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kools bang on post as usual. and i think u gave all replies abt wat morals & wat luv is.👏👏Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
yes i see saraswatichandra
but again Kumud's marraige with Pramad was FULL of domestic violence ...the Vishnu Meethi marraige was NOT .also , if u notice , Kumud gave that marraige TIME . Actually she should not have as that marraige had domestic abuse . Domestic abuse NEVER stops , u should run to safety first .In marraiges without domestic abuse there can still be divorces ...yes . But my point is , some time should be given to them and the couple should come to this decision on their own , without mad obsessive hounding .In the movie Roja , whose music they stupidly and ironically play in this track , the arranged marraige started on an unfriendly note . The girl resented him as he refused her sister . Yet later it worked out . It worked out inspite of the incompatibility ...she was from village while he lived in cities and could go abroad . In arranged marraige 'love' comes later with companionship.I find Mukta's decisions very thoughtless . Her choice of Vishnu without knowing his thoughts , the way she crazily went after him instead of moving on , the truth is these grand celebrations and this sajna dhajna doesn't last long and such marraiges crack ...he showed his mettle when he refused the bungalow , that is the first crack .But the serial is ending so though they have kept an avenue open , they will show all is well .
i also find mukta's decisions thotless. getting emotional doesn't mean bcuming psycho & despo .
and abt SRC there saras may b living there but hes not doing cheap kartoots like mukta & ak did 2gether neitehr he gav ekumud an ultimatum.
and in that case i find doemstic abuse biggest cause.which like u said is not wid meeshu.and thye'd almost started 2 mov eon until ak came & then on his instign mukta threatened vishnu.
and i don't think vishnu is v.rigid in his morals. hes rgid 4 himself but not 4 oders. if meethi'd asked divorce 4 herself then he wud'd relieved her but she wanted it 4 mukta.
and here i find mukta selfish . bcoz she wanted 2 change vishnu's morals & wants preference 4 her only.
and tho i m not romantic types only 2-3 on-screen couples chemistry has gotten my attention one is ajay-sargun, sriti-shnaky & 2 sum extent ajay-TD & sargun shanky. but i believe in this
"sahiba jo tumhe badal kar pyaar kare wodh pyaar nahi sauda kare aur sahiba pyaar mein sauda nahi"(i think u rembr this dialogue).
and abt thta gift scene ebven i felt that how both daughter-father's faces fell & they still didn't want 2 respect his morals bcoz even later on wen mukta agreed after jogi's praise of vishnu 4 his khuddari he rexpressions were like i"ll change that 2 also.
while wen same thing happnd during BN gifting neither meethis nor mai-umed's sface fell rater they were proud.
and i saw ajay & SD interview abt meethi getting shot. where mukta was demanding many things like 2 suits. 2 sarees , 2 sets per month. and ajay as an actor & as vishnu ckt getting pissed off & he was saying that vishnu is middle class man so he can't afford all thia & hedoesn't know how vishnu will handle this??and he was not saying it jovially.
so i think CVs may show that chink b4 mrg itself. and i"ll b happy if they show it.
one more thing. wid aman she did the same thing. tho earlier she went wid yuvi 2 make aman jealous but later on she got impressed wid yuvi's riches & started accepting his gifts for herself & 2 make aman more jealous.
mukta is neither angel nor a normal agl. earlier we cud'd place her in btn but now shes defntly bcum despo & psycho. and abt vishnu hes feeling guilty also even tho hes shown happy but wen rpr asked meethi 4 celebrn all bcame happy except damini, meethi & vishnu. his expressions surely showed guilt & he was luking @ meethi .
but still ppl want want this morlaistic vishnu 4 mukta. the same ppl who bashed him now praising him 4 going back 2 mukta.
i"ll b v.happy if vishnu dumps mukta again 4 meethi.
no normal gal wud'd behaved like mukta behaved after meeShu mrg. i cud'd understood he r anger & not talking 2 meethi-vishnu or ignoring them but taunting her &then vishnu 4 his morals r symptoms of psychotic behaviour.
and mrg is not bad partah like tai pratha or CM. these r not morla & ethics . these r callled "ku-paratha"
