#TheFeminist v/s #R&BFanGirl - An Eternal Battle - Page 3

Loved every single word of it!!

But. Most of all, the last para of the last update... 

I loved it,but it feels so prophetic. In an extremely ominous way.

Few other instances that I loved were:

 Mihir-R&B-II interaction. So cute.

Vandu-Sam interaction about II's reaction to R&B.

R&B-II question-answer session... The line about having a kid within a year...SO HOT. 

"Does she sing?" was the cherry on top!

In short almost all the recent R&B-II interactions have been breath-taking. 

Just gets my pulse and breath all fast-paced.

Nisha...

Yedukkunu teriyela, aana... Yenakku II-kagu bhayama irukku. 🤔
(Dunno why, but... I'm scared for II)

R&B is BRILLIANT. 👏
Family ke saame palak tak nahi jhapkaya. 
Sabke nikalne ke baad khud hi nikal pada uss ke peeche. 

II ki toh lagne waali hai. 
Maybe she's finally gotten past his endurance threshold, eh?
Only your next update will tell, no? 😕

I loved Vandu today. 
And Bally, for his maal Monday ko lautaunga waala comment.

Yeh waala update I was reading while slurping on an icecream (::nom nom nom::)
AND.
I've gotta say. R&B is yummier than icecream. 
(And is causing the feminist in me to go batsh*t crazy. But then the R&B-fangirl makes the feminist shut up.)

Agla update toh DHAMAKEDAAR hoga. 
And. Yes. You were right, when you said I'd enjoy all the evil plotting happening all around. 
😈 

She's Amma's and Akka's pattu kutti, Appa's chella kozhandai, Ranjan's pyaari bahu...
Aana, aval ellarukkume kozhandai thaan. (But, she's a child to everyone) 
In short, she's babied by everyone except Shravu, Nandu and Lasya. 🤣

Konjifying (sweet-talking?) and kenjifying (begging) will definitely be largely between II-R&B.
R&B-ku mattum thaan konjum special privileges (😉) kedachirukku, konjradukku. Avan kenjave maatan. Yaar kenja poraalnu namaku teriyum.🤣
(Only R&B has got a few special privileges for konjifying. He's definitely not going to be begging. We know who's going to be begging.)

And. Then. It ate away such a long review. 😭

EVIL I-F. 😡
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Edited.
A lot of what I had typed out will be missing. But still. I will type as much as I remember. 

Nisha,

Such an amazing update!

SO AWESOME (#StruckSpeechless #SoMuchAwesome)

 

 

The fireworks have just about begun.

And it's going to get wilder and crazier as it goes along, no?

I am so totally enjoying this. 
😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

 

Is there any way that we will get one more update tonight? 

Or am I being too, too greedy? 🤔

It's actually beautiful. 
You do this time and time again. 
Especially when it's a pure II-R&B interaction.
Ivlavu emotion, ivlavu kammi words-ile. (So much emotion, in so few words.)

I fell a lot more in love with R&B today.
He's angry, pissed as f**k I'm sure.
Yet. He reigned almost all of it in.
He knew she needed molly-coddling, with a firm hand.
The kind when you're sick and super-cranky, and Amma scolds you into bed and shuts you down when you suggest doing stupid things?
And that's what he gives her.


Things I absolutely loved:
1. R&B persuading II to leave the bed and Bally's Saala's Sasuraal (🤣) by switching on the fan, and harassing her. 
(Feminist: What a mean A$$. 👎🏼
Fangirl: Whattay persuasive hottie!)
2. R&B watching II braid her hair (Dunno why. There's something really cute and erotic in that.) ☺️
3. R&B and II and the JCrew hoodie. (#NuffSaid) 😳
4. II claiming rights on the bed. 👏 Which isn't even hers. 🤣
5. II finally letting out her insecurities in that rant. 🥺 "I don't need YOU OR MY FAMILY."#AlmostInTears
6. II succumbing to R&B's care and orders. (#SuicidalFeminist #DancingFangirl)
7. R&B partly understanding II's insecurities. (#MixedFeelings)


Yenna aanalum. R&B ida vidaa maatan. (Whatever happens. R&B is not going to let this go.)
Ippo almost silent-a handle panraan. (He's handling it almost silently now.)
Aana, avanoda explosion vande aaganme? (But, his explosion has to come, no?)

I'm still waiting for THE DHAMAKA. 🥳

#MixedFeelings on 7, because. 
It's not just II being jealous of Shravu/Vandu/Family.

As I see it... 
Her insecurity lies in the fact that R&B doesn't seem to need her as much as she needs him. 
And with how Appa is behaving... She feels that nobody needs/wants her anymore. 
And that's what's eating at her. 
And, that is what R&B will have to address eventually. Even if not now.

And that's why I want #TheDhamaka.
With these two, they communicate (& miscommunicate also) the most during fights. 
That's probably what will settle II's insecurities. And, maybe (just maybe), show her that R&B has insecurities where she is concerned too.

RES.
It seems like this day is kind of going my way.
 🥳
The honour of being first to comment, thrice in a row?
::Mad-Fangirl-Dance::
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EDITED:

This weekend has been a treat beyond my imagination.
(Well. I did imagine everything you wrote, but the fact that you wrote so much was beyond my imagination.)

I don't think we appreciate the fact that you juggle a day-job, a family, kids and writing so much, enough. 
You're spectacular. 
I totally need #TimeManangementLessons from you!
And to top it off... each update seems to outdo it's predecessor. 👏

II and R&B interact. 
Both angry. 
But still no #TheDhamaka.
I still think it will eventually happen (hopefully sooner rather than later).


What I loved, this time around? 
(Feminist v/s Fangirl - An Eternal Battle)
1. The opening line. #WhatAStart 👏 
"When two angry sleep lovers get together, ermmm... they just sleep." 🤣
2. I also love that despite the threat of being beaten up, our man continued to sleep with his lady love ensconced safely in his arms.  😉
(Feminist: Hello? Who says she's safe with you around? #Appa'sAdvocate
Fan-girl: Such a manly man. #R&B'sChamchi)
3. The very fact that he held her and she held him through the night and in their sleep. 
(Fangirl: Ayyooo! Can I please be II? #OhSoCute 
Feminist: Kill me now. Please. #NauseatingCuteness 🤢)
4. R&B's internal monologue about II-the-explosive-cauldron. #He'sHumanToo #FinallyASign 
5. The empty ring finger. Goes back to II's dialogue (Closing lines of Marigold & Marriott). 
(Feminist:  🥳 #HellYeah
Fangirl: What is she doing? Why she do this to poor R&B? 😭  #YehDinDekhnaPada)
6. R&B and II talking about lies. Brilliant way to bring out a lot of II's insecurities. 👏
(Also, sidenote: II has become a liar. R&B sticks to half-truths at worst. DAMN.)
7. R&B's constant state of arousal. Especially whenever II is around.
(Feminist: Good. He's gotta learn to keep it in his pants. #ServesHimRight
Fan-girl: Ayyo paavam! He's NEVER had to wait this long for a woman. #PoorBaby)
8. R&B's annoyance when Appa's advice is referred to. 🤣 (The man is winning even without much plotting!)
9. How can I leave out II asking for chocolate? #Chocoholism
10. R&B playing the #AmmaRole again and making II see the doctor. 👏 
(Feminist: Although checking the poor doctor's credentials via Google might have been a touch too over-protective. 
Fangirl: But such is the love of the man towards II. Appreciate that.)

Overall, this update was such a treat to the fangirl in me.
R&B taking care of II, in such a take-charge way... And ensuring ALL the bases were covered (No puns intended. Here, for now.). 
Such a great guy. 
If only he could show her this side when she would actually register it (Read as: when her brain isn't addled by illness and medication).

I want to know whatever happened to the Cartier? 😲
And when will we get #TheDhamaka?
I'm so, so, so ready for it. Craving it. 😈 

P.S.: Title Credits to the BRILLIANT Nisha. #NoSurprisesThere

Feminist v/s Fangirl - An Eternal Battle On Deal and Athai's Beau.

I'm still wondering how you manage to outdo yourself, and all our crazy expectations (Ummm... you know all about those, right?) time and time again.
How do you manage that? 
(Feminist: She's a woman. And she's AWESOME.
Fangirl: She's given me R&B. And keeps giving me more. She's AMAZING.
Feminist: Do we actually agree on something?! 😲)

Have to talk about these:
1. II waking up worried that R&B had left.
(Feminist: What is wrong with you?! You're supposed to be a strong-willed, independent woman!#HopelessCase
Fangirl: Awww! R&B would never abandon you like that. #SuchACutie)
2. II's embarrassment after finding R&B lounging on the couch. 
(Feminist: Yenn di? Yedukku embarrassed? Unnoda fiance. Avan mattun thaan unn pinnadi engeyum vara mudiyuma? [Why di? Why embarassed? Your fiance. Only he can come behind you anywhere as he pleases?] #YouCanDoAsYouPlease 
Fangirl: Pfft! Why would you run away when you find him? Go jump on him, take a bite or two. Run away? #HopelessCase)
3. R&B's immediate concern is II's health.
(Fangirl: Ayyo! Ayyoo! Such a sweetheart he is. And you are insecure about him, II? #Swoon
Feminist: Umm. Excuse me?! She's perfectly capable of taking care of herself. She's been alive for 27 years already, you know? #Humph)
4. R&B-II conversation about his ring. 🤣
(Feminist: Pfft! Why are you justifying yourself? Thought you said you had no fiance!! 👎🏼
Fangirl: Yenn di. Unaku vera yedum sensible-a excuse kedakalaya? [Why di? You didn't have any sensible excuse?] 🤣)
5. R&B putting the ring back on II.
(Fangirl: ::swoons in an attempt to fall into R&B's arms::
Feminist: ::shakes head ruefully:: Where the hell am I stuck?!)
6. "I want u to text me every morning when u get to work and evening when u return home?"
(Feminist: Yenn da? Ivalavu kozhuppa onakku? Nee Paris pove ival kitta sollame, aval Jaipur kooda poga mudiyatha? [Why you? So arrogant you are? You can go to Paris without informing her, and she can't even go to Jaipur?] Who do you think you are to control her? Even Appa has never made such ludicrous demands. 😡
Fangirl: Shaddup, Feminist. He's just being a sensible, protective fiance. Can I please, please get a clone of his? )
7. The conversation that followed the above. HILARIOUS. (Fangirl & Feminist are too busy laughing to argue.) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
8. "You thought I left didn't you?" 
(Fangirl: He noticed. He realised. Such an amazing man. ::overflowing tears of joy::
Feminist: Actually, I was hoping you'd actually left. Besides, you've not even managed to assure your fiancee of her permanence in your life. Such an idiotic man. ::exasperated eye-roll::
Me: ::praying for #TheDhamaka:: )
9. R&B picking II up to take her to bed. And the snuggling and sweet-talking that ensues. 
(Feminist: ::snorts::
Fangirl: ::staring off dreamily into space:: )
10. II's jealousy when it comes to Shravu. #NotShravu'sFaveAnymore #SoAdorable 
11. II-Akka conversation, especially "Us se zyaada handsome aur mere jitna bolta hai". And, it's almost true! He's been talking a lot more, and is definitely more handsome after her finger-kangi.#AlmostNotALiarAnymore 🤣
(Fangirl: More handsome than R&B?! Pfft. Find such a man first. 😈
Feminist: No comments.😳 )
12. "Athaiya kalyanam panniko" 🤣
(Fangirl: You wouldn't stand for it. You're all talk. 
Feminist: Way to go girl! Though. I hope you actually mean it! 👍🏼)

This time around there was enough fodder for the Feminist also. 😆

Feminist: II had the last word this time around (Wait. She almost always does. Along with the first, middle and a lot of the other words. Damn.).
Fangirl: I'm waiting for the day when R&B has the last word. (I'm sure it'll come. Someday.)

Me: Shut up, both of you! You've had your say. Now let me speak. Bugger off. NOW!
(Feminist & Fangirl sulk in the corner)
I really think they should address the insecurities that II has.
Her ability to beat around the bush and never acknowledge them straight out.
That's going to be one of the largest roadblocks in their relationship.
Apart from R&B's stoic silence.
::dramatic sigh::
Will I ever get #TheDhamaka? 🥺


EDIT:
Just realised I spent almost 45 mins writing a review. And. It's almost as long as an update. 😲