Using hatred for a child to gain sympathy - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

62

Views

6k

Users

19

Likes

314

Frequent Posters

poiu123 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#11
Off course Ishaan feels insecure. He has admitted to feeling jealous and insecure to Mauli before. It does not matter he suggested to Mauli to be in the Malhotra house. He said it out of goodness in his heart for Pari, Radhika and Dida. He was sorry for the child. He had admitted on the first day itself it would be difficult for him and Mauli was well aware of that.

In today scene he was not sulking. That is reserved for Kunal baby. He thought about Pari s words and the flashes passed through his mind.
He just told Mishti he will not feel bad if Mishti chooses her bio father not him. It has nothing to do with Mauli. Yes, the truth is he will feel very bad , before you accuse him of lying !! But he only wanted to set Mishti free .

As for placing Mauli and Mishti s happiness over everyone else, he is not Kunal who placed Nandini s happiness over everyone else.
Edited by poiu123 - 6 years ago
CIDfan4ever thumbnail
6th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: poiu123



She will make Pari grey in S2 . The jealous sister. Probably wanting revenge or something. Or maybe not grey just black.

Usually the kids of good hearted people become bad in most serials...I have a feeling they will make Mishti negative after leap..
Sudharies thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Micro Phobia Contest Participant Thumbnail + 8
Posted: 6 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Luv_pariansh

HI, how are you?
We are in different teams? Breaks my heart..

I just don't find Ishaan, a very realistic character, his behavior or actions do not match the environment. He met Kunal, Pari, Dida and Radhika through Mauli and Mishti... For any person who is marrying Mauli, the first priority would be Mauli and Mishti, but his actions are more like they want to show a selfless character...

They don't work to build his character, they just have to show that he is a nice guy, but there should be a character arc, right? He is not here to contest for the best man on planet earth, he is here to show that he is better for Mauli than anyone else and when I see him taking help from Kunal, then not telling Mauli about it (He hasn't told her yet) or Mauli crying in front of him that she can't go through what she went through before but he asked her to help Kunal... He is good, he is selfless, he cares about other people... I don't care about that, I want to see his relationship with Mauli, he should have stood for Mauli instead of literally throwing her back to her past...


In today's scene, Pari was talking about her family, Ishaan is not a part of pari's family and Kunal is not a part of Mishti's family... Did Mishti ever include Kunal in her family? So why would anyone expect Pari to include Ishaan in her family?

Anyway, I made this post after I read that people want to slap Pari and she is irritating... She is just 4, Gajra uses this hatred that people have for her to gain sympathy for other people, again Ishaan didn't react to the circumstances as I stated that Mauli was never so comfortable with him, for past few days she has actually been very comfortable with him, can't he sense this change in her? Before that she used to give weird expressions whenever marrying Ishaan or being in his proximity was concerned, now they share a good bond, but he didn't react to these new developments, they just wanted to show that he is mahan so they gave that scene with Pari...

Why would he feel insecure?

1 He sent Mauli there
2 Mauli told him that living with Kunal is a torture
3 Mauli has changed so much in his direction
4 he knows that Mishti loves him

But unnecessarily bachi ko gali khilwani thi Gajra ko do she just added the scene

I'm doing great, hope you're fine as well.
Bold@ Lol this breaks my heart too, 😆but it's alright, to have different perspectives once for a change ...

Coming to Ishaan's character development, maybe watching and reading updates may make our opinions differ in this as I haven't watched these episodes... Ishaan may not be realistic, but he loves Mishti and most importantly Mauli . He's ready to give the happiness we all craved for Mauli to have. Not just a man, but a person who can love her as she is , and make her feel confident about herself which was taken away from her by Kunal. I guess that's what as a fan I wanted I'm fine even if his character isn't developed well. But as far as I've seen he looks a guy who wants to spend his life with Mauli and being a father to Mishti...

Coming to his current insecure feelings, I find it natural . When there's a situation he asked Mauli to act, as that was needed so that Kunal can get better, so that Radhika , Dida and Pari (whom he cares for )can have Kunal back to normal soon. But he's also a normal human who couldn't handle the insecure feelings... Anyways it's all perspectives , so understandable that you aren't able to relate to Ishaan, just the way I can't relate to a Mahaan Kunal..

Sone people tend to become overtly hateful towards characters whom they can't relate to or tolerate. Can't do anything about that... If i speak tot myself, I definitely not hate her but just found her act and talk above her age... Otherwise she's just a small child, she definitely doesn't deserve such hatred like Kunan deserve.

Edited by Luv_PaRiAnSh - 6 years ago
Squadmishali thumbnail
6th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#14
I don't find Pari annoying, reason? She is four year kid who only had her father as family ,now she enjoyed her day with her Mauli aunty ,Mishti, dida and dadi. .Come on guys have at least some sympathy for this girl who was describing the happiest day of her life..
And why will she include Ishaan? Won't it be weird to say papa, Mauli aunty ,tum, dadi ,dida and Ishaan uncle we are one big happy family? 😆

It was very natural, and trust me Ishaan didn't even had to feel bad about it and make Pari the villain here..


Indira1211 thumbnail
Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail 7th Anniversary Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 6 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: poiu123

Off course Ishaan feels insecure. He has admitted to feeling jealous and insecure to Mauli before. It does not matter he suggested to Mauli to be in the Malhotra house. He said it out of goodness in his heart for Pari, Radhika and Dida. He was sorry for the child. He had admitted on the first day itself it would be difficult for him and Mauli was well aware of that.

In today scene he was not sulking. That is reserved for Kunal baby. He thought about Pari s words and the flashes passed through his mind.
He just told Mishti he will not feel bad if Mishti chooses her bio father not him. It has nothing to do with Mauli. Yes, the truth is he will feel very bad , before you accuse him of lying !! But he only wanted to set Mishti free .

As for placing Mauli and Mishti s happiness over everyone else, he is not Kunal who placed Nandini s happiness over everyone else.

...Kunal did not place Nandinis happiness above everyone else ..he placed his own happiness above everyone else. He was selfish ...he went after nandu because he wanted her ...if nandu had wanted him and he had not wanted her then he would not have looked at her ...lol 😆 but I know you were saying the same thing as me.,That Kunal is selfish but Ishaan is not ,..
xXRzmastiXx thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#16
Who said kids cannot be annoying ? Pari indeed is annoying and selfish like her parents. I hope Kunal and his daughter can just go somewhere far after mauhaan reunion. Ishan was not upset with pari he was just thinking about whole scenario because he has common sense unlike selfish Kunal. He didn't even once think about his dida or mother in all these years. Pari is suffering due to her parents selfishness which is not her fault. But unknowingly she has the same habits her parents have!!

Even at one point mishti was annoying when she misbehaved with pari when she discovered Kunal cheated on her mum. She locked pari in bathroom ect.
Edited by xXRzmastiXx - 6 years ago
Chika_pika_rika thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#17
Neither anyone hates pari nor we have sympathy for Ishaan(some may have) We just don't like the trials she has of her mother like ignoring the one's who has genuinely helped you
FruitToasty thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Luv_PaRiAnSh

I'm doing great, hope you're fine as well.
Bold@ Lol this breaks my heart too, 😆but it's alright, to have different perspectives once for a change ...

Coming to Ishaan's character development, maybe watching and reading updates may make our opinions differ in this as I haven't watched these episodes... Ishaan may not be realistic, but he loves Mishti and most importantly Mauli . He's ready to give the happiness we all craved for Mauli to have. Not just a man, but a person who can love her as she is , and make her feel confident about herself which was taken away from her by Kunal. I guess that's what as a fan I wanted I'm fine even if his character isn't developed well. But as far as I've seen he looks a guy who wants to spend his life with Mauli and being a father to Mishti...

Coming to his current insecure feelings, I find it natural . When there's a situation he asked Mauli to act, as that was needed so that Kunal can get better, so that Radhika , Dida and Pari (whom he cares for )can have Kunal back to normal soon. But he's also a normal human who couldn't handle the insecure feelings... Anyways it's all perspectives , so understandable that you aren't able to relate to Ishaan, just the way I can't relate to a Mahaan Kunal..

Sone people tend to become overtly hateful towards characters whom they can't relate to or tolerate. Can't do anything about that... If i speak tot myself, I definitely not hate her but just found her act and talk above her age... Otherwise she's just a small child, she definitely doesn't deserve such hatred like Kunan deserve.


I am doing well, thanks for asking *hugs*

I do watch this show and I loved Ishaan on his entry, I didn't like that he was cordial with Kunal then took his help, the fact that he hasn't told Mauli the truth yet is baffling considering Mauli tells him each and everything from the beginning and its not a small thing by any measure...

Very underdeveloped character, Mauli has similar traits, she is trusting, she is loving, she is selfless but Mauli has an amazing character arc, she clicked from episode one. It's a TV show, I don't take inspiration from it, I watch it for the characters only, they are not human, I don't have an undying loyalty to them, when I see a 30 year old man crying over a 4 years old child not including him in his family is just bizarre to me...

There should have been a proper build up to this scene, this particular scene with Mishti is a very important scene, Mishti won't let him go no matter what but this scene was aftermath of Pari talking about her happy family, makes me think it's just a cry for sympathy ..

It's weird how he is not thinking about Mauli's changed attitude towards him, if anything he should be happy that she is finally hugging him with such an ease, it's a big deal for their characters because they have shown Mauli hesitant towards him but it's like Gajra has one and only motto for ishaan - Mahan... That's it..

Mauli is a somewhat same character but she reacts according to her situations, it was very real to see her refusing Dida when she literally begged her to help Kunal... Mauli is a nice human being, very selfless, very loving but very sensible and always realistic.. ..
vib. thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 6 years ago
#19
Just a question - are you either the Rabiya person or the Nidhi person from twitter?
Because that is such a wrong and blind analysis. Ishaan wasn't sulking, he was just seeing how happy Pari was and if Mishti wants to go ahead and want a family like Pari does she shouldn't hold back because of him. He wasn't telling her to do anything he was just not letting himself stop her.

p.s : I tried to resist it since long but yes Pari is coming off as annoying and selfish. Even if it shouldn't matter one can think about what a child wants.
FruitToasty thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: vib.

Just a question - are you either the Rabiya person or the Nidhi person from twitter?

Because that is such a wrong and blind analysis. Ishaan wasn't sulking, he was just seeing how happy Pari was and if Mishti wants to go ahead and want a family like Pari does she shouldn't hold back because of him. He wasn't telling her to do anything he was just not letting himself stop her.

p.s : I tried to resist it since long but yes Pari is coming off as annoying and selfish. Even if it shouldn't matter one can think about what a child wants.


Wow!!!!

Way to attack people for a tv show. BTW I am neither of them but thanks for letting me know that I am not the only one who thinks this way...

Do you realize that different people interpret different scenes in different ways?

One interpretation is that Pari is annoying because she didn't include Ishaan in her family and hurt him.. That's OK.. Because a 4 years old is supposed to add someone she has no emotional or any connection with in her family just because he took care of her... Makes total sense...
That's what we all do, no? Ask young kids to let everyone who is good to her in her close circle and if she doesn't she is annoying and should be slapped... Again this makes sense too...

Ishaan felt bad because Pari didn't include him in her family list, I see it as a grown up 30 years old man making feeling bad/sulking over a 4 years old spending some time with her family...


Pari is just 4, since when kids are selfless, they don't even share chocolate...

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".