Originally posted by: krystal_watz
@Underlined: Will you please explain this to Tiny15? She seems to be stuck on, "No divorce until partner beats you/kicks you/sells you etc". I tried explaining the no-fault divorce angle, but she doesn't seem to comprehend. And she thinks its okay to be in a loveless marriage since marriage is only a "moral duty and NOTHING else" (according to her). 😆
dear i m not saying thateven if no1 beats u still u shud stuck. do read my posts properly. i said divorces happen wid mutual consent & i've no objection. i was saying that no court grants divorce wid in 15-20 days of mrg if above cases i.e abuse etc. r not there. they ask them 2 stay for 6 months to 1yr. 2gether 2 work on their mrg & if still they can't work on their mrg then they can file 4 divorce after this time period.
and i understood ur no-fault divorce angle.
and i m not saying 2 live in luv less mrg .i m saying that try 2 work on luvless mrg. our parents did it & even many ppl've done. and if u still feel after sum months that u can't work on then i m not saying that its only a moral duty & nibaho it in the name of mrg.
i think u r not understanding my POV & blaming that we live in 18th-19th century just bcoz we want that the way vishnu is coerced in2 it was wrong & was not given proper time & space.
and he was ready 2 move on & even started 2 move on. he was the 1st one who deleted mukta's pic from his laptop.and he was the one who said 2 meethi abt SR that 2 reach @ this stage we've 2 move on & work on this mrg.
here i've the same POV like kools that its only 15-20 days of mrg but they were not given proper time & space.
Rest I'm okay with your posts as they're the only sensible ones here from this viewpoint.
so plz clear ur MU that i m against mutual divorce wid no-fault angle.
i've objection in meeshu case only as here mrg cud b worked on but they were not given proper time & space & their exes came over hovering them.and yes 4 me mrg is not a ritual but its not just moral duty but a sacred institution also but if u can't work on ur mrg even after many months u don't've 2 liv e in luvless mrg just 4 the sake of nibaho it as moral duty or sacredness.
i'd only objection the way they showed breaking of the mrg which cud b worked out. i m saying the same thing like kools but perhaps my words or i can't make u understand abt it like kools can do. as i m not v.much gud in expressing myself in writing. if sum1 face 2 face talk wid me i cna make him/her understand but in writing i m poor.
so sorry if u cudn't understand my POV which r same like kools.oderwise do u think i'd pressed like buttons on her all posts??
and waise bhi i saw Ajay & SD's interview where Ajay was saying that hes midddle class man in the show & the way mukta is demanding how"ll he handle her.
and one more thing here if u see cktwise then mukta & vishnu r imcompatible.
in mrgs more than luv its compatibility which makes them work. oderwise i'd seen 90% luv mrgs failed wid in one yr. even tho they r so much in luv but they can't stay 2gether.
and my sis had luv cum arranged mrg & shes mrd for almost 4yrs. now but she also says that luv is only 4 few months's Khumar rest we both adjust & compatible wid each oder so our mrg is still working oderwise it wudn't'd worked even 4 4-5 months.
so plz don't think thta 4 my mrg is only a moral duty & u've 2 stay in it.
i wudn't'd replied u as kools'd said all wat i feel & wanted 2 say. but here u particularly asked me 2 tell this. so i cleared that also.
hope atleast mow u cud understand my POV.😊
rest on sum oder issues i can only say lets agree 2 disagree.
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