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Not the most creative title, I know..

So Teddy recently wrote an OS "Afsoz" If you haven't read it yet, what are you doing with your life? Go check it out, it's awesome: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/tashan-e-ishq/4629713/twinj-cherry-os-afsoz

and I'm not just saying it cause she bae #Raidy


The OS got me thinking, What do I want from Cherry's character? Yes, I want him to own up to the fact that he tried to sexually assault his sister-in-law and would've actually succeeded had Kunj not made it to the farmhouse (I believe it was) in time. It's a no brainer, really. He needs to be held accountable for what he did or tried to do for that matter.


But it does raise a very interesting question:


Imagine this, What if you tried to do something horrible to someone, you didn't succeed- no harm was done to the said person but you still wished it upon them. No one knows what you tried to do tho, just you. A few months/years down the road you realize how wrong you were. You regret what you did, you've clearly grown as a person and are very ashamed of your actions but now comes the hard part. Should you, or should you not confess? No harm was done, but should you still confess your then ill-intentions to the person? Is that doing more harm or good?

And I want to reiterate, this would be a different conversation if the said person was actually harmed but since no one was hurt what would be your course of action? Would you continue your relationship with the person with nothing but goodwill or would you risk putting a strain in the relationship by telling them what you once intended? Is ignorance a bliss in this case or a form of domestic chicanery?


Thoughts?


...zada heavy ho gaya na? now I shall get back to my textbook. Pray for me good people. It's exam season!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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OMGGG I JUST FANGIRLED SEEING YOUR NAME, I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT THE POST IS ABOUT BUT HEYYY GIRL! RESSS.
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Raina you go in deep bruh. That is actually a really good question.

Honestly, keeping aside Twinkle for a moment and thinking from Cherry's perspective now. He may end up really regretting his actions and ill thoughts towards Twinkle, he may repent sincerely and even perhaps become a brother to Twinkle eventually but deep down, he will always remember that he had tried to molest her and the burden of guilt is a heavy one. I dont think Cherry will be able to forgive himself completely or be truly redeemed until the person he had tried to harm hasn't forgiven him yet. And how can Twinkle do that when she doesnt know of his sick actions to begin with? So in my opinion, he should confess his sins and deal with the consequences head on. I get the saying that "what they don't know won't hurt them" but the truth always come out eventually, maybe not now, maybe 10 years down the line, and the longer its hidden, the more damage it will cause. I'm a strong believer in "time heals all" because trust me, I've had fights will a lot of friends where we stopped speaking for years, but 5 years later and my bestie is one of my besties again. So yh, until the issue is not confronted directly, I genuinely dont think Cherry can live under the same roof as her without the guilt eating away at him. The family will be pissed and Kunj will fume at first, but if Twinkle forgives him for his sincere repentance then he can finally find peace within himself. Eventually the family will brush the issue under the carpet too.


YO I feel like I went in deep too. 😳😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tranquility123

OMGGG I JUST FANGIRLED SEEING YOUR NAME, I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT THE POST IS ABOUT BUT HEYYY GIRL! RESSS.


LMAO, HEYYY! I'm very interested to see what you think about the post. I had my reservations about posting it 😆
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I'll get back to this as this requires me to actually think and then formulate a worthy response.
Majorly sleep deprived now lol
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Heyaaa Rainu Mausi
Long time no see

Honestly I can't keep my mistakes to myself for a long time. I get too guilty n just spit it out.
But if I was in a tough situation where I actually hid my mistake for such a long time probably I would tell them keeping d relations at stake because it's better that the person knows it through me than someone else. N I would hope that some day they would forgive me. It's better late than never.
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YO SAME AS NEMO HAVENT READ A WORD BUT RES 🤣
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The title is pretty awesome, no worries. And oh my gosh, I have to reply to so many comments still BUT AHHH thank you Raina! 🤗 I'm so happy you enjoyed it, promoted it 😆, and it got you thinking! #RAIDY

Holy moly, that was deep. It truly got me thinking what I would do if I was in some sort of situation to which this applies. The easy answer is, your relationship with them is going well so why ruin it? BUT that's not the correct answer. If you hurt someone and they don't even KNOW about it, that's horrible. That person has every right to know because even if you weren't successful, you had bad intentions. It's the person who was harmed then, that gets to make a choice about where the relationship you share heads. It's absolutely unfair for Twinkle to be unaware of what took place, especially since Kunj didn't even believe her then! It's not something that can get shoved under the rug, you must confess.

Thank you for getting the wheels in my head churning 😆


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshi2000

Heyaaa Rainu Mausi
Long time no see

Honestly I can't keep my mistakes to myself for a long time. I get too guilty n just spit it out.
But if I was in a tough situation where I actually hid my mistake for such a long time probably I would tell them keeping d relations at stake because it's better that the person knows it through me than someone else. N I would hope that some day they would forgive me. It's better late than never.


Hey Kiddo, how was Mauritius?

I know it's so difficult to keep such things to oneself, It's hard for me to keep anything to myself actually 😆
So you would risk your relationship because you fear that they might find out from someone else. But what if no one knows? Would you still take that risk?
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Originally posted by: rainaM


LMAO, HEYYY! I'm very interested to see what you think about the post. I had my reservations about posting it 😆


There are a very few people on this forum who make mentally stimulating posts Raina and I'm glad you are one of them. 😆


Oh I updated my slot😆
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Unresssed! 😆 Love you dude 😳
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Originally posted by: Tranquility123

OMGGG I JUST FANGIRLED SEEING YOUR NAME, I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT THE POST IS ABOUT BUT HEYYY GIRL! RESSS.

****

Raina you go in deep bruh. That is actually a really good question.

Honestly, keeping aside Twinkle for a moment and thinking from Cherry's perspective now. He may end up really regretting his actions and ill thoughts towards Twinkle, he may repent sincerely and even perhaps become a brother to Twinkle eventually but deep down, he will always remember that he had tried to molest her and the burden of guilt is a heavy one. I dont think Cherry will be able to forgive himself completely or be truly redeemed until the person he had tried to harm hasn't forgiven him yet. And how can Twinkle do that when she doesnt know of his sick actions to begin with? So in my opinion, he should confess his sins and deal with the consequences head on. I get the saying that "what they don't know won't hurt them" but the truth always come out eventually, maybe not now, maybe 10 years down the line, and the longer its hidden, the more damage it will cause. I'm a strong believer in "time heals all" because trust me, I've had fights will a lot of friends where we stopped speaking for years, but 5 years later and my bestie is one of my besties again. So yh, until the issue is not confronted directly, I genuinely dont think Cherry can live under the same roof as her without the guilt eating away at him. The family will be pissed and Kunj will fume at first, but if Twinkle forgives him for his sincere repentance then he can finally find peace within himself. Eventually the family will brush the issue under the carpet too.


YO I feel like I went in deep too. 😳😆




Burden of guilt is indeed a heavy one! But what about the fear of being humiliated and abandoned for something you're not anymore? What if you know your mistake isn't worthy of forgiveness- and when it comes out, your relationship with the person will be ruined forever. Should you then be the one to confess? (This again is assuming that the only harm your action caused was your guilt and nothing else)


I hear you though, confronting issues head on only leads to solutions not problems, at least in the longterm! and as for the show, Twinkle will definitely forgive Cherry. If the girl can forgive Yuvraj, she can forgive anyone.

...and Bruh that was deep 😆


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