Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
well does not appeal to my practical sense but if the girl was willing to rebel and run away with him it would be a story ...though i would want the girl's grandma even in this case to be against the marraige
kesar my point is ...his usool , stupid or otherwise r HIS . Why force him to change them and how long will this go on ? See he refused sasur's blessing [ that bungalow] without even wondering if Mukta had other opinions about it . The Bundelas too gifted Meethi with a same blessing ...rich elders often do . Even there he went with a sour face . Now since Uttaran is ending all will be well but this attitude would be a huge problem for Mukta who is an only child ...naturally her father will want to share his wealth with her . After all for what do parents earn ? And why should a third person , a guy who has just come yesterday , be the block between the daughter and her parental inheritance ? It is between the girl and her parents . I believe the self respect thing should never turn into ego that suppresses the wife ...but Mukta OPTED for him .
@red i get ur point n its quiet valid, i mean mukta vishnu looked compatible till the usool drama not now
n yup vishnu's usool r too rigid.
but its not compatibility of mukta-vishnu a big concern , as mukta will do anything which will make the people she loves happy , she can compromise .that's y i said she was sacrificing until she thought meeshu were happy , the moment she realized it was drama , she was ditched to hide the truth of drama , putting everyone 's happiness at stake she became rebel.
its incompatibility between rpr n vishnu is more concern , vishnu is not exactly damad material of rathore , rathore gives importance emotion n happiness , rules n regulation are judged from mind as well as heart n he tries to be fair.where as vishnu considers rules above human n feelings.I m sure if meethi was in mukta's place , he would not even need drama to break mrg , he would spoke to his daughter n tell baba u don't love Vishnu , he does not love u but meethi , n meethi loves him. Just to hide truth of fake mrg drama u r in this shaddi ? u make Vishnu realize n ask for divorce , as I can't see my daughter wid man who will leave her life in danger n run to save his ex , not truthful to vachan of marriage.
that's the reason even i can't connect wid vishnu,
blindly following tradition n rules of society does not make any one great oderwise sati pratha , child mrg should be respected n widow remarriage should not be allowed.
vishnuji is perfect bakra for 'pakhuravah shadi' as because of usool he will agree to stay in the marriage.
i m not die hard supporter of arrange marriage /love marriage
as i feel both are equally vulnerable and needs adjustment , gets successful when both partners accept each other whole heartily , and respect freedom of each other.
i find meeshu is more incompatible
see face of vishnu , every tym meethi asked him whether drama or .staying in bundela house
he literally forced himself to do thinking of upkar of iccha.
a girl /meethi was never ready to give chance moment she realized he loved mukta , she felt guilty all the tym , n used vishnu only to show off infront of akash,
they too did natak of hubby , n wife , just because they were not taunting like mukash , does not mean they r better than them.
infact i find them more disgusting
have u seen sarwastichandra ? kumud gets married in haste to pramad instead of her love saras,
n pramad was abusive husband , saras was staying in same house .
still kumud did sincere effort to move on unlike meethi , if she was just trying to remember sweet memories of akash in pain i can forgive her , but she day dreamed him , said i love u still ,
n vishnu was just waiting , even before signing he was eager to make mukta wear jhumkas , wenever mukta accidentally bumped him in attiagarh or landed in his arm while saving her in
road he never shivered. unlike saras who never even touched kumud wen she was wearing mangsutra of oder man.
.the post marriage how saras -kumud maintained her dignity by respecting her love as well as marriage was never maintained by meeshu.
yu p agree the mrg needs tym n space to work on , but meeshu never showed such signs , so many people who were in favor of marriage turn against it.
whether mukash did drama or not , whether muhalllat given or not , vishnu is adult n supposed to be mature man who can still say no to divorce.
he proved that he was doing just natak to protect meethi , when he was unable to save her from fire.
where meeshu has compatibility ?
damini was still in favor of mrg , for sake of damini meethi could have stick to mrg if only if vishnu was firm to stay in his mrg.
mukash did natak , its upto him to get influenced or not , ultimately he took decision to divorce in full sense wid out considering to work on mrg for few more months.
damini is not wrong to keep meethi away from akash due to his family , she is wrong to make her natin undergo forceful mrg wid man who does not love her , even before she has come out of trauma of first mrg . no sensible lady will do it , she behaved like vishnu is only man left , wid out giving meethi tym n space to move on , n finding more compatible loving partner who can help her move on.
meethi is not wrong in giving preference to anni over akash , but she wrong to listen to her every word wid out thinking logically on it.
she was not divorced , she knew vishnu does not love her ,still she planned fake marriage drama , she did not tell truth n was ready to marry vishnu widout asking him whether he is really happy to turn this natak true . by releasing vishnu from the bond is not her mahanta as shown in ut , is her praschit of her mistake .
mukta is not wrong in getting angry , taunting vishnu , he deserves it , but she is wrong to accept vishnu back in her life.
mukta is not correct always , but i like her as her reactions are always normal , which person sitting on oder side of tv can relate in various extent.
she was in denial mood , she loved vishnu selflessly , he came on his own to propose her , gave commitment of marriage to her , her father , n broke it i hours wid out courtesy to inform.
every girl will deny this imposed decision for few days , n guy is not saying that wat i felt for u was mistake or i never loved u , he is saying i still love u ,can never love my wife but i m in this mrg because i m married n nothing can undo it, instead of saying i really wan give chance to this mrg u move on , forget me.
her denial was stretched too much wid mukash drama ,. no normal girl will go this far to win back untrustworthy guy ,specially wen i relate to mukta , i would have slapped vishnu in mandap n myself told truth n never accepted him back. regarding flirting i have no problem , instead of fake natak i would appreciated if she had found new love n proudly flaunted him infront of vishnu wid out caring damn for him..
Edited by princessofkesar - 11 years ago
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