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no offence bt i dont agree..every person in the world has a choice to decide their way of life..if jogi and divya lied to her also,she neednt have been outright evil..i agree they had absolutely no idea how their daughter ws leading her life,and tht it was partly their mistake to not enforce sum sort of discipline on her,bt her mentality,her psyche were her own choices..she CHOSE to believe nani and not icha all the time..she CHOSE to manipulate the family and ruin her own life..one cant blame her family for it entirely..lemme give you an example..a child whose parents do not have a very easy married life,he sees fights almost daily..he can either turn it constructive and make a decision to make his own marriage in the future a success or can follow the same cycle,turn insecure and needy and repeat the trend..it depends on the person how to judge the situation..and children learn this daily..at school,at home..they are very smart people..

Originally posted by: anu rulz

no offence bt i dont agree..every person in the world has a choice to decide their way of life..if jogi and divya lied to her also,she neednt have been outright evil..i agree they had absolutely no idea how their daughter ws leading her life,and tht it was partly their mistake to not enforce sum sort of discipline on her,bt her mentality,her psyche were her own choices..she CHOSE to believe nani and not icha all the time..she CHOSE to manipulate the family and ruin her own life..one cant blame her family for it entirely..lemme give you an example..a child whose parents do not have a very easy married life,he sees fights almost daily..he can either turn it constructive and make a decision to make his own marriage in the future a success or can follow the same cycle,turn insecure and needy and repeat the trend..it depends on the person how to judge the situation..and children learn this daily..at school,at home..they are very smart people..

vansh ruins only his life by taking drugs

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

No I dont agree at all. Im sure we've all heard that children are the parchaai of their parents. Well quite clearly Jogi and Divya didnt pay much attention to Tapasya. It was Icha always for them to relieve their guilt and in the meantime Nani saw this as a perfect opportunity to manipulate Tapasya into her own an use her. Since Jogi Divya never paid attention, Tapasya started listening to Nani more and more, got totally brainwashed against Icha and therefore didnt care for her and thought that everything that was her own, Icha got it. I can totally understand her situation. So Tapasya grew p, her parents never cared to discover her and she became spoilt. And Nani doesnt even care about her and is only using her for her own reasons. So this is why I feel extremely sorry for Tapasya. CHildren are a map of ther parents. When the parents were absent from tapasya's life then nani came in and she saw nani as her own cos nani pretnded to love her. Same with vansh isnt it? He got poisioned by tej at a young age because ej pretended to love him. So I dont get the persecution Tapasya is getting. In my view she is unfortunate and deserves happiness and in Icha's case well I dont feel any remorse for her whatsoever! Shes a very lucky girl!

dat s not entirely true

tapasya always got better dan ichha

nice dresses , car , happy wid her parents and ichha if jogi really cared her dan his daughter den

ichha should also have car , dresses ,and all of tapasya like he used to do in their childhood ,tapasya always eat at d table and ichha in her room not once did jogi asked ichha to sit at d table

always ichha serves nd they just eat not once it was mentioned to have her equal rights they called her beti but made ichha as a servant 4 tapu

as 4 d education we dont know wat ichha read but wen ichha is younger dan tapu ,tapu goes to collge when veer came to see her but ichha education was not mentioned

eise lagtha hai ki ek haath se dete hai to dusuri haat se jayda lete hai

Originally posted by: shaina.sharma

dat s not entirely true

tapasya always got better dan ichha

nice dresses , car , happy wid her parents and ichha if jogi really cared her dan his daughter den

ichha should also have car , dresses ,and all of tapasya like he used to do in their childhood ,tapasya always eat at d table and ichha in her room not once did jogi asked ichha to sit at d table

always ichha serves nd they just eat not once it was mentioned to have her equal rights they called her beti but made ichha as a servant 4 tapu

as 4 d education we dont know wat ichha read but wen ichha is younger dan tapu ,tapu goes to collge when veer came to see her but ichha education was not mentioned

eise lagtha hai ki ek haath se dete hai to dusuri haat se jayda lete hai

Originally posted by: shaina.sharma

dat s not entirely true

tapasya always got better dan ichha

nice dresses , car , happy wid her parents and ichha if jogi really cared her dan his daughter den

ichha should also have car , dresses ,and all of tapasya like he used to do in their childhood ,tapasya always eat at d table and ichha in her room not once did jogi asked ichha to sit at d table

always ichha serves nd they just eat not once it was mentioned to have her equal rights they called her beti but made ichha as a servant 4 tapu

as 4 d education we dont know wat ichha read but wen ichha is younger dan tapu ,tapu goes to collge when veer came to see her but ichha education was not mentioned

eise lagtha hai ki ek haath se dete hai to dusuri haat se jayda lete hai

@SRKLuvr

Looks like we are the only 2 tappu supporters on this forum 😊 .. we talk about the characters in a broad perspective and others talk about episodes or scenes that the creatives write acc. to their convenience.. for example the wedding fiasco and tappu stealing veer.. it was high drama.. but just to understand the character .. that was the amount of hatred tappu has for Ichha.. she ruined her nice love life for the wedding.. it was not richness and greed like the writers are trying to show.. tappu wants to just take away anything good that happens to Ichha.. and Jogi/Divya alone are to blame.. they have not treated tappu's emotions with care.. when my sister had a second baby the doctor said take care of him but take more care of the elder one as u r bring a major upheaval in his life.. kids by nature are very egoistic not in a bad way but they think the world revolves around them and it needs a lot of care to help them understand sharing.. people who adopt second kids also many times have to go thru counselling.. jogi/divya did a downright bad job by sending tappu to hostel and bullying her.. It wud be a lot different if she knew why Jogi is taking care of Ichha.. I know its just a show but its not right to hate tappu as a person just becoz the creatives are portraying her as a negative character.. she is infact a very lonely misguided person who is ruining her life desperately trying to compete with Ichha for her own parent's attention. Naani and Pushkar ungratefully aur Ichha and Damini gratefully Tappu ki haveli mein dera daalke baithe hai.. na pushkar na Ichha kuch kaam dhanda karte hai.. chaaron jogi means indirectly tappu ki family aur property pe janam bhar ke dependants hai.. unmein se naani tappu ko apni lagti hai aur Ichha paraayi.. Jogi messed up Ichha's life then Tappu's fir bhi sabse mahaan character bane baithe hai.😊