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khatimeethi

@khatimeethi

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Posted: 6 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: anshvi

If she falls for Ruhan and still married Veer then she will be more wrong

My point is she shouldn't have committed to him if she ever felt unsure

Now it's about choosing less wrong and more wrong for her

It is like a broken horse where u judge a person no matter what they do

If people only knew what happens tom , we would all have planned ahead

This exactly what show is showing that Mishti assumed she can plan her life in perfect manner ,which doesnt happen

So while Veer heart will break ,he will find someone who truly love him and Mishti will realise that life can be tricky and how you navigate is solution not advance planning

Mishti thought if she checks all boxes she will save a heartbreak and that is wrong lesson which she took from Mauli life and that is whole point

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khatimeethi

@khatimeethi

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Posted: 6 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: anshvi

Again a difference of opinion

M pont is quite clear a parnter leavig
The other without his fault despite being in a happy relation is wrong

It is a very rigid opinion my friend ,life is totally not that way

😳 And if it doesnt offend you ,how old are u ?

Because many times our thought process depends on stage of our life

You can ignore this if it offends

Edited by khatimeethi - 6 years ago

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sweetzzz

@sweetzzz

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Posted: 6 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: anshvi

If she falls for Ruhan and still married Veer then she will be more wrong

My point is she shouldn't have committed to him if she ever felt unsure

Now it's about choosing less wrong and more wrong for her

I know what you are saying. I think you have always stood to this. She either choose wrong or very wrong!!

But then the point is, we don't know how their relationship started, I mean veer and mishti's. S2 started off with their engagement. If their relationship truly started with love, we can say that she is wrong, but if it was arranged or if it was one sided, how can we claim her wrong in that case?

If she is wrong, every girl/boy who was loved one sided is wrong.

We need a back story to come to conclusions

Edited by sweetzzz - 6 years ago

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 6 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: anshvi

Not really ..for me leaving a partner despite no fault of his is wrong
It's a matter of different opinions

For you feelings are supposed to be constant you mean.

X and y love each other.

After some time y falls out of love with x and falls in love with z.

So it's y s fault for you as x still loves y . Feelings come with a 10 yr guarantee or what.

There are no guarantees in life. This is life . Life doesn't follow Mathematical principles so u cannot say y is wrong.

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anshvi

@anshvi

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Posted: 6 years ago

#65

I feel if one isn't happy in a relation then he or she goes looking for it someplace else

But if they are happy in a relation then I don't see the point of looking for happiness someplace else..but Here Mishti was more than happy with Veer

Precisely why said that makers either should have shown that MishVeer were facing problems but here they showed them as a happy couple so Mishti falling for someone else doesn't seem digestible or understandable at least this is what my opinion is

Edited by anshvi - 6 years ago

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Posted: 6 years ago

#66

till now I have known that there is no problem in relation between misveer. neither mishty complain about veer and nor veer never complain about mishty. when both don't have any problem with each other then how reach conclusion that there is no love between mishveer

if mishty realize that she is not love in with veer then cvs ko uska reason Dena chahiye ki aisa kya hua ki suddenly mishty realize that veer is not her love

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anshvi

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Posted: 6 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: khatimeethi
It is a very rigid opinion my friend ,life is totally not that way
😳 And if it doesnt offend you ,how old are u ?
Because many times our thought process depends on stage of our life
You can ignore this if it offends

Trust me when I say this that I am old enough to know how these things work

I am not even sure how old are those who compare relations with movie characters coz real life is not a movie

And relations are not based on trip and falls in real life

Also it isn't a rigid opinio..it's quite practical

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chicksoup

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Posted: 6 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: anshvi

If she falls for Ruhan and still married Veer then she will be more wrong

My point is she shouldn't have committed to him if she ever felt unsure

Now it's about choosing less wrong and more wrong for her

I hope you understand that Mishti is a flawed character. What you said is right. It was wrong of her to commit to Veer without forethought .

Mishti'so basis for choosing marriage itself and her approach to it was very flawed.

She believes her father cheated because her mother didn't give him enough time. That itself is the worst thinking she can have. It was never Maulis fault that Kunal chose Nandini.

Mishti has some twisted thinking whereby the thinks she has to approach life differently from her mother. Whatever she bases on this flawed thinking is going to turn into a mess. So yes, she has already created a mess.

Now it is up to her to know where she went wrong.

Sometimes when a partner leaves, it can be for the best. Mauli went through a lot of heart break. But Kunal was the only reason she got Ishaan who a way better human suited to her. In the end, life sorts itself out.

Edited by chicksoup - 6 years ago

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 6 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: anshvi
I feel if one isn't happy in a relation then he or she goes looking for it someplace else
But if they are happy in a relation then I don't see the point of looking for it someplace else

Precisely why said that makers either should have shown that MishVeer were facing problems but here they showed them as a happy couple so Mishti falling for someone else doesn't seem digestible or understandable at least this is what my opinion is

They don't do it consciously. It happens. It's not what you can control with your brain. It is the heart.

I got your point that you have been trying to make. But you may see ,maybe not now but say after many years that life is like that.

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anshvi

@anshvi

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Posted: 6 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: poiu123

For you feelings are supposed to be constant you mean.

X and y love each other.

After some time y falls out of love with x and falls in love with z.

So it's y s fault for you as x still loves y . Feelings come with a 10 yr guarantee or what.

There are no guarantees in life. This is life . Life doesn't follow Mathematical principles so u cannot say y is wrong.

That is what my problem is !

What is the reason of y falling out of love despite being in a happy relation ?

People move out of relations whrn they are unhappy and when they find someone who makes them happy

An idiot will leave a happy relation without any reason

Y is wrong if she is in a happy relation and yet falls for someone without any reason and dumps x whom she committed to and loved too apprantely

This is where the makers have faltered

By your logic Y can fall in and out of love many times without a reason

By your logic no one in this world should marry or commit

Edited by anshvi - 6 years ago