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Posted: 10 years ago
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OK I am in slightly anti swara mode right now so ranting ...

I don't know how most ppl missed it but at the end of the rape investigation, she told lux that sanskarr was sleeping in the room and she was there. but she did not say so before bec no one would believe her ... sooo ... she did not actually trust sanskar blindly . she knew for a fact that he was innocent ... trust wrust kuch nahin . that scene completely ruined the whole episode for me ...

and now she accuses him for wanting to marry her without consent ... repeatedly .. so we fans talk about the huge trust between swasan ... but I'm not sure if its really there from her side ... swara seems to be trusting all the wrong people.

... on a side note - luxji's trust in ragini makes zero sense to me ... the whole reason he left swara was bec he was a weak person "kaan ka kachcha" ... so logically speaking in the face of overwhelming evidence there should have been some doubt in his mind about ragini ... but his trust in her was absolutely unshakeable

makes me wonder if he really wanted a sweet docile gharelu Lind of partner all along ... and just got derailed bec swara was such a bundle of energy ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

OK I am in slightly anti swara mode right now so ranting ...

Yeah noticed you being anti Swara right now...😆😆😆😆can't blame you really with all her actions recently...😆😆😆so rant away...😆😆😆😆



I don't know how most ppl missed it but at the end of the rape investigation, she told lux that sanskarr was sleeping in the room and she was there. but she did not say so before bec no one would believe her ... sooo ... she did not actually trust sanskar blindly . she knew for a fact that he was innocent ... trust wrust kuch nahin . that scene completely ruined the whole episode for me ...


Oh I did not miss it at all...😆😆😆I noticed too...and yes it showed that she is still to trust Sanskar completely and her accusing him all the time for having ulterior motives etc shows us that... but what it also shows that the trust between them is slowly but surely building and that she does trust him on the most basic level...she was ready to share a room with him...the tent ...she was ready to trust him with her plans and helping her execute them...and trust is also ranting to ones close friend in anger and knowing you wont be misunderstood and thats been shown beautifully between them...

Thus am personally liking how their relationship is being built... both aren't blindly trusting one another they are using their brains...example...Sanskar questioning Swara on Adrash thing and after asking questions trusting her...thus..liked that...


and now she accuses him for wanting to marry her without consent ... repeatedly .. so we fans talk about the huge trust between swasan ... but I'm not sure if its really there from her side ... swara seems to be trusting all the wrong people.

That was her lashing out in frustration to a friend a partner...and he gave back as good as he got...😆😆😆 He understood where she was coming from with her rant..and rant it was...😆😆😆

... on a side note - luxji's trust in ragini makes zero sense to me ... the whole reason he left swara was bec he was a weak person "kaan ka kachcha" ... so logically speaking in the face of overwhelming evidence there should have been some doubt in his mind about ragini ... but his trust in her was absolutely unshakeable makes me wonder if he really wanted a sweet docile gharelu Lind of partner all along ... and just got derailed bec swara was such a bundle of energy ..


You can say that again...he never liked Ragini he kept saying...he nardly ever interacted with her so how could he trust her so blindly then..??😕 Weak yes as a person...immature too...when the time came to for his love and trust on Swara to be tested he Failed Miserably...

And like you maybe subconsciously he wanted someone exactly like Ragini...but got attracted to Swara's vibrant personality and thus over looked Ragini because no matter what was said or told not once his trust in Ragini was shaken nor he questioned it...
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Thank you for replying dear...

I find Swasan's relationship more mature and honest then the one she had with Laksh...

Here both Sanskar and Swara communicate all their doubts, thoughts, etc to one another..and they even listen to what the other has to say and then make a decision...







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Posted: 10 years ago
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IMO love & trust are two things which you need to earn. If it is given freely it loses value.

@SwaLak: All relationships always start with the assumption that there is trust between the couple. This assumption is tested come bad times. Lux failed miserably in trusting Swara. Not only did he not trust Swara, later on out of his childish vindictiveness & to hide his own stupidity he actively participated in maligning her reputation & ruining her life. And does this mean he trusted Ragini more? No. He was just siding with her this time because it was convenient for him. Being with her he gets to be a model husband so that his insecurities & obsession over SwaSan never come out in the open.


@Sharmishtha - Shekhar: I can understand loving a spineless jerk. However I cannot understand allowing said jerk to play havoc in my life a second time. He left you high & dry when you needed him. It should have ended there for Shormi. Shekhar was able to hurt her & Swara because she never made him work for them. He wanted them...he got them!


@Maheshwaris: I think their trust is largely based on Lux's trust on Ragz. That is how it is in all families, isnt it? If a husband values his wife...she is valued as a DIL


@Dadi: Dadi is as much a criminal as Ragz. I refuse to believe she has blind trust in Ragini. She is her partner in crime is more like it



And no Swara should never go back to Lux. He is an extremely shallow & immature man. Living with kaan ke kacche log like Shekhar & Lux is extremely difficult. With such people you must always be armed with proofs & evidences. Zindagi bhar kya yahi tamasha karte rehna hai?

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