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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

there is difference between discussion and bashing/jumping to conclusions i hope you know that 😆


I know some time people give ott reaction & go extra vocal about that so that doesn't mean all are intention is bashing mishti. Maker are at fault here. They not understand how to present story. They desperately need teaching class from Ekta Kapoor 😆 Look her Kahane ko humsafar hai 2 end with most liking way & I' m sure she will come back with conviction season 3 just like Karle tu bhi mohabbat season 3 coming up now.








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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: amolaarohi


I know some time people give ott reaction & go extra vocal about that so that doesn't mean all are intention is bashing mishti. Maker are at fault here. They not understand how to present story. They desperately need teaching class from Ekta Kapoor 😆 Look her Kahane ko humsafar hai 2 end with most liking way & I' m sure she will come back with conviction season 3 just like Karle tu bhi mohabbat season 3 coming up now.


Kehne Ko Humsafar Hain has handled EMA in the non-traditional and unconventional way, and the show is far more mature and better-written than Silsila.

In both cases, I support and love the first wife: Poonam and Mauli. But the treatment is different.

Silsila makers need better writers.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Nandy141


What if she didn't want to be intimate with Veer having all those confused feelings in her mind ??
May be She is trying to stay loyal . She will sort out her feelings first rather than faking it for Veer

If she was shown happy and comfortable with Veer , she would be labelled as a two timer ..who is having feelings for Ruhaan and also enjoying with Veer.

So probably both the options are giving chances for Mishti to be bashed or judged .
We should wait for her to end this confusion in her mind .


Bold Black :

Completely agree with you that if she was happy and comfortable than she would be labelled as a two timer by people . I am not expecting she should be happy and comfortable with veer at this stage , all i am expecting is why to hesitate for normal hug with veer because even after her attraction , she still believes that she wants to save her relationship with veer and doesn't want to give up on relationship than why to given up by stopping self from saying I love you and giving back hug. She should overcome her hesitation which is there just because she is attracted to ruhaan .
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34
i guess she never loved veer...woh shidat wala pyaar nhi tha...if she was deeply in love with veer..she would never think of another man...BUT she is thinking about ruhaan..so it is very clear she is not serious about veer..i thought love marriage ho rhi dono ki but ab toh arrange marriage lagti hai...😛 i am actually happy to see when veer hugged mishti..she felt awkward...even ruhaan bhi palat gya tha...🥱..i hope jaldi realisation ho mishti ko aur veer ko chod de...veer bhi move on kare phir..🥱
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Posted: 6 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: amolaarohi


Tania you rightly stated dear. That is why we minority people are saying the same quite some times. Its look illogical. Writer need to buck up for mishaan progress but not in illogical way. Where they show Pari's gradually progression towards Ruhaan logical besides its one side from only pari's but hai toh sahi. But in Mishaan case they show illogical & very hasty with no basic plot.


For me mishti was never in love with veer . She was only expecting secure and set life with forever commitment to save herself from the situation from where her mother once passed .

At the age of 23/24 she was completely unaware what is true love and how much it is important to be in marriage forever . As per her mother's life experience , she concluded that secure , set and perfect life is everything to survive in marriage so she highly misunderstood secure ,set , perfect life with commitment ideology can give her PERFECT MARRIAGE .

The base of her marriage decision is very weak because it was clear for me since day 1 that she was never in love with veer , all she was doing was running behind secure , set and committed life which is not at all good enough for healthy marriage life. She has not aware about what is love and how much it is essential for healthy marriage . Of course trust , maturity , mutual respect everything matter in marriage but LOVE is front wheel when it comes to marriage.

I am not at all saying she is in love with ruhaan at this stage but it was clear for me since episode 1 that this girl has highly misunderstood the word marriage by setting base only around secure , set and perfect life. Unfortunately there is no parents to guide her that marriage can't be long lasting with the only mindset of secure , set and perfect definition of marriage.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: SONAL30

see sometimes i feel that every fandom knows one thing...that we can't compare mishri's situation be it Mishveer mishaan rihaan pranav even riveer fandom...anyone left 🤪

Pari is single n we accept it or not mishti isnt single so her falling for a guy when she seems clearly happy with veer is completely absurd
I appreciate her efforts that she is trying really hard to neglect her feeling towards ruhaan
But here the question remains same...Why Ruhaan over veer...i know mishaan r endgame but i just can't connect to them
Rest i dont want to comment on pari n mishti's situation coz i know pari is pari single n mishti is not


I will tell you why Ruhan over veer. Because as pari sees Ruhan as great guy Misty too can see that. Though she don't want to acknowledge that but that doesn't mean that she don't know that Ruhan is a good man even after her immense hatred he has never done anything worng towards her family he has been a great support for Pari ansh and dadi.

She don't acknowledge these things but she do know that.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poorabhforever


well i think she even refused to acknowledge even to herself you know trying to fake there nothing has changed that everything is as it but it was not the case she was trying to fool herself even her anger i was a defence mechanism she was fooling herself but now slowly and steadily she was acknowledge that no something is wrong that something has changed which is good that instead of running away from her problems she has decided to face it boldly she even had a monologue about this yesterday that she will no more ignore ruhaan who is the cause her messed up life but will face it bravely and will not let anything happen to her perfect life

but in course of time as you said she will reliase that misunderstood her feelings for ruhaan that mistook commitment for love and them she will ambicably break up


Veer is nice guy but at this stage neither she is in love with veer nor with ruhaan . This secure , set , perfect and committed life mindset will going to create more mess in her life. Base of marrying veer or any of guy is really weak . She should stop running behind secure , set , perfect and commitment words because she is using them to drive her life and highly misunderstanding word called marriage .

Why ruhaan over veer is not important at this stage but NO MISHVEER MARRIAGE is very important at this stage because veer should not suffer because of mishti's faulty definition on marriage which is only revolves around secure ,set and perfect words . Neither mishti nor veer deserves marriage .

Ruhaan is again not in this picture for me . It's only about mishveer and marriage.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#38
Today showing mishti very uncomfortable with Veer omg it mins wo idiot se love...👏
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: br200910

<font color="#ff33cc">Today showing mishti veryuncomfortable with Veer omg it mins wo idiot se love...👏</font>



No it doesn't mean wo idiot se love , it means secure, set , perfect, committed life is not sufficient for marriage and can't become base of marriage with any guy in world fir chahe koi bhi ho veer , ruhaan ya koi tisra.

Veer se strong love hota to Aj wo yaha khadi nai hoti . Her faulty mind set is reason behind every mess of her life .

Ruhaan ko jiske bhi sath set karna he karo atleast mishti ko secure , set , perfect , commitment jaise words ke piche bhagna bandh karna hoga otherwise uski or veer dono ki life kharab hogi.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: sweet_tania



For me mishti was never in love with veer . She was only expecting secure and set life with forever commitment to save herself from the situation from where her mother once passed .

At the age of 23/24 she was completely unaware what is true love and how much it is important to be in marriage forever . As per her mother's life experience , <font color="#ff0000"><font size="4">s</font><font size="4">he concluded that secure , set and perfect life is everything to survive in marriage so she highly misunderstood secure ,set , perfect life with commitment ideology can give her PERFECT MARRIAGE </font></font><font size="4">.</font>

<font size="2">The base of her marriage decision is very weak because it was clear for me since day 1 that she was never in love with veer , all she was doing was running behind <font color="#ff0000">secure , set and committed life </font>which is not at all good enough for healthy marriage life. She has not aware about what is love and how much it is essential for healthy marriage . Of course trust , maturity , mutual respect everything matter in marriage but LOVE is front wheel when it comes to marriage.</font>

<font size="2">I am not at all saying she is in love with ruhaan at this stage but it was clear for me since episode 1 that this girl has highly misunderstood the word marriage by setting base only around secure , set and perfect life. Unfortunately there is no parents to guide her that marriage can't be long lasting with the only mindset of secure , set and perfect definition of marriage.</font>



It was shown in the first episode. She says Veer is perfect for me that's Why I am marrying him.

It's not that she loves Veer that's why she marries him. It's more like Veer is perfect for me that's why I love him. You can't love based on conditions. That's not real love.

If some day Veer turns out to be less than perfect, then she will stop loving him it seems. You can't choose and fall in love calculatively. Love happens.

So Mishti is not in love with Veer as such.

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