I want Mata Kaikeyi to see Mithila through my eyes-Ram

I am quite a happy viewer today. Because first thing Kaikeyi's problem was her broken expectation nothing hidden about it. When she hears Sita is orphan instead of listening to Manthara she pushes Manthara out and tells such a girl cannot be bride for her Ram. She wants Bharat to be at par with Ram, but as far as marriage goes she doesnt want anything less for Ram.

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Di once again a awesome post👏👏👏
Parents are the one who give their children a bright future good values. I agree with you di marriage is the biggest decision in everyone's life. And its natural that every parent wants the best person as a spouse in their child's life.And understanding parents feelings its the duty of every person.To make them understand as Ram did in todays's episode.Everyone including Bharat is displeased with his mothers opinion but Ram the way he understood Maharahi Kaikeyi's feelings👏👏👏The whole hearted consent of parents for the marriage is most important thing. Its the duty of every person to try and convince their parents for the relationship
One can marry going against parents will and wish but they realise the consequences later on and regret it.The worsest feeling in the world is to live alone. Two persons can never make the entire family and its because of their hasty decision they have to start their newly married life and lead the entire life with a guilt that why they did not try to convince their parents for their marriage

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@antika my take is more than 70% of the parents bend if you approach them the right way. Even among 30% only there will be some 10-15% who will go to extreme steps like honor killing. I will only advocate running away if there is a serious threat to life by parents of either side. Any other problem can be resolved through dialogue.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@antika my take is more than 70% of the parents bend if you approach them the right way. Even among 30% only there will be some 10-15% who will go to extreme steps like honor killing. I will only advocate running away if there is a serious threat to life by parents of either side. Any other problem can be resolved through dialogue.

Shruthi ...first of all...u write amazing posts...I love reading your topics and ur POV...👏 Plz continue writing such good things ya😳




One more thing as you said...if approached the right way a loving parent will always understand their child's situation...I feel mostly children today in the name of modernization take their parents lightly in this matter which is wrong

@cool thank you for the appreciation. Children need to understand that parents do have a wish for their kid, especially marriage. Just having that understanding itself will be a big step in solving the issue if a person falls in love. In some cases love happens, it is not pre-determined, especially in places where boys and girls frequently interact.

Another beautiful post di
I feel its true that the real apes the reel
I guess more or less the exposure of the media has stimulated the young minds to act in that extreme manner .
These young brains are getting too Mich exposed , the body is growing fast but the brain is working at the usual pace this worsens the situation.
Its even sometimes disgusting (sorry for the harsh word ) to hear my schoolmates talk about this thing , like they are 25 year old so depressed .
So , at one place we have this ever fastening young generation to take any bold step
On the other end if we seriously talk about honour killing which parent would want to kill his child , its the biradri the clan that comes in and this is actually the sole reason for honour killing
Again I know people might criticize siya ke ram for too much mordenity and they are right too , but I guess this was a much needed show to have incorporated these topics so well

@charvi SKR is taking Ramayan through society perspective only. Have they made Ram or Sita utter anything that is against the values Ram and Sita stood for. I would say no. But certain things are made explicit through dialogues which the younger generation needs.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@cool thank you for the appreciation. Children need to understand that parents do have a wish for their kid, especially marriage. Just having that understanding itself will be a big step in solving the issue if a person falls in love. In some cases love happens, it is not pre-determined, especially in places where boys and girls frequently interact.

Problem happens only rigid stands are taken. I love DDLJ movie for one big thing. The way Raj goes all out to convince Simran's dad that he is the ideal son -in-law for his daughter. Yes it was funny at times. But he had the option of running away with the girl, she was willing, he mother was willing still he persists with his approach. That movie is still relatable because of that factor I would say.