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Posted: 10 years ago
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Should swara forgive laksh?

Well if this was real life I would say no because he went to the extent of marrying someone else. I would think okay I get it that you didn't trust me but you didn't have to go to the extent of getting married in order to spite me. However I would also say she shouldn't be with sanskar because he created this mess, even if he's sorry now he was sorry too late and her life was ruined as a result. She lost her love and her family is a mess as a result of this.


BUT since this is a drama, the writers can actually make us viewers forget all this and they could redeem laksh. You see in Meri Ashiqui Tumse hi, Ishani misunderstood Ranveer and distrusted him the most and for such a long time (she was so annoying about it too) but now when you see her on screen you wouldn't even remember what her character was like. They could also spin off swasan for this reason.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anbhigya

Hehehe... U know if swara is going to be all mahaan... Trying to make Ragya work... Or if she ever uses that ' Tum toh yahi chahte the ' line.. Ever again... I will kidnap sansku n send him to Bali... Many can say that sanskuu fans r biased n they care only about him not swara... Toh be my guest... Coz the guy is repenting his mistakes... Trying his best to make everything right... Talking sensible things... Not forcing his love on swara... Den hell yeah i want only him to be happy.. N With his head held high leave this mess if nobody cares for him!!!!


Count me in when you go kidnapping him...I will help *Cheshire cat smile here...*😉😆

Agree the guy is a Gem...he had the guts to accept all his wrong doings...is honest in his apologies and is repenting and doing all to redeem himself...

I hoe they keep his so always...love love love him..his integrity
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM


Forgive Laksh for his lack of trust...no but forgive him, she must...if not, she will never forge ahead...the anger will eat her up...

2nd chance to Laksh at love...no way...anyone with the kind of lackluster attitude towards their loved ones do not deserve 2nd chance...

2nd chance with Laksh as a family member...maybe, if he can work towards it...


Thanks for answering dear 😃

Agree with you...yes Forgiveness is needed to make one move on...with ones life then letting the hurt caused fester and grow and ruin you...

Forgiving Laksh as a part of family ...am all for it and see it happening too...

Swara was great in forgiving Sanskar ...so I see her forgiving Laksh too...and Ragani as well...and her dad and dadi...thats her inert nature...to forgive and look towards the future...She believes in giving people second chances...

What I too don't want her to do is rush into a relationship with either Laksh or Sanskar...without thinking what she really wants from life..her life partner..etc...

If she does go back to Laksh for any reason...then she should think twice can this person be trusted a second time around...to be there for her ever...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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wow great post..👏
laksh love towards swara wasn't strong, i agree with you may be it wasn't love may be attraction.

shekahr and shomi's relationship is same like swalak. in my opinion shomi shouldn't go back to shekhar's house. she should take her own time to trust him again like how adarsh wife did.later she should give at least a small punishment to shekhar and should teach her MIL a good lesson...😡

MM is mental family.😆 just becz swara is modern they thought she don't know sanskars. i m so happy on RS for showing ragini as evil char. becz in society modern type girls r facing lot of problems even though they r good compared to sanskari girls who always take advantage of such situation.
thank you RS for highlighting this...👏

initially dadi and ragini's relationship was good. dadi has given good sanskar to ragini, no doubt about that. but dadi's hatred towards bangali is main reason why ragini turned out like this. dadi never wanted to lose against dida so she always provoked ragini to fought for her rights. and sankar joined her and adds more fuel. so it's not only ragini's fault for her changed behavior, dadi laksh and sanakar r equally responsible.

in my opinion swara should forgive laksh becz after this only she can be able move on in her life.
but swara don't even think about going back to laksh😡 stay with sanskar and becz we love swasan...😳😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: CookieDough

Should swara forgive laksh?

Well if this was real life I would say no because he went to the extent of marrying someone else. I would think okay I get it that you didn't trust me but you didn't have to go to the extent of getting married in order to spite me. However I would also say she shouldn't be with sanskar because he created this mess, even if he's sorry now he was sorry too late and her life was ruined as a result. She lost her love and her family is a mess as a result of this.



@Bold...exactly...did he really have to marry to spite her..

As for Sanskar...yes he was the one who caused it all...but then...he didn't make Ragni try to kill Swara... or keep lying and destroying lives and relationships ...it was all Ragni's own doing...along with the weak bonds those ppl had...

He didn't force Laksh to marry Ragini to spite Swara..

He did call Laksh and even DP but Laksh in his anger and not trusting Swara didn't even have the courtesy to listen or let DP listen either...

So for all I don't blame Sanskar...as every individual has brains to know what right and wrong and no one can force one individual to do anything of one does not want to...and Trust is something that should have won over if Laksh truly loved her...but..

Thus he alone is not responsible for the mess in Swara's life...or her parents...Shekhar is an other loser who too didn't trust his wife's judgement of Swara...or a father who didn't even wait to give his other daughter a chance to put her story forward...

Thus Sanskar is way better then Laksh & Shekhar


BUT since this is a drama, the writers can actually make us viewers forget all this and they could redeem laksh. You see in Meri Ashiqui Tumse hi, Ishani misunderstood Ranveer and distrusted him the most and for such a long time (she was so annoying about it too) but now when you see her on screen you wouldn't even remember what her character was like. They could also spin off swasan for this reason.


Thanks for answering dear...

Yes it all depends on the CV's on how they want to carry this story forward...will they move and get back Laksh Swara together again making her forget what a Loser he is as a lover...or will they make her chose Sanskar ...the guy who did so much to pay for all his crimes against her...

Only time will tell...thus interesting days ahead indeed as long as this show does not become an other Uttaran...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM

a post on 'TRUST' makes good sense... Well written...

Blind trust is too much but life without trust is too little...


Yes agree Blind Trust is wrong ...and a life without Trust is no Life at all...

Thats why I said its a Building Block of every relationship one has in life...and starts from a parent child...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kulsum_5

wow great post..👏

laksh love towards swara wasn't strong, i agree with you may be it wasn't love may be attraction.

shekahr and shomi's relationship is same like swalak. in my opinion shomi shouldn't go back to shekhar's house. she should take her own time to trust him again like how adarsh wife did.later she should give at least a small punishment to shekhar and should teach her MIL a good lesson...😡


Am with you completely on this...Shumi should not forgive Shekhar so easily at all and like Parineeti Adarsh's wife she should take her own sweet time in forgiving him and his mom ...because her so readily forgiving them...would just not sit well at all...

MM is mental family.😆 just becz swara is modern they thought she don't know sanskars. i m so happy on RS for showing ragini as evil char. becz in society modern type girls r facing lot of problems even though they r good compared to sanskari girls who always take advantage of such situation.
thank you RS for highlighting this...👏


Yes ...Yes...Yes...this is what I loved loved loved loved the most about this show...that Looks can be so deceiving...that its not what the person wears, looks like,...but what the person is from the inside...the character matter the most...the personality...

initially dadi and ragini's relationship was good. dadi has given good sanskar to ragini, no doubt about that. but dadi's hatred towards bangali is main reason why ragini turned out like this. dadi never wanted to lose against dida so she always provoked ragini to fought for her rights. and sankar joined her and adds more fuel. so it's not only ragini's fault for her changed behavior, dadi laksh and sanakar r equally responsible.

Yes agree...Dadi...father...Laksh and Sanskar all have a hand in it...she had these feelings that erupted because their actions acted as Catalyst...if she was strong mentally then nothing could or would have provoked her to do such evil deeds...this just went on to show us how truly insecure, weak Ragini's personality and character was...

in my opinion swara should forgive laksh becz after this only she can be able move on in her life.
but swara don't even think about going back to laksh😡 stay with sanskar and becz we love swasan...😳😳


😆Yes forgiveness is needed to move on with ones life but not forgetting ...😉 as forgetting is not done...as you could end up being hurt again ...

As for Swason...love them...😆😆😆


Thank you Kulsum darling for answering...*muwah*
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kubare



Just saw your edited post...😃

Yes I think people tend to trust people they love blindly and then once that trust is broken or not up to what one expected the person eg Swara should really think twice about Trusting Laksh with her love ...heart again...as the saying goes "Once Bitten Twice Shy"


i agree she should think hundred times before trusting him again
but also she should forgive him for past
if she didn't it will haunt her in future but if she forgiv him then she can move on happily
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: princess_tara

i agree she should think hundred times before trusting him again
but also she should forgive him for past
if she didn't it will haunt her in future but if she forgive him then she can move on happily



Yes forgiveness...is very very important...to move on guilt free...hurt free..

Swara will definitely forgive him as she believes in forgiveness and giving second chances...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kubare


Yes agree Blind Trust is wrong ...and a life without Trust is no Life at all...

Thats why I said its a Building Block of every relationship one has in life...and starts from a parent child...


Agreed...building block...every inch needs to be built, every relationship is built based on trust...well said...

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