advice to writers from a (somewhat) neutral viewer - Page 10

Originally posted by: Euphoria_V

That's what I wonder😆on top of that she's addressing others as rabid-fans. In reality we don't even care about this show😆.

Originally posted by: Euphoria_V

All your replies are same just like *This is that- That is this*. People are just discussing about the Jasmine's character in the show they are not bashing the actress. So stop calling them rabid-fans when you yourself are rabid-fan who can get the incessant bashing of tejo in every other post.

@bold tweet your wonderful suggestion to makers. Maybe soon you can witness your favourite jasmine in fateh's arms after leap.

But why wait for leap "divorce" exists fateh should set tejo free from this sham of a marriage or tejo can do the honours then jasfa can get married or whatever

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

No real marriages are not platonic. But is this a real marriage?The only thing tying Tejo and Fateh is a piece of paper. Worthless paper, if we assess Fateh's actions lately. Now, of course, that paper is a big, huge deal and for me, in my personal life, that paper means everything. I don't want to give the impression otherwise. However, it seems to mean different things depending on the emotions involved. It is supposed to give the wife's sole access to her husband sexual fidelity. So far, Fateh hasn't had sexual relations with anyone other than his wife,so at least this one promise he has kept.

There is a saying: not because you could you should. It's not exactly breaking news that Fateh, a man, would be sexually attracted and have relations with his wife, an attractive, willing woman. Duh.However, what Tejo will soon realize (as the audience does) is she was used. Doing the deed with her husband did not change his love for her sister. That is a terrible position to be in. Tejo put herself there.Sure, you state, Fateh initiated; ok. But she did say yes--without a thought to her sister; you know, the one whom she knows loves Fateh. She had not one moment of guilt or even thought of Jasmine. That speaks to her character or lack there of.

So, marriage is not platonic but usually the husband isn't in love with the wife's sister. Context matters.

😆 The thing tying Phulandevi and Fatte is definitely worthless but not withering piece of paper ☺️ I get the impression that you are not watching the drama 😆 you do have the information but not enough for a "serious" discussion pertaining to the drama, or you are simply trying to overlook Chamko's dubious behavior, haeiin?😳 You want Phulandevi to think about her sister who proposed to Gippy and Phulandevi was returning from her wedding preparations when 😆 her Husband initiated sex, which sister is in love with Fatte? Why would she think her sister is in love with Fatte when she proposed to Gippy and is getting married? Why do you have problem with her sleeping with her legally wedded husband? 🤣 Did you watch yesterday's episode? 😳

Originally posted by: Euphoria_V

As I said in EDT 😆 he gets bumper offers.

And not to forget in Fateh's own words " tejo is sucha moti" the man will be happiest who'll marry her...

No need to say more how Tejo is as wife..

She kept him sane ... helped him in every way...

Stopped him from spoiling his life...

Even if we leave all the things..good, bad whatever.

She is his wife nd god damn no woman deserve this.

Being cheated by her own husband nd sister.

Nothing can be more shameful nd inhuman than this...

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

But why wait for leap "divorce" exists fateh should set tejo free from this sham of a marriage or tejo can do the honours then jasfa can get married or whatever

Don't know she is saying that fateh being with tejo for 20 years is punishment which he should go through before marrying Chameli.

Originally posted by: lovereading14

Everything. Being married into a rich and powerful family does not secure happiness.

You clearly have distinct views, which most of us don't resonate with. We have had someone else with distinct views but they were nothing but respectful and open to a discussion. If you want go have a look at that thread. The problem is not your opinions but the way you express them The tone in your posts, and your choice of words are disrespectful.

This is my last post to you. There is nothing beyond this, like i said if you truly want a discussion improve your attitude. Such behaviour is infuriating.

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

And not to forget in Fateh's own words " tejo is sucha moti" the man will be happiest who'll marry her...

No need to say more how Tejo is as wife..

She kept him sane ... helped him in every way...

Stopped him from spoiling his life...

Even if we leave all the things..good, bad whatever.

She is his wife nd god damn no woman deserve this.

Being cheated by her own husband nd sister.

Nothing can be more shameful nd inhuman than this...

Him being with tejo is *Naseeb* good fate. Where as him being with jasmine is his luck stuck in the hands of shanidev.😆

Originally posted by: Euphoria_V

Don't know she is saying that fateh being with tejo for 20 years is punishment which he should go through before marrying Chameli.

I think its curse for Tejo in disguise..

Living with this cheater for 20 yrs is worse than spending life in hell ...lol

Originally posted by: lovereading14

Here comes a second one 😆

Anyways. Coming to the point, let me go character wise.

First of congratulations on being right 👏.Characterless according to me is not the right term to describe Fateh. Spineless? Sure. There is clearly a lack of depth and substance to his character. I can blame him for a lot, but saying yes to marry Tejo is not one of them. The man had his 'hearbroken' and was emotionally weak. He was coerced, emotionally blackmailed and manipulated into this marriage. I can't blame him for that. Fateh is human and flawed, he is allowed to get emotionally weak. Now when it comes to consummating his marriage, I think a. it was rushed and b. it was desperate attempt to forget Jasmine which clearly did not work. Cheating is wrong, having an affair is wrong and I do blame Fateh for that. His actions have shown us exactly how shallow and in your words spineless he is. So on that we agree.

Now Tejo. Before we decide if she is a victim or not, it is important to acknowledge and understand her as a character. First off she doesn't know jasmine is obsessed with Fateh. The woman left him at the altar because of a damn visa. That is not called love. Tejo as a person is very loving and selfless, it is a part of her. Though her sacrificing and devi type characteristics are annoying, it is what make her Tejo. She would never even think that her younger sister, that she loves so much would do anything to harm her or hurt her. Therefore, Tejo cannot be blamed for having s** with her husband. Jasmine in her eyes has moved on with Gippy, and Fateh too depicts that he has moved on... so what fault of hers? As to her being a victim I do believe she is one. She is being deceived and used and I do feel sorry for her. I wish she was sharper, I wish she could see through the lies but when I sat back and thought about it... It is in fact very hard in her position to see this deception. Simply because it is so wild, so cunning. The poor woman would never think that two people she loves so much would do that to her. You blame her because she slept with the man her sister loves. But Jasmine doesn't love him, she is obsessed with him and Tejo doesn't know that. Had Jasmine even once on teh wedding day had said to Tejo not to marry Fateh, Tejo wouldn't have. That is how much she loves her sister. Tejo never loved Fateh, Tejo always tried to bring fateh and Jasmine together.

Jasmine and Fateh cannot be redeemed. Rightly said, I have to agree with you on that one.

Purple: Anyone with brains will be able to understand that Jasfa is toxic. Jasmine is psychotic and Fateh...well he is just a pendulum.

PS: If you expect respectful answers please be respectful with your opinions as well!

I think calling poster brainless would qualify nowhere as been respectful. I believe that I showed that I have a brain and am using it when I laid out my reasoned arguments for my advice to the writers. I did it without name calling. The phrase "anyone with eyes" is very common where I come from and it means it is obvious. Perhaps I should have said anyone with reading comprehension would understand the tongue-in-cheek way I used the term.

In reference to Tejo. we will agree to disagree. I have laid out all of the reasons I find the character to be sneaky and characterless. Character is defined by doing the right thing even when it is inconvenient. It is characterless to have $ex with a man, whom you know your sister loves. Yes, they are married and yes, he initiated. But she didn't have one thought to her sister. That is cold and diabolical. In fact, it's psycho. I think deep down Tejo must resent Jasmine for various reasons that don't need to be delved into here; their relationship does seem to be one of dysfunction. Tejo is supposed to be some great Psychology professor yet she doesn't know about breakups and love. Yeah ok. The truth is she was probably resentful of Jasmine and was already in love or had feelings for Fateh. It was a win-win for her. But she should have known better. She saw how obsessed Fateh was; her Psychologist light bulb didn't go off? She didn't think of, I don't know, REBOUND.

She saw what she wanted to see and conveniently chose to not see what is right in front of her. As I stated, I do not think EMA is cool. However, I have zero sympathy for Tejo and I think she is getting exactly what she deserves. By the way, she is the only one who gained something in this bargain: she was left at the altar; now, she is married to a rich man from a wealthy family. So now, there will be no tears shed for Tejo and in fact, I might snicker a title.

Originally posted by: Euphoria_V

Don't know she is saying that fateh being with tejo for 20 years is punishment which he should go through before marrying Chameli.

Fateh deserves to punished but tejo ko kis baat ki punishment nahi nahi baksh do usko bechari ko pehle hi kaafi punishment mil chuki haa pehle jas ab fattu aur chammo toh free package aati haa upar se sandhus and virks