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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hate yesterday's episode !
Gandhi family , Ambaji and most importantly stupid Mona insulted her own parents.
I'm sorry but who is that lady 'ketki ben' ?
How come she became more important to Mona than her own parents ?
Parents come first , she shouldn't forget , she's 'Bedi' first and then Gandhi.. How can she not call her parents ' mon dad' just to please Ketki ben?
Questions were raised here on forum when Daarji/Gurnaam were insulted by Hetal , I think the difference is Hetal was arrogant, but even if Mona wasn't doing purposely/arrogantly , this is almost same what Mona has done , I would say she's gone further ahead by " insulting her own parents" !

Many if you might not agree but in case if you agree, please right to
response@zeenetwork.com and request on not showing such things in future.
The script writers need to change on this show, high time !

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Posted: 14 years ago
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There is no excuse for what hetal did however she is the outsider and has known the family for a few months and does not love them at all. But how can we expect her to be nice and respect them when their own kids insult them and not ready to acknowledge them. Karan is useless so no point in expecting him to do anything but mona, seriously. The whole acting Gujrati was fun in the beginning but then it just crossed all the lines. One think i dont get even vimmy and satnam were ''like'' parents to mona who is ketki ben to insult them when they come to wish their ''like'' daughter diwali and bring gifts for them. Is that how we behave with guests. suppose they werent even related and were just neighbors is it justified to insult them and kick them out of the house in diwali when they are there with genuine feelings and good intentions and brought gifts for the entire family. It was so rude when everybody just resumed their pooja and the guests were left standing alone. Satnam kept trying to make things better but ketki wouldnt hear any of it. And the line ''go pray to ur Raba or something like that'was totally insulting and uncalled for.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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tochukumari All who have talked about Daarji's insult ...like me have spoken equally about this insult too .Check out April's thread . Lies Deception thread . All r in agreement that Bedis were insulted . No two opinions about that .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What happened ? ... i missed the episode ... This sounds truly awful ... What did the sanskaari Gandhis do now ?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

What happened ? ... i missed the episode ... This sounds truly awful ... What did the sanskaari Gandhis do now ?


bips the Bedis came to wish Happy Diwali and The gandhis refused to show recognition to them in front of Ketli Mausi and introduced them as neighbours .The puzzled Bedis went home hurt .Not just that , Ketki Mausi kind of insulted Vimmy . Its supposed to be humorous or something And I am indifferent and amused but many have not liked it . Many r bugged that Mona gives her culture such less importanceand never takes pride in it while trying to appease people from other cultures . Thats the core issue of debate nowdays .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


bips the Bedis came to wish Happy Diwali and The gandhis refused to show recognition to them in front of Ketli Mausi and introduced them as neighbours .The puzzled Bedis went home hurt .Not just that , Ketki Mausi kind of insulted Vimmy . Its supposed to be humorous or something And I am indifferent and amused but many have not liked it . Many r bugged that Mona gives her culture such less importanceand never takes pride in it while trying to appease people from other cultures . Thats the core issue of debate nowdays .

In short, whatever Mona does - always wrong. 😆 I really don't get what everyone is expecting of Mona - if she acts too punjabi, then some people say, she's been married for so long yet doesn't know the G of Gujarati - if she starts acting Gujarati, all of a sudden she doesn't give importance to her culture or traditions. Poor girl, she has endure all her in-laws taunts and behaviour and then the audience's too.
I thought I was the only one enjoying everyone trying to cover up in front of Ketkimasi. Howver I didn't like when she said "go pray to your rabba" - totally uncalled for.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fantasy_K

In short, whatever Mona does - always wrong. 😆 I really don't get what everyone is expecting of Mona - if she acts too punjabi, then some people say, she's been married for so long yet doesn't know the G of Gujarati - if she starts acting Gujarati, all of a sudden she doesn't give importance to her culture or traditions. Poor girl, she has endure all her in-laws taunts and behaviour and then the audience's too.
I thought I was the only one enjoying everyone trying to cover up in front of Ketkimasi. Howver I didn't like when she said "go pray to your rabba" - totally uncalled for.



I dont think abybody will be mad if she acts alittle gujariti when u stay with people for a long time you kind of pick their habits. I love mona's punjabi acting and it is alot of fun. I dont expect her to turn into a ketki maasi or another ambaji. People are mad because she is not acknowledging her heritage and where she came from. Ketki massi does not like punjabi's and that is why she made herself Gujarati and is not standing up for her culture. she should be proud to be punjabi because you cannot change where you came from no matter what. Second, her parents were insulted to the core in front of her and she kept her mouth quite and then acually kept pushing them until they left her house in diwali. Is it really funny to call your parents stranger to please a far relative from your sasural. It was funny during the dining table and when she was figuring out how to pray and the name ambaji picked for her father but insulting your parents, not acknowledging them and kicking them out of your house for whatever reason is just plain wrong.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I thought I was the only one enjoying everyone trying to cover up in front of Ketkimasi. Howver I didn't like when she said "go pray to your rabba" - totally uncalled for.

Fantasy , I am with u , I am trying to enjoy this Ketki track . I hope bijal Hetal r given good by this character I am amused and indifferent but I can understand where the others r coming from ...

The CVs do NOT portray Mona well . For instance , during aarti , simple thing she did not know that kumkum has to be first put on the Ganesh idol , then the Devi Idol

Its common knowledge that before the pooja of any God , Ganesh is worshipped FIRST .Surely after staying for so long in that house she shud know it ?

Then they show scenes where she defends the Gujratis saying WE Gujratis We Gujratis which is kinda overboard ...as she is NOT a Gujrati . Its very nice indeed that she is trying to accept that culture but it can be done in a way in which she remains proud of her roots and expresses a tremendous respect for her husbands culture too . Why go so overboard ...in the ignorance or in the acceptance ?

its CVS fault .





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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nigo123

I dont think abybody will be mad if she acts alittle gujariti when u stay with people for a long time you kind of pick their habits. I love mona's punjabi acting and it is alot of fun. I dont expect her to turn into a ketki maasi or another ambaji. People are mad because she is not acknowledging her heritage and where she came from. Ketki massi does not like punjabi's and that is why she made herself Gujarati and is not standing up for her culture. she should be proud to be punjabi because you cannot change where you came from no matter what. Second, her parents were insulted to the core in front of her and she kept her mouth quite and then acually kept pushing them until they left her house in diwali. Is it really funny to call your parents stranger to please a far relative from your sasural. It was funny during the dining table and when she was figuring out how to pray and the name ambaji picked for her father but insulting your parents, not acknowledging them and kicking them out of your house for whatever reason is just plain wrong.

I agree that it was wrong and not funny but the whole point - from the way I see it, is she has no negativity in her mind while she's doing all this. Which is why I find people a little harsh towards Mona. I blame Ambaaji in this - this is her house, she should've stood up for her children. Mona is meek, we have seen her be quiet while she's being tortured by all, we have questioned why she never stands up for anything, yet everyone is blaming her for this. Has she ever been able to go against Ambaaji? No. Has she ever questioned whatever decisions Ambaaji makes? No. Sure, she's the one who said I'll become Gujarati - but I don't remember her saying or remotely denouncing her punjabi heritage? Maybe I missed a scene. You can never take away anyone's hertiage/tradition/culture from them. No matter how hard Mona is trying to be Gujarati, you can still see she's uncomfortable doing it - she doesn't come accross flawless.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I thought I was the only one enjoying everyone trying to cover up in front of Ketkimasi. Howver I didn't like when she said "go pray to your rabba" - totally uncalled for.

Fantasy , I am with u , I am trying to enjoy this Ketki track . I hope bijal Hetal r given good by this character I am amused and indifferent but I can understand where the others r coming from ...

The CVs do NOT portray Mona well . For instance , during aarti , simple thing she did not know that kumkum has to be first put on the Ganesh idol , then the Devi Idol

Its common knowledge that before the pooja of any God , Ganesh is worshipped FIRST .Surely after staying for so long in that house she shud know it ?

Then they show scenes where she defends the Gujratis saying WE Gujratis We Gujratis which is kinda overboard ...as she is NOT a Gujrati . Its very nice indeed that she is trying to accept that culture but it can be done in a way in which she remains proud of her roots and expresses a tremendous respect for her husbands culture too . Why go so overboard ...in the ignorance or in the acceptance ?

its CVS fault .

Yeah, as usual CVs are hellbent on ruining all lead characters. Whether it's Archana or Mona or even Lovely. The leads are made out to be the dumbest out of the whole lot. That's why we see people like Dharmesh, Hetal, Bijal - all walk over them. We are supposed to relate this to everyday life? Is it even possible for a normal human to be this stupid?? But these leads are portrayed in this way and then made out to be "naive" - I find it to so annoying when they do that! Like Archana, everyone in that serial, be it her mother, her sisters, her MIL or even Manav, they've all kicked her so hard, yet she's the all forgiving, all loving, all forgetting MAAHAN DEVI 🤢. Same with Mona, every person in this serial has put her down, well except Daarji/Gurnaam YET she's ready to butt into everything and help them out ALL THE TIME. Now CVs are showing Mona insulting her parents while trying to please her in-laws because obviously she's maahan too and thats what maahan people do. 🤢
But I will still blame Ambaaji for all this - this is her house and she's married and she should be fighting for her children rather than wanting to send Mona to her maayka... So what if she succeeded? What would she have done with Karan? Where would she send off them to? 😆

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