I would Love to Hear from Damini....DT note pg63 - Page 51

the pre-cap where damini says to meethi
"call akash ... and tell him that I have freed you
from all kasam (not to marry him)"
that is how all parent/grand-parent
would react after seeing his/her
child shot and would (s)he ever want
to send his/her child to such a murderous family???
but kya karein...
for meethi luv of a criminal is more precious than
the life of anni who brought her up in the
absence of her mother...

I hear what a lot of people are trying to say -- marriage has been really trivialized and has been reduced to a passing affair or maybe less in the way Akash-Meethi-Vishnu-Mukta case has been handled. Even divorce seems to be a playful act. But I would not single out any character- be it Rathore or Mukta or Akash, for this flaw which is universally integrated in the entire series---and encompasses all characters. I mean marriage/commitment has been reduced to nothing from the initial phase of Ichha-Veer-Tapasya-Rathore days...when people were donating partners and cheating in marriages, and leaving and marrying, divorcing, marrying someone else, divorcing, remarrying on pretext of something or the other. Even in the presumably noble acts, I mean the whole concept of Tapasya and Mukta competing to marry Tej Singh, and putting it out as an act of altruism towards Ichha...Ichha randomly and repeatedly donating her husband to appease other people-----Veer treating his second wife like trash(even when in his amnesia, he knew her as the only wife he had) ...people getting their daughter married avenge some stupid fight---Meethi marrying Vishnu to restrain Akash---Vishnu agreeing to it...there are countless instances in Uttaran when the sanctity of marriage has been compromised. So in general, I would simply not judge any character on how much he has respected marriage...because in Uttaran's culture its rather a normal thing to marry people for stupid reasons (and the reasons do not include being with that person for lifetime)----and then resurrecting the mistake.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

My opinion

Yup its right to refuse psycho goons in your life and not over hype 'pyaar' and its not weakness but wisdom and foresight . Plunging ahead is not bravery but foolhardiness .

there seems to be a reading by some
websites who are said to be saying
that damini is trying to reunite meethi-akash
quoting the pre-cap
but a careful observation of the pre-cap shows that
she is asking meethi to call akash not out of joy of uniting them
but it is clearly an expression of
distrust, disgust and helplessness of a
parent/granparent who wants to keep her child away from
a criminal family... it seems an expression that
she is not in the same page as of meethi
regarding her desire to going back to that criminal family

Originally posted by: lamboobabu

there seems to be a reading by some
websites who are said to be saying
that damini is trying to reunite meethi-akash
quoting the pre-cap
but a careful observation of the pre-cap shows that
she is asking meethi to call akash not out of joy of uniting them
but it is clearly an expression of
distrust, disgust and helplessness of a
parent/granparent who wants to keep her child away from
a criminal family... it seems an expression that
she is not in the same page as of meethi
regarding her desire to going back to that criminal family

i agree wid u.thatswhy meethi was thinking & hesistating.