We then see her in the Birla house and back when I 1st watched it I hadn't picked up on how uncomfortable she had been with Yuvraj when they 1st got married (this is why her not pushing or wondering about them being physically actually made sense coz she was not comfortable with him). if u compare the 28 of august and 2 jan episodes u will see 2 diff girls. 28 august- u saw a girl unsure of herself, no confidence, u did not see her try and fit into his world and embrace it and be herself. And then if u watched the 2nd of jan episode when she met his friends u see a totally different person she is confident, she is talking to his friends, she is engaging them and entertaining them and her personality is coming through amazing. The major difference btw her august reaction to his friends and her jan reaction to his friends is that back than she could not feel the love that Yuvraj was supposed to have for her bt in Jan she did. So hence her ability to be herself is dependent on whether she feels loved from the person who is supposed to love he and if she doesn't u not gona see her being confident in herself and her being herself.
Yuvraj and his family's behavior towards Suhani is very bad and in the long ran could be very detrimental in how she perceives herself in the future and who the real Suhani is gona be. Coz they are in fact trying to change the way she is and modify her to how they want her to be especially Yuvraj. Yuvraj's words without thought, without understanding, u just do what u want to' is gona be a dialogue that is gona stay with her because when she goes forward in life she is probably gona watch every step she takes and for a person whose natural reaction is to react this will be hard. U are now altering how u react to things.
Suhani has not just sacrificed herself at the altar of love but she has given JerkRaj 99% power over her to the point that if he told her to kill herself she probably would. She never challenges him if he does something wrong, she does not change him she just allows him to be. Can u imagine the power 1 would feel to have such control over another person like this, imagine the sense of greatness that person would feel who in their right mind would actually want to let go of such a pathetic person? Yuvraj is the dominant, Suhani is the submissive until another loved 1 is in the picture and then she is not that. Yuvraj loses control over her when it comes to other people that she loves this is when their dominant /submissive r/ship changes coz she doesn't give him the attention he is used to. His reaction to Ankit might not have been actual jealousy because they had not done anything to warrant such looks and irritation from him but rather his feelings might have been coz of the fact that her attention was not on him her Master. With souyma again she is disobedient and does what she wants and when she does this she changes the equation of their r/ship and throws him of balance. She does not obey her Master' really this guy doesn't think he is a Prince he thinks he is her Master and she is his slave'. Their r/ship is just so 50 shades only thing there is no sex lol.
But back to her if u go back to the 1st episode u will see a Suhani who is not sure of herself it is actually snaky who was the confident 1, the bubbly 1, the go getter but now that is actually Suhani. So again in situations where she is not comfortable she is not confident and she will not go out and do anything. Even the scooter its souyma who taught her and forced her to learn how to use it and be bold Suhani did not want to learn. And dadi choosing the same sari for the kite day and I was very surprised to hear Suhani say that it was actually souyma who forced her to dress a certain or something like that when they were in college. So even in dressing something as simply as choosing clothes she probably does not even know her own style except to choose something she is comfortable with and is unadventurous in that.
In her love for the people around her she seems to change herself to suit them her words on the Christmas episode to the aunties that she doesn't change but rather she is the 1 who changes others is actually not true she has changed. 1 does not notice it because she is a good character and so her kindness is intact and she still treats people the same way but in her basic frame work she has changed. Her not standing up to dadi is the biggest change in her she has modified her reactions already to suit Yuvraj and his botox tramp of a dadi.
As for the goals/ aspiration part I cannot believe that the cvs did not bring up Suhani's work again in the show bloody b****rd. I dnt even know what she truly does.
I do think however that it is truly part of her nature to pamper and worry about the people around her she is naturally like this.
However love' is a powerful word for Suhani, really it is when she feels people are pulling away from her or changing she gets so clingy that she cannot and will not allow them to do this and wants to bring them back to the person she saw them as. For instance souyma the girl now wants to diet she changed her choice I know u find this weird but a normal person would mention it once or twice and then move on but Suhani does not allow a moment to go by where she would not try and force snaky to eat something oily.
Change, uncomfortability , not getting some1s love is something that makes Suhani uneasy and she feels she needs to do things for people to like her so hence her making their fav food or doing something they like is her way of bringing them closer to her. There is nothing wrong with this but she goes overboard and does not allow ppl to be.
Also with Suhani and dadi's initial scenes I always felt like Suhani could have a little dadi in her not talking about mentality but rather her rigidness and stubborn in having things done her way. Remember how she tried to get out of the fish spa and also the diwali issue about the fireworks she wanted things done her way she throw a bitch fit when they where lighting the fireworks. But again even this quality of hers has been changed byJerkraj.
I think the title means A beautiful girl right? But how will the woman end up being. So I think fans need to prepare themselves when Suhani finds out the truth to see some1 totally different coz if even now we do not know who she really is we will not recognize the person she will be after she finds out the truth. When a person is so extreme in nature there is no balance in a person so if a happy person is always cheerful and doesn't allow negative to enter them if something happens to make them unhappy the opposite would happen and they in their depression/sadness may not allow positive to come into their lives. This is why if after she finds out the truth yuvraj tries and is not successful in getting her back into his life and she moves away she needs a link to her past in the form of sharad and hopefully Ramesh to keep a bit of the person she was visible to her. The way she has tried to do with souyma.
I so wish Suhani was in an American show coz we could have maybe seen this character being handled properly really these Indian shows would never give us what we really want with such a character with their need for trps. It seems only if your name is neha yadav will any thought be given to your character.
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