Very apt post...trust indeed is a foundation on which every relation is based and if the foundation is weak, then it takes minutes for everything to crumble down.
Exactly!!😃
But there is a very thin line between trust and blind trust. A child when is small, mother trusts blindly, but if the same blind trust is there in adolescence, then there might be chance that she might over look some very visible signs which might show not everything is right. So I feel trust is relative and it changes with time and its magnitude manifests itself in a different way in different situations.
Ditto!!😃
You know I actually did not blame lucky when he did not trust swara. he was never shown to be a very wise character. Always was iimpulsive. Swara trusted him in mms case as she knew him well and of course she knew how to use her head, where as lucky failed in his test. And to a certain extent I don't blame him. He did try to believe her despite his misgivings and more over every drug addict says that they don't do drugs, so I kind of empathise with him. He was in a tough situation and was not strong enough to weather that storm. His main fault was that he chose not to believe dida and decided to marry ragini in that same mandap. That's when I lost all my sympathies with him. Dude its one thing not to trust, but entirely other to marry your love's sister. That's gross..😡
Same to same...my sentiments exactly...what made me lose all sympathy with him was him marrying Ragini in the same mandap the same day...like...urgh...yuck..😡
Sharmishtha and shekhar, very similar to lucky and swara. but their magnitude is more. Hell lucky is still young and where as shekhar he is old but not wise. Sharmishtha is herself responsible for all her problems and to a certain extent, I don't feel sympathy for her. Shekhar trampled her everytime, insulted her, questioned her upbringing of swara, bad mouths his own daughter and ultimately breaks his own relation and what does shumi do..? cry buckets...geez...I can't stand that. love is important, but is it more important than self respect...?
Same same same...word to word same ...my sentiments exactly...like Ditto...
I am hoping in the serial they will show a monologue of shumi that she did it all for swara, took all the insults for her so that shona can have her long cherished dream of a family, however chequered it is. swara believes in fairy tales but alas world is not like that..!! I really hope shumi does not forgive shekhar easily, as just after sanskaar, she is my favourite. I really hate weak people. love should give you the strength to rise not fall.
I hope the CV's do that too...they show us Shumis monologue as to why shes back with Shekar..thye should show us that she hasn't forgiving him and he needs to repent on showing his lack of trust in her, her upbringing, their daughter and even her mom...Shekar just can't be forgiven so easily...it truly wont sit well with me personally...
The thing is I don't trust Indian Serials to deal with a women's self respect ...especially against her husband ...susral...They are on a high to show us The Ideal Bahu, Beti, Patni...one who has no Self Respect whatsoever...who is ever forgiving of all kinds of crime against her or her loved ones...
Thus really no expectations there...but one can hope...
Swara wants a happily family like everyone else in society...but will she forgive her dadi, daddy so easily for them showing no trust in her?? Will she be so forgiving just because of her mom...or ?
And like you Sanskar is my most favourite character...follwed by Shumi, Swara , Dida and now DP...
MM trusting lakshya's version, am ok with that as of course they will believe family first and not believing sanskaar...well I would say one bitten twice shy.
True...
dadi...just don't get me started on her...she is the very reason for the mess ragini has created. the seeds were sown long time back. lakshya and sanskaar just added fuel to it.
Exactly...Dadi is one person I don't want to get started on either...As it would be difficult to stop...😡
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