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TRUST ...the Building Block of All Relationships in this world...without Trust no relationships can last or ever be made,

Be it a parents relationship with their child/children or vice versa...TRUST is most important...The child/children trusting their parents to always love them, provide them with security and always think and do the best for them...


Same way the parent trust their child/ children to always be honest with them about everything, to be good human beings and never hide anything from them and always do right by them.


The same way Trust is very important in friendships too...Friend trusting the other friend with secrets...being there for one another etc..


Trust is the building block for any marriage...be it love or arranged...Trusting each others spouse to be faithful, loyal, understanding, etc...to always be there for one another..


The trust family members have on one another etc...


In this show Swaragni we have seen the importance of Trust and how lack of or no Trust has ruined, destroyed and changed the dynamics of each and every relationship.


1. Swara & Laksh.

Swara trusted Laksh when he needed to be trusted the most, she even went on to prove his innocence to all, when the people close to him lost their trust in him as all evidence pointed to the contrary...


When it came Lasksh's turn to show his Trust in Swara he Failed...He failed to trust her when she needed him to trust her character..

He easily got swayed by all and sundry that Swara was wrong...he did not even try or want to listen to the people like her mom or her nani whose trust in their daughter/grand daughter was unbreakable . He did not even want to give her a chance or dout the evidence he that were put in front of him...

This showed us that his trust for her was weak...his love for her was weak ...because of he ever loved her he would have trusted her till proven wrong.

He trusted Ragani more then he trusted Swara...odd that...so

Did he unconsciously love Ragni then Swara?? Was what he felt for Swara even love or was it just infatuation, admiration or crush??




2. Sharmita & Shekar


There relationship seems to be same like Swara Laksh...
When it came the time to trust his wife or his daughter with her...he refused to trust them, trusting his daughter Ragani and his own mother. He did not even like Laksh give them the benefit of doubt...that there could be a speck of truth in what his wife is saying.

Sumi just like her daughter showed trust in her hubby as well as her step-daughter.

So should Sumi forgive her Hubby & MIL for not trusting her ...her daughter...when the truth will be revealed adn they apologize??



3. The Maheswari Family Trust On Ragani

They all blindly trusted Ragani and distrusted Swara. DP was the only one who was willing to listen but he was over rode not to by his own son who showed such lack of trust on the person he claimed to love and complete trust on the person he didn't...making the family trust his trust ...

Is trusting someones trust right???


4. Dadi & Ragani

Dadi having unbreakable and unbelievable trust in her grand child. Her trusting her own up bringing and Ragani of never ever lying or doing what is wrong.


So the question is is such blind trust right???



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Posted: 10 years ago
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One more question should Swara forgive Laksh for his lack of trust in her??? Should she forgive and give him a second chance at love??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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superb post
first ur question about trust
i think it depends on whom u trusting is he/she worthy of ur trust if yes u should trust blindly
if no then u should not
also any relation is based on trust only as u said also so if there is no trust then thre is no fature of that relation
so i think Swara should not give Lakhsya second chance coz first time also initially he trust her but then when she needed it the most he was not there
and now also he didnt believe what she said, its destiny who showed him all things remember he said if God also said that she was right he won't believe it.
so for me Swara should not trust him again
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Thank you dear😊
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Originally posted by: kubare


Thank you dear😊

u r welcome😛
i edited it
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Posted: 10 years ago
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swara is somi daughter as u see she choose worthless guy who rejected her sister for appearance sake even we forgive that as his personal choice he choose swara sister of girl whom he twice humiliated in front of everybody for selfish reasons. so as comes to trust swara will always abuse sanskaar n gonna abuse him till he lose his mind over her. even after how laksh humilate her not trust her par like her mother she still loves him blindly.
so as somi responsible for her own pain.
sanskaar have strength to over from swara for swara sake. still trust part needs to check as he trusted his family so little came in revenge mode.
laksh trust is fragile but somewhere he felt sorry for rags too as he dumped her twice because his family pressure him mainly dp. so he got married to her in anger and sympathy. laksh is not trust worthy because even truth came he stick to his ship ragini so reality didnt pushed him in sea of truth where he felt lost so his family and dp.
i want swara sanskaar and laksh needs to take break from love. they have other works too. than only swara will know she wants to became second somi or huv strength to choose right for her not means sanskaar. sanskaar needs to move on . he is smart and passinate let swara decide meanwhile date girls move on . definately she ran after you because this give her real chance to know she cant marry mirror image of her father laksh if she loves herself. by the way you asked right questions.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Krishuuu!!!! 😛 Howz u buddy!!! U too hre.. Happie to see u.. About the post... For MM waasis Trust is not their cup of tea!!! Basss
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Originally posted by: Anbhigya

Krishuuu!!!! 😛 Howz u buddy!!! U too hre.. Happie to see u.. About the post... For MM waasis Trust is not their cup of tea!!! Basss



Oh My God!!!! *Am screaming and jumping with joy here* Its so good to see you darling and here...*tight bone crushing hug...* Love you Shiku baby *muwah*

Its great seeing you here...am a Swasan fan...loving the drama...though...😆 got hooked to the show recently...😆😆


Hehehe true...they dont really know the meaning of trust...at all...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ketty84


swara is somi daughter as u see she choose worthless guy who rejected her sister for appearance sake even we forgive that as his personal choice he choose swara sister of girl whom he twice humiliated in front of everybody for selfish reasons. so as comes to trust swara will always abuse sanskaar n gonna abuse him till he lose his mind over her. even after how laksh humilate her not trust her par like her mother she still loves him blindly.

so as somi responsible for her own pain.

sanskaar have strength to over from swara for swara sake. still trust part needs to check as he trusted his family so little came in revenge mode.
laksh trust is fragile but somewhere he felt sorry for rags too as he dumped her twice because his family pressure him mainly dp. so he got married to her in anger and sympathy. laksh is not trust worthy because even truth came he stick to his ship ragini so reality didnt pushed him in sea of truth where he felt lost so his family and dp.

i want swara sanskaar and laksh needs to take break from love. they have other works too. than only swara will know she wants to became second somi or huv strength to choose right for her not means sanskaar. sanskaar needs to move on . he is smart and passinate let swara decide meanwhile date girls move on . definately she ran after you because this give her real chance to know she cant marry mirror image of her father laksh if she loves herself. by the way you asked right questions.


Thanks for answering...

Yes trust is learnt I think...and yes both mother and daughter have really been bad judge of characters so far...or more like both trusted Men who were not worth it...but then some times life teaches us these lesson the hard way and what we need to do is learn from them...

Some times we put trust in the ones we love because we expect the same trust in return...expectations...

I truly hope Swara does that...does not go back to trusting Laksh blindly and questions his love for her and hers for him...

As for Laksh...yes his guilt towards Ragini makes him trust her more...or its more in the form of retaliation...this all goes to show us how immature he truly is ...

DP...is the only one who is open to suggestions after seeing that not being open to them is bad...hes learnt from his mistakes...

And yes...Swara shouldn't rush into falling in love again with either Laksh or Sanskar...she should take her time in getting to truly know them both...getting her life in track and her mind in good shape...and then decide on what she really wants...

Hope they so explore all this in the show...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kubare




<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="4" color="#990066">Oh My God!!!! *Am screaming and jumping with joy here* Its so good to see you darling and here...*tight bone crushing hug...* Love you Shiku baby *muwah*</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="4" color="#990066">Its great seeing you here...am a Swasan fan...loving the drama...though...😆got hooked to the show recently...😆😆</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="4" color="#990066">Hehehe true...they dont really know the meaning of trust...at all...</font>

*High five* SWASAN ALL DA WAY.. Luv u too buddy!!! I also jumped wen i saw ur post...Me too started watching recently... N more than swasan i luv Sanskuu... My dalin!!!

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