Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
kesar i will now tell u what i saw . Kumud was lying to herself all along . Meethi was NOT lying to herself . She admitted she had feelings for Akash but was gonna try a new marraige for the sake of her grandma who got a heart attack . She even accepted Vishnu's feelings for his ex and offered to release him . Meethi had no illusions .
Kumud had . She had illusions of making her marraige succesful , changing her abuser husband , overcoming every obstacle in marraige . It is an ego . A principled one , but still an ego . In this serial Vishnu has it . Some circumstances , obstacles cannot be changed . The sensible person is one who accepts this reality and does not live whiffing an illusory high . Husband was hitting , attempting rape , sleeping with servant girl . Yet she had the supreme mind boggling confidence she could 'change' him .
Mukta has this confidence too . She can 'change' Vishnu and make him throw away his stupid usools and mould him to her liking . This confidence is naive .
i agree that mukta has this confidence that she can change him 2 make her stooge. bcoz even wen she agreed 2 vishnu's proposal of rented house her expressions were not sum proudness of her wud b's high moral ground.
Since Meethi's decision was without illusions , her turmoil was explicitly shown .
Since Kumud's decision was an upward facade , her turmoil was subtly shown ...the drawing of smileys on palm , the running when Saras was hurt etc .
completely agree. nothing more 2 add.
15 days was the time given in Vishnu Meethi marraige and in those 15 days they were HOUNDED and plots were hatched to break them up at any cost so they DON'T experience a change of feelings . This fear was in RPR , Akash and Mukta ...why ? Coz Vishnu and Meethi mutually respected each other and liked each other and it does not take very long for mutual like to deepen in something more .
i agree wid u. plots were hatched 2 break them up 2 any cost bcoz they won't move on which both ak & mukta saw. ak saw it while staying @ BN while mukta saw it during hospital scene of surabhi's delivery. and rpr saw it wen vishnu went 2jail 2 meet him & totallty refused 4 divorce.
and even ak'd said 2 vishnu i know u 2'v etrust & understanding but wheres luv?? that question was not just asked 2 humiliate vishnu or tell him sum truth but thta was ak's fera that soon this trust & understanding will develop in2 luv.
So they were not given any TIME . Partners in marraige don't have to be compatible ...it is a subjective opinion , the movie Roja whose tune they use shows that incompatible partners can have succesful marraige . Also Mukta and Vishnu r highly highly incompatible then coz she does NOT believe in his usools while he DOES . So the incompatible argument , decided by RPR , Mukta and Akash fails miserably . Meethi did not make fun of his usools .He loved Meethi's mother and respected her . Damini's training would have enabled her to live happily even in a small flat . Damini is NOT like RPR who pampers all the time saying 'princess princess' . RPR spoils her . All that Meethi Vishnu had were exes and recent break ups so feelings were not totally wiped out and capitalizing on that they were not given any time . Pity Uttaran is ending coz i would have loved to see the Vishnu Mukta incompatibility since incompatibility is thrashed a lot in the case of Vishnu Meethi for i differ there . I actually saw compatibility chances .
same thots. tho i believe partners've 2 b compatible but in basic nature not superficially.in roja there was diff btn BG & educn level but not in their basic nature. roja was angry wid him 4 ditching he rsis but later on knowing truth she was not furious wid him.
and yes mukta & vishnu incompatibility is more & thats basic in nature like u said he still believes in his morals while mukta still doesn't.
and yes meethi didn't make fun of his usools & always respected him & his usools.
and vishnu wud'd soon started 2've feelings bcoz meethi was trained by damini who'd also trianed iccha & iccha'd trained vishnu.and thatwhy wen vishnu asked meethi why shes not cuming wid him after ak cam e 2 live there she said she can live in a small room wid him but don't want 2 leave BN as don't want ak 2ruin it & she was ready 2 live wid vishnu in one room set even tho she was not in luv wid vishnu.
and even tho meethi was raised in richness & mukta in middle class as jogi'd bcum bankrupt but still damini never called meethi as sum princess while rpr always said mukta as princess. an di'd found wenever parents give such prefixes 2 theirkids they think they can've anything. we've e also e.g. of BV of old J & now sanchi the princess of KB.
and i agree that ppl r saying meeshu didn't 4get their exes. but like u said that yaar breakups r recent & they were not given either space or time
@bold purple i completely agree wid u. i wud'd luved 2see that incompatibility btn mukta & vishnu.an d i think meethi-vishnu may not luk compatible superficially but r basically compatible bcoz of mutual respected & understanding & trust btn them. so that wud'd made them compatible.but here CVs ruined all 4 making interesting storyline & trps which r still r deceiving them.
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