I want Mata Kaikeyi to see Mithila through my eyes-Ram - Page 2

Exactly di
It is hard for us too the one who wants to stay with principles and morals , one who want to go by limits and values .
But they don't even spare us
I mean its like so irritating , u know what I am pointing at .I have seen my own friends getting into this .
I feel its going to be harder for me in the college .

Uff...don't even speak of today's generation re... They think acting matured then their age is a trend...

Kaikeyi gives importance to material gain. She wants to make Bharat king. That's the ultimate aim of her life. All 4 brothers are impressed with genuine knowledge capital Mithila. They understand the value of Gyan. Which Kaikeyi doesnt feel should be given importance to.
Ram's eyes can see what others cant. The inner peace which he could notice in Mithila, is rare to be found at other places.
Parents wants best for their childeren. But understanding of best differs as per personal thinking. He believes in making others understand his pov. So Kaikeyi gets more preference as he knows only she will have problem agreeing to his marriage.
A good concept is highlighted about family values. Here younger generation is quite understanding & is trying their best to convince Kaikeyi. Bharat too explains what Ram is for him & why he is right in his choice of Sita.
Kaikeyi being elder is acting like child, who needs lot of convincing & Bharat, Ram being younger are acting wise to make her understand the truth.
Role reversal, SKR style.

shruti,nice post and nice comments. sometimes when the elders make a mistake it is the duty of the younger genaration to stop or to rectifie it, that is raam trying to do. i think raam ji will succeed in it and will cure my headache reguarding kaikeyi.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@antika my take is more than 70% of the parents bend if you approach them the right way. Even among 30% only there will be some 10-15% who will go to extreme steps like honor killing. I will only advocate running away if there is a serious threat to life by parents of either side. Any other problem can be resolved through dialogue.

@charvi it is hard to walk by principles, but it is worth it. In 1999 when I joined B-Tech I was a small town girl and engineering college was not only the first time I was going into a mixed class but was also the first time I was seeing people outside my town. I remember I couldn't connect with half the girls reason being I didn't know many English authors, didn't understand brand names, didn't know what compact meant, had no clue on the word BF or GF. And well no one had any interest in what I knew mythology and Indian history. For boys I was a nerd, not the fashionista. Need to belong was so strong in me. I learned about cosmetics, I took books from people knew authors Sidney Sheldon to Jeffrey Archer, read about Harry Potter, infact I was changing, but still there was no acceptance. My marks were dwindling in this need to belong and it was somewhere in the beginning of 4th year I realized there is no point trying. I can never belong. Beyond a certain point I can never move along with them. Because the threshold had reached from where I will not walk another step. It was then I looked around and realized behind the glitz and glory there were simple people like me and if I had extended my hand of friendship to them, I would have been happier. I stepped out, reclaimed my individuality, concentrated on my classes and got through campus placement. One among just 50 students who got the placements in that year surprising many of the so called glamour friends of mine. My engineering college killed the innocence in me. But it also gave me something priceless, the ability to distinguish between good and bad. The ability to ascertain whom to trust, whom not to trust and this knowledge always comes in handy. So if you are in adverse circumstances, use that opportunity to learn. Even among those people there will be something to learn. Just like I have not regretted knowing about cosmetics and personal grooming and English books, stories outside the country etc...Know what to take, what to leave. Always observe and on guard. You will survive.

@jaya running away I meant elope and marry. All the steps you have said is correct. But I am not sure whether it is 2 year back or 3 year back there was an incident in Tamilnadu, where the couple got married. There was some caste issue. The girls parents along with community people went and burnt many houses in the boy's side as I guess he belonged to the lower caste. Then they used brute force, bought the girl back and the boy's corpse was found in the railway track. So if parents intend honor killing such parents one way or the other ensure they kill. It's a sad thing, but police is silent on this aspect. Actually where strong honor killing chance is there even running wont help as I have seen many Savdhann India episodes where even after going away the young couples are hunted and killed.

Originally posted by: mnx12

Kaikeyi gives importance to material gain. She wants to make Bharat king. That's the ultimate aim of her life. All 4 brothers are impressed with genuine knowledge capital Mithila. They understand the value of Gyan. Which Kaikeyi doesnt feel should be given importance to.
Ram's eyes can see what others cant. The inner peace which he could notice in Mithila, is rare to be found at other places.
Parents wants best for their childeren. But understanding of best differs as per personal thinking. He believes in making others understand his pov. So Kaikeyi gets more preference as he knows only she will have problem agreeing to his marriage.
A good concept is highlighted about family values. Here younger generation is quite understanding & is trying their best to convince Kaikeyi. Bharat too explains what Ram is for him & why he is right in his choice of Sita.
Kaikeyi being elder is acting like child, who needs lot of convincing & Bharat, Ram being younger are acting wise to make her understand the truth.
Role reversal, SKR style.

@Shruthi: I liked the way CV's maintained the character of kaikeyi. She was angry with dhasarath but her love for her beloved son Ram remains the same. This character of Kaikeyi is impressive for me. But as I said before, hope CV's show kaikeyi understands sita and mithila from Ram's letter or from others before even meeting Sita.

Ur take and connection with current scenario is quite beautiful.
i didnt read ur thread fully, will come back later😊