kumud had . She had illusions of making her marraige succesful , changing her abuser husband , overcoming every obstacle in marraige . It is an ego . A principled one , but still an ego . In this serial Vishnu has it . Some circumstances , obstacles cannot be changed . The sensible person is one who accepts this reality and does not live whiffing an illusory high . Husband was hitting , attempting rape , sleeping with servant girl . Yet she had the supreme mind boggling confidence she could 'change' him .
Mukta has this confidence too . She can 'change' Vishnu and make him throw away his stupid usools and mould him to her liking . This confidence is naive .
Since Meethi's decision was without illusions , her turmoil was explicitly shown .
Since Kumud's decision was an upward facade , her turmoil was subtly shown ...the drawing of smileys on palm , the running when Saras was hurt etc .
15 days was the time given in Vishnu Meethi marraige and in those 15 days they were HOUNDED and plots were hatched to break them up at any cost so they DON'T experience a change of feelings . This fear was in RPR , Akash and Mukta ...why ? Coz Vishnu and Meethi mutually respected each other and liked each other and it does not take very long for mutual like to deepen in something more .
So they were not given any TIME . Partners in marraige don't have to be compatible ...it is a subjective opinion , the movie Roja whose tune they use shows that incompatible partners can have succesful marraige . Also Mukta and Vishnu r highly highly incompatible then coz she does NOT believe in his usools while he DOES . So the incompatible argument , decided by RPR , Mukta and Akash fails miserably . Meethi did not make fun of his usools .He loved Meethi's mother and respected her . Damini's training would have enabled her to live happily even in a small flat . Damini is NOT like RPR who pampers all the time saying 'princess princess' . RPR spoils her . All that Meethi Vishnu had were exes and recent break ups so feelings were not totally wiped out and capitalizing on that they were not given any time . Pity Uttaran is ending coz i would have loved to see the Vishnu Mukta incompatibility since incompatibility is thrashed a lot in the case of Vishnu Meethi for i differ there . I actually saw compatibility chances .
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