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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Evita.

please kill tapasya (or Please i beg Veer/Vansh/Tej/anybody! to murder her)



i agree with u totally man
i dont like her at all
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gullicricket

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Looks like we are the only 2 tappu supporters on this forum 😊 .. we talk about the characters in a broad perspective and others talk about episodes or scenes that the creatives write acc. to their convenience.. for example the wedding fiasco and tappu stealing veer.. it was high drama.. but just to understand the character .. that was the amount of hatred tappu has for Ichha.. she ruined her nice love life for the wedding.. it was not richness and greed like the writers are trying to show.. tappu wants to just take away anything good that happens to Ichha.. and Jogi/Divya alone are to blame.. they have not treated tappu's emotions with care.. when my sister had a second baby the doctor said take care of him but take more care of the elder one as u r bring a major upheaval in his life.. kids by nature are very egoistic not in a bad way but they think the world revolves around them and it needs a lot of care to help them understand sharing.. people who adopt second kids also many times have to go thru counselling.. jogi/divya did a downright bad job by sending tappu to hostel and bullying her.. It wud be a lot different if she knew why Jogi is taking care of Ichha.. I know its just a show but its not right to hate tappu as a person just becoz the creatives are portraying her as a negative character.. she is infact a very lonely misguided person who is ruining her life desperately trying to compete with Ichha for her own parent's attention. Naani and Pushkar ungratefully aur Ichha and Damini gratefully Tappu ki haveli mein dera daalke baithe hai.. na pushkar na Ichha kuch kaam dhanda karte hai.. chaaron jogi means indirectly tappu ki family aur property pe janam bhar ke dependants hai.. unmein se naani tappu ko apni lagti hai aur Ichha paraayi.. Jogi messed up Ichha's life then Tappu's fir bhi sabse mahaan character bane baithe hai.😊


Hmm... i agree with some of ur points here .. lyk jogi and divya's weird parenting ... they never saw the signs early on ... all she needed was probably some counselling sessions .... when tappu needed assurance that her parents loved her the most in the world .. they send her away to a boarding school while ichha stays at their place... After a point it was just too late... those are the impressionable years ... personality traits formed then stay on with you for the rest of your life...
However i just cant defend tapasya for her actions after the leap ... she has become this obsessed demented person who needs serious psychiatric help... call it exaggeration or whatever but she is way past the stage where simple couselling will help...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gullicricket

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Looks like we are the only 2 tappu supporters on this forum 😊 .. we talk about the characters in a broad perspective and others talk about episodes or scenes that the creatives write acc. to their convenience.. for example the wedding fiasco and tappu stealing veer.. it was high drama.. but just to understand the character .. that was the amount of hatred tappu has for Ichha.. she ruined her nice love life for the wedding.. it was not richness and greed like the writers are trying to show.. tappu wants to just take away anything good that happens to Ichha.. and Jogi/Divya alone are to blame.. they have not treated tappu's emotions with care.. when my sister had a second baby the doctor said take care of him but take more care of the elder one as u r bring a major upheaval in his life.. kids by nature are very egoistic not in a bad way but they think the world revolves around them and it needs a lot of care to help them understand sharing.. people who adopt second kids also many times have to go thru counselling.. jogi/divya did a downright bad job by sending tappu to hostel and bullying her.. It wud be a lot different if she knew why Jogi is taking care of Ichha.. I know its just a show but its not right to hate tappu as a person just becoz the creatives are portraying her as a negative character.. she is infact a very lonely misguided person who is ruining her life desperately trying to compete with Ichha for her own parent's attention. Naani and Pushkar ungratefully aur Ichha and Damini gratefully Tappu ki haveli mein dera daalke baithe hai.. na pushkar na Ichha kuch kaam dhanda karte hai.. chaaron jogi means indirectly tappu ki family aur property pe janam bhar ke dependants hai.. unmein se naani tappu ko apni lagti hai aur Ichha paraayi.. Jogi messed up Ichha's life then Tappu's fir bhi sabse mahaan character bane baithe hai.😊



I so do appreciate ur support! Precisely what I am trying to say to everyone! We do not support Tapasya's action of turning psycho and forcing the marriage however we understand her circumstances! Feelings of infeiority and jealousy are human and natural an the thing is that Tapasya never knew the reason why suddenly this new girl came n and took her place in her house, also the right to her stuff and her parents love got shared. For a small child to bear thts alot. Worse, as she was growing up her nani was poisoning her mind every day every month every year so she got spoilt also, developed an ego and no one stopped her from an early age! If her parents helped her from a young age, told the truth, paid attention then none of this wud have happened! Icha even covered up all her stuff! Nani taught her secrecy and lies! She taught her hatred for Icha! So when Veer came along she cudnt see the fact that again Icha got something tht came for her and I do not know where she started believing she loved Veer but she does seem to think that she does! She thinks that since yung everyone loved icha and never her and I believe thats what prompted her suicide attempt. I dont believe she was acting. Nothing is propelling her except natural human emotions that were not stopped and controlled. They were exacerbated! u guys hate her for what she did. We dont like wat she did but we understand her. U guys r seriously saying her punisment shud be death??? what has she done tht u want her DEAD??? so she forced her marriage with Veer. Icha was the idiot there. Just again let her! did icha understand what tapasya felt ever? Tapasya is wat she has been made by nani, her parents and the fact that icha came.

I realy do not understand those people that want her to DIE! god, thts reserve for really bad ppl! tapasya is not soooo bad tht she deserves death!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sallu_lover



i agree with u totally man
i dont like her at all



man u guys r so extreme!😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lunza


Hmm... i agree with some of ur points here .. lyk jogi and divya's weird parenting ... they never saw the signs early on ... all she needed was probably some counselling sessions .... when tappu needed assurance that her parents loved her the most in the world .. they send her away to a boarding school while ichha stays at their place... After a point it was just too late... those are the impressionable years ... personality traits formed then stay on with you for the rest of your life...
However i just cant defend tapasya for her actions after the leap ... she has become this obsessed demented person who needs serious psychiatric help... call it exaggeration or whatever but she is way past the stage where simple couselling will help...



We dont support her marriage forcing actions. We like humans want her to overcome her emotional complex and we understand her emotions and feelings! shes bee made this way by a combination of icha, bad parenting, jogi's lie and NANI!

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