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I was reading this article about 50 shades its called 'A Letter To My Children About Fifty Shades of Grey' and certain lines I was getting so confused coz for a second I thought the writer was talking about yuvani lol. Its quite boring so dnt bother reading it bt this does this line not scream Yuvani------- It is not a love story.it does a pretty convincing job of masquerading as one, for sure, but please believe me when I say that love doesn't even have a cameo role in
this plot. It is also not a romantic fairy tale with a
harmless bit of naughtiness sprinkled on top. Romance is glaringly absent, in fact.-**** does this not describe yuvani and the show we dnt get romance at all we only have 1 pillow scene lol that's all.
Or how about this 1------ In this harmless' piece of fluff
movie, a rich, handsome, experienced man uses his power to seduce and manipulate a young, innocent student into doing a lot of
things she is extremely uncomfortable doing.
They are not equals. They are not partners. There is, in fact, no they' to speak of at all.
Rather, it's a movie about a narcissistic man's controlling and violent sexual desires and his sense of entitlement to use and abuse a vulnerable young woman's body and mind as tools for his own gratification. It's all about his
needs, coupled with the arrogant expectation
that she should comply, regardless of her discomfort, to please him.**** if u think of hw they described Christian if we take out the sex are they not talking about JerkRaj? Is he not using suhani's innocence so that he can continue to be her Room Mate for Life? He does something for her if he feels like it or he is told to do it otherwise he never thinks of her and if he does he only worries coz she will lose faith in him PrinceRaj(rolling my eyes). And now my Princess Maid he knows she is not comfortable being in a sexless, emotional marriage bt does he tell her the truth heavens no. Christian's need was to get lost in sex JerkRaj gratification is having Suhani look at him as if he is the most perfect creature in the world that's basically his idea of sex lol. JerkRaj's tight control over his emotions to want to not feel desire for the woman sleeping next is yuvraj not a narcissistic person? Thank god this article didn't mention that real annoyance Anastasia I just know it would be like reading a summary of suhani's character. I just cnt believe it that I finally am in love with a girl and she was Anastasia in disguise. Guys really whoever read the book would know that girl is just dumb and quite frankly the worst character I have ever read a terrible annoyance I managed to complete the 2nd book coz I kept thinking she would eventually die. And nw Suhani is probably the indian version of that sick character. Some1 just kick me already
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Substitute slavishness for sex, and you have it. Awesome comparison, Sandi.
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THIS IS A BRILLIANT, KNOCK OUT POST!! 👏

Sandi, your genius never fails to surprise me. You're right, when I was reading those lines you quoted, I was thinking, "This fits YuvAni perfectly". 😲😲😲 They are actually 50 Shades of Grey without the sex, as you famously said. 😆😆

if u think of hw they described Christian if we take out the sex are they not talking about JerkRaj? Is he not using suhani's innocence so that he can continue to be her Room Mate for Life? He does something for her if he feels like it or he is told to do it otherwise he never thinks of her and if he does he only worries coz she will lose faith in him PrinceRaj(rolling my eyes).


Roommate for life! 🤣 It's almost like that's what he wants and he doesn't think about the fact that Suhani might not want that. If you look at all the moments he acknowledges Suhani loves him, he says it like it's boring, dry fact. 😳 "I know Suhani loves me". He is clearly AWARE of the power he has over her and he uses it indiscriminately. I got really irritated with his reaction when he thought that V-Day gift might be from Suhani. He was acting like it was an inconvenience. Hello! You are married to her and aren't telling her the truth, why do you expect her to hold back on the romance?😲

I wonder how long he planned for them to remain in a loveless marriage. Did he want to leave her hanging for life? The decent thing to do would be to tell her the truth and set her free so she can live her life and find the love she deserves.

JerkRaj gratification is having Suhani look at him as if he is the most perfect creature in the world that's basically his idea of sex lol. JerkRaj's tight control over his emotions to want to not feel desire for the woman sleeping next is yuvraj not a narcissistic person?

Yes, he draws gratification through Suhani's utter and complete adulation of him. He loves the fact that she adores him and worships the ground he walks on. Somewhere, there is some love inside of him, but he does not want to recognise that fact. His anger at her is actually anger at himself for losing control of his emotions. He is conflicted and confused by his feelings for Suhani, and he takes it out on her. JerkRaj is obsessed with the idea of being Suhani's Prince Charming. The high he gets from her love is unparalleled. He is afraid of the truth because it will also lead to Suhani seeing him as JerkRaj and not Yuvraj anymore. 🥱 He wants her adoration and can't bear the idea that she may become aware of his MANY faults.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anita_m

Substitute slavishness for sex, and you have it. Awesome comparison, Sandi.

i couldn't agree more
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Originally posted by: clarity

THIS IS A BRILLIANT, KNOCK OUT POST!! 👏 -thanks😳

Sandi, your genius never fails to by LizardSales" in_hover="" in_hdr="1" style="border: none !important; display: inline-block !important; text-indent: 0px !important; float: none !important; font-weight: bold !important; height: auto !important; margin: 0px !important; min-height: 0px !important; min-width: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; text-decoration: underline !important; vertical-align: baseline !important; width: auto !important; background: transparent !important;">surprise me. You're right, when I was reading those lines you quoted, I was thinking, "This fits YuvAni perfectly". 😲😲😲 They are actually 50 Shades of Grey without the sex, as you famously said. 😆😆


if u think of hw they described Christian if we take out the sex are they not talking about JerkRaj? Is he not using suhani's innocence so that he can continue to be her Room Mate for Life? He does something for her if he feels like it or he is told to do it otherwise he never thinks of her and if he does he only worries coz she will lose faith in him PrinceRaj(rolling my eyes).


Roommate for life! 🤣 It's almost like that's what he wants and he doesn't think about the fact that Suhani might not want that. If you look at all the moments he acknowledges Suhani loves him, he says it like it's boring, dry fact. 😳 "I know Suhani loves me". He is clearly AWARE of the power he has over her and he uses it indiscriminately. I got really irritated with his reaction when he thought that V-Day by LizardSales" in_hover="" in_hdr="1" style="border: none !important; display: inline-block !important; text-indent: 0px !important; float: none !important; font-weight: bold !important; height: auto !important; margin: 0px !important; min-height: 0px !important; min-width: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; text-decoration: underline !important; vertical-align: baseline !important; width: auto !important; background: transparent !important;">gift might be from Suhani. He was acting like it was an inconvenience. Hello! You are married to her and aren't telling her the truth, why do you expect her to hold back on the romance?😲- bold totally agree even in last nites episode his reaction to shatima was the exactly the same as u ddescribed it was even worse then the vd's gift dialogue and expressions

I wonder how long he planned for them to remain in a loveless marriage. Did he want to leave her hanging for life? The decent thing to do would be to tell her the truth and set her by LizardSales" style="border: none !important; display: inline-block !important; text-indent: 0px !important; float: none !important; font-weight: bold !important; height: auto !important; margin: 0px !important; min-height: 0px !important; min-width: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; text-decoration: underline !important; vertical-align: baseline !important; width: auto !important; background: transparent !important;">free so she can live her life and find the love she deserves. - I think for him to think about what she wants is for him to in fact think what he wants. its like if he thinks that she needs to be loved more or have that emotional connection and than he would have to think whether he can give her that and in his mind the answer is no so he does not want his thoughts to go there. he likes to think of her as his buddy, as his roomie anything more he would have to question everything about their r/ship. he doesn't even see the possibility that he may want the same things as her and 1 has to wonder why would it be so bad to be in love with her? but than also can 1 blame him for not wanting to think about her in a sexual, emotional way once she knows the truth she would/could leave him and his heart has already been broken. I was reading I think 1 of Anita's posts where she said he is scared to love and he is and think he is scared to love suhani. But really the question than becomes as u said how long was he expecting this situation to go on for he is just stuck and does not want to find a way out and sees no way out all his focus was on getting snaky out b4 when she was a threat and nw that she is not a danger(in his head) he thinks he can now go back to being hw it was b4 with him and suhani. I have to say that i am very jealous of jerkraj though coz i planned on having a room mate exactly like suhani i have this friend and we should joke hw we would live together 1 day(it never happened she got married and abandoned me lol) bt i told her she would have to cook, clean after me and i would regard her as my best friend/roomie forever. that LoseRAJ is living my dream😡.

JerkRaj by LizardSales" in_hover="" in_hdr="1" style="border: none !important; display: inline-block !important; text-indent: 0px !important; float: none !important; font-weight: bold !important; height: auto !important; margin: 0px !important; min-height: 0px !important; min-width: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; text-decoration: underline !important; vertical-align: baseline !important; width: auto !important; background: transparent !important;">gratification is having Suhani look at him as if he is the most perfect creature in the world that's basically his idea of sex lol. JerkRaj's tight control over his emotions to want to not feel desire for the woman sleeping next is yuvraj not a narcissistic person?

Yes, he draws by LizardSales" in_hover="" in_hdr="1" style="border: none !important; display: inline-block !important; text-indent: 0px !important; float: none !important; font-weight: bold !important; height: auto !important; margin: 0px !important; min-height: 0px !important; min-width: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; text-decoration: underline !important; vertical-align: baseline !important; width: auto !important; background: transparent !important;">gratification through Suhani's utter and complete adulation of him. He loves the fact that she adores him and worships the ground he walks on. Somewhere, there is some love inside of him, but he does not want to recognise that fact. His anger at her is actually anger at himself for losing control of his emotions. He is conflicted and confused by his feelings for Suhani, and he takes it out on her. JerkRaj is obsessed with the idea of being Suhani's Prince Charming. The high he gets from her love is unparalleled. He is afraid of the truth because it will also lead to Suhani seeing him as JerkRaj and not Yuvraj anymore. 🥱 some1 dumps u and the next person in your life pretty much thinks u are IT, utter perfection what a feeling that must be who would not want to feel like that 24/7 and she does make him feel as if he is a real Prince. her utter adoration and her showing it to every1 it gives him a high. the other night I was watching their jan 2 scene when his friends where around and she said he was cute in front of every1 and the look on his face was awww.

but than also he does take this same adoration for granted even though he knows that eventually she could stop seeing him as this. already I think she is beginning to see the cracks in him bt he is so full of himself that he doesn't realize this. u know I dnt get why he is supposed to be confused and angry at suhani whenever he speaks about his feelings and her he is very clear he has no feelings. guy just makes me want to vomit most times.

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there is crap in my post again sorry apu hope u can read it properly

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