#TheFeminist v/s #R&BFanGirl - An Eternal Battle
It started off as a series of reviews of Nisha's Software Symphony (index here)... then it ended up taking a life of it's own, with #TheFeminist and #R&BFanGirl coming to life.Being a feminist doesn't mean I can't fangirl over a hot guy. (This can totally be a whole philosophical discussion about what feminism means to me 😆)
I've always needed to have my words and thoughts fully organised and categorized into neat little boxes (in my head).
And, when I started reading and getting heavily involved in the Software Symphonies world, it took a lot out of me that I wasn't able to neatly classify and categorize my thoughts, emotions and responses to SoSy. A lot of my earlier reviews were so jumbled and all-over-the-place that I disliked them myself.
Then, while doing the transcriptions of a few user interviews (during my final semester of college), it struck me that I could use a similar format for my reviews (where I tag the origin of each set of thoughts with a unique tag).
Then, Nisha gave it a name...
And, "Feminist v/s FanGirl - An Eternal Battle" was born.
Below are almost all the reviews I've written since getting involved with the #SoSyVerse.
Nisha once wrote this to me, in response to one of my super long reviews (double review of Savvy & Last night of freedom)
"ARYA
ALL I can say is the WHOLE WORLD WANTS YOU
Only ME AND MY GURLS HAVE YOU
Outstanding review
People dont review THE SHOW SO SPLENDIDLY
I get my fiction reviewed like this?
What an absolute honor
U shud take this review on the road FOR KEEPS
YEARS from now when u are editor of some fancy magazine like Anna Wintour you can tell them it all started RIGHT HERE
FABULOSO"
This is my version of taking the reviews on the road. For keeps.
I don't know if I've lived up to Nisha's expectations (I've barely been around 😭)... But I do know that I have grown in the last one year. With Software Symphonies. With II, R&B and their insane families.
I'm probably never going to be a fancy editor, or reviewer... But, I'm gonna be doing this out here for as long as I can.
Thank you, Nisha.
For Software Symphonies, the story that has become an alternate reality for me.
For II, in whom I've seen me every single day, the woman I've cried and laughed with.
For every single crazy fun friend I've made here.
(Especially for Ashu, who's moved out of the boundaries of virtual friendship. )
And, more than everything.
Thank you... For R&B. The man who gets a reaction out of me that no mere mortal man can evoke, the man who makes me appreciate possessiveness.
Edited by Arya1991 - 8 years ago